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Lady Hewitt
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Ask him what she is doing there. Tell and show him what you found and watch his expression as he tries to answer the question. If need be take him on the Maury show and have him take a lie detector test. Why would he have a picture if it is just business??? Does not make sense to me and this seems suspicious. |
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Cheryl G
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GET OUT!!! He is a CHEAT!!! |
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m15
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If you can, hire a private investigator to follow your husband to see if your suspicions are valid.
If they are, you will have to decide what to do about your marriage.
If they are not, perhaps you and your husband should call the police or get a restraining order. |
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PrettyEskimo
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I think it's time for you guys to go your seperate ways... otherwise I think we'll be seeing you on Jerry sooner then later. |
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He is already getting on with her. Seriously. Watch out. They are playing you for the fool. What a punk your husband. |
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marti
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You and your husband TOGETHER need to get this woman out of your hair!! I would explain this to my husband very clearly and make him understand that it is absolutely necessary that you show in a united way that her actions are unacceptable and that she needs to leave both of you alone. |
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Seldom Seen
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Your issue is more with your husband than with this woman.
You need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him about your concerns.
It takes two to tango so if your husband is not doing what he should to discourage this woman's behavior, then he is either involved with her or he is clueless. |
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the_watcher_74
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***READ THIS ONE, PLEASE***
You know your husband. Has he recently changed some things about himself? Has he started to work-out seemingly out of the blue? is he taking more time than would normally be usual for personal grooming? Has he changed his appearance, such as clothing or hairstyle? When your intimate, is he trying new things, or asking you to do things in a different way? If you answer yes to any of these questions, you may need to take a closer look at the person you are married to. If it appears to you that he is the same man as you married, than it may be that this woman is being vindictive. Maybe she made an advance on your husband and he turned her down and now she wants to make him suffer by putting doubt in you head. As I said at the beginning, YOU KNOW YOUR HUSBAND, and you will know if things have subtly changed, or not. |
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a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net
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As you described this Woman it seems like she is a person to be considered almost dangerous, if I were you I would have called the authorities and make a report on her for Harassment, and also a peace bond, I am sure that if you do that and she still tries to stalked you, then she will be arrested, and be in jail. She sounds like she might be disturbed or some of her marbles are missing, if you know what I mean. Maybe your Husband had something to do with her, so, she thinks that gives her the right to get angry. Remember there is no wrath like a Woman scorned, is so true, with a woman like this one. I hope that you will be able to find a solution to this big problem you are facing, because it is scary to have someone like this Woman be stalking you and your Husband. If he really was the culprit with what is happening to you both, shame on him. |
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theweddingvase
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Seriously! If you believe that he is doing business with her all those times and he does what line of work?....Uhhhh, wake up honey! Do you trust him? Obviously not if you are on here asking for others opinions. Re-Examine your relationship and call Dr. Phil! |
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Alex B
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I would ask your husband about the picture. I dont know how he would explain having a picture of someone who's "just a client" in his wallet. I dont know how you could figure out for sure if they have something going on, unless you followed them or hired someone to do that. Good luck! I hope everything works out! |
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cardgirl2
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Mention that she is harrassing you and leaving threatening messages and then tell your husband that you found a photo of her in his wallet. See what he says. If he says you had no right to look in his wallet, then tell him he has no right to have a photo of this psycho in his wallet. You must get to the bottom of this. She looks like a fatal attraction psycho and if she comes near your home again or leaves more threatening messages, always have a tape recorder ready, tape her threat and then report it to the police. Make sure you get a police report on record if she continues to harrass you. Also get your husband involved. Why should you be enduring this yourself. If he is not guilty of anything, then he should tell her to back off and get lost. This woman could be dangerous. |
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samuraistudman
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Divorce him. |
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Littlesby
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DIVORCE - life is too short for that! |
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Beth G
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he is a dog i was in a simular situation he is cheating tell him everything the say i want a divorce because aint nothing going to clean this up trust is gone if there is no trust there is nothing no respect love or what once was leave him he made his bed make him lie in it |
