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I found a strippers number in my husbands wallet what should i do?
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I found a strippers number in my husbands wallet what should i do?



    




?
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call her up and set up a date for the 3 of you ...


hotchic
How do you know it was a strippers number?


wrfine
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call her and hire her for a surprise stripper for your hubby and see what his reaction is!!


love
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Ask your husband who the girl is and if he doesn't answer then you call her and find out what the hell is going on.


zeekandthefam
Confront him on it. Then be aware of his behaviour. That is not a good thing to find.


Wiser1
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Well, how do YOU know she's a stripper? Did you call her? Did you talk to him? Is it his handwriting or could a pal of his put the number there? Is he hiring her for someone's bachelor party? I mean, there are all kinds of explanation. I think you should, um, TALK to him and ask him about it.


Valerie X
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How do you know she is a stripper?!

Did it say 312.633.7888 (Sally the stripper)

LMAO!!!!


Moron
put the number back and moniter him closely. whenever he goes somewhere u go somewhere. try not to make u look suspicous


quik66gto
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It's obvious isn't it? You were digging in his wallet {which says you don't trust him} and that is just like him going through your purse or reading your diary. TiSK TiSK TiSK. So obviously you can tell him you violated his trust and beg forgivness OR you can call her over for a Menage' a' Trois' and hope he forgives you OR pack and leave. He already found your replacement...but what did you do to make him look for one to begin with????


Saint Christopher Walken
...what 'hotchic' said...

...just curious...
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centrline
get lots of 1dollar bills ready


annieboston123
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get your hubby in check - call the stripper and let her know who you are - try stripping for your hubby -


Emmy
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trash the paper watch him and talk to him


Kat G
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In order for you to be going through his wallet then there is a trust issue. I would make an enlarged photo copy of the number and put it all over the house. See what he has to say.
If he makes an issue of you finding the number rather then why he has it. Time to decide if you want to stay with a man who cheats or continue on this roll a coaster ride you have been living.


siciliangy69
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dont throw it away, and dont wait for the right time, when u two r together, take the number and confront him about it, and dont take no **** from him,


Stephen K
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Ask him to call the girl at home, because you want to see all the line-up.


VortexHunter
Pretend like you don't know about it and keep tabs on him. Hire a private investigator or someone you know that your husband doesn't know and get them to follow your husband. Maybe the stripper slipped it in his pocket and maybe he was going to throw it away but forgot. Don't get carried away too soon, Maybe its a joke his friends were playing with him, or maybe as some have suggested earlier, he is planning his friend's bachelor party, you don't know cause you weren't there, but just in case he is seeing her, keep tabs on him and pretend like you don't know about it, go about things normally and let him go about his day like he normally would, IF he is cheating on you then you will find out soon enough, IF it was all BS and nothing happens then you can confront him about it. OR if you want to know now, then find a way to talk to him about it, ask him if there is anything he'd like to tell you, if there are any friends that are getting married in the near future (try to find out if he's planning a bachelor party) or if there is anything that has happened that he would like to talk to you about. If all of that goes nowhere hire that private eye or person to follow your husband.

Good luck to you and I hope you find a solution soon. Take care.


noway
Confront him.

You could be putting yourself at risk if he is boinging them.


doo doo head
confront him and talk to him about it, how do you know they belong to strippers anyway?


lwomar
Confont him asap. There is no reason why he should have someone elses number when he has a wife. This is a red flag. He may not be cheating but this is how it usually begins. You might also want to look into counseling, if he has a shitt* attitude when you confront him, or gets extremely defensive, it may be time to look into getting a divorce as your worst fear may have already happened. Good luck.


Truth Hurts, Get over It
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ask him