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Adara
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my guess would be he's sleeping with her. Talk to him about it calmly. If you think your relationship can be mended, try to. If not (most likely not) you should leave him. |
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Shyanne L
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Hey Babe ,you are way to beautiful and special to put up with being put on the back burner . Simply tell your man it's either you or her , since taking the issue to her and her being a decent woman about it she turned out crazy. Its all up to him making her leave him alone for good. Stay strong and if you don't get your way tell him to kick gravel and travel...... |
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Icewomanblockstheshot
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You're in trouble, big time. I would see a lawyer, and have him contact her. That should do it. |
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michelebaruch
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Report it to the police, so at least if something bad happens it will be on record. |
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wongfiehung2003
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you better tell him you got her picture, and you should get a restraining order against that wacko, she could make some serious problems, IF, and i mean a big IF your hubby is hiding a secret.. so be cautious. good luck. |
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Anomaly
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If you can afford it, hire a PI. If you can't take a day off from work or leave early and go to her work, if you know where it is and what time she leaves. Confront her in the parking lot and ask her what she needs to get out on the table. After that you can go get your husband's side of the story. You'll know who's lying. |
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Pie Lover
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First, when she calls sometimes hand the phone to your husband. Then get your other phone and listen in. If that dosen't work, talk to your husband and tell him that it is getting serious. |
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charles s
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If it werent for the picture I say she sounds like a psyco, who might be trying to cause trouble. But if he is carring a picture of her, either he is seeing her, or she gave him one and she crazy so he put it in his wallet, but he should have told you if that were the case. |
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nfgatcer
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let everyone in the Family know what is going on so that your husband can own up to it. this will get him on your side in getting her out of your lives, alone you will fail, in force you will have Victory!!!! |
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chemreaction
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wow, your married so there is no easy way out of this. All ways lead to confrontation, I recommend catching him in the act. This is not business anymore, something is going on! Dont be the one caught snooping through the others things. Not the way to support your arguement. He will end up saying" I cant believe your snooping through my things" I would also stop trying to contact this woman, to much drama and who knows the true story. Investigate further and find out with your own eyes. if it continues I know a great investigator |
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family fan
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well i would go to my husbands work as much as possible and keep an eye and see how much she come in there or calls there if she came in there i would point blank ask her in front of him what it was she wanted to get out on the table make her say it in front of him and then watch his reaction to see if he looks or acts guilty ,maybe she is a old flame and keeps wanting more , and trying to blackmale him for some reason , never know now if she has his cell number then make him change it and then tell him if she gets it again you know he gave it to her have your home number changed or her number blocked to where she can not call your home , but i would face her infront of him i would point blank ask her what her problem is and why she wanted to meet with you and get everything out on the table that way your hubbie knows she is talking to you |
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me
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He is such a cheater!!!! Listen to yourself and read your own email. It's so obvious.... |
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lz_adam
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I would be making a special trip to her. Would make sure she didnt know I was coming and pop in on her. If she keeps it up she could be considered staking and you can file charges on her. |
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♣Hey jude♣
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She sounds crazy. It almost sounds like he may have made a mistake with her & now she's not letting go.
Perhaps you should tell your husband your concerns. |
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kathy p
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SWEETIE THIS DOESN'T SOUND TO GOOD. COULD SHE POSSIBLY BE UPSET ABOUT A JOB HE DID FOR HER? WHAT EVER YOU DO, DON'T MEET WITH HER. AT LEAST NOT BY YOURSELF. I'M AFRAID FOR YOU. THE PICTURE YOU FOUND WASN'T A BUSINESS CARD JUST A PHOTO? WELL THEN SOMETHING IS UP, AND I THINK YOUR HUSBAND MADE A TERRIBLE MISTAKE, MESSING WITH HER. IF YOU CONTINUE TO RECEIVE THREATENING MESSAGES I WOULD CALL THE POLICE. JUST PLEASE BE CAREFUL AND TALK THIS OUT WITH YOUR HUSBAND. CONFRONT HIM ABOUT THE PICTURE, I WOULD. GOOD LUCK.. |
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tastyflow
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wow how many cars does she own? where do i begin? Take the picture and place it on the dinner table.Calmly explain how you were getting extra money and found it. Get the phone with both of on the line and have him end it. Either you or her. However during the conversation inform him of her tricks. If after the call ends he is not repentant then get proof and a divorce. Good Luck |
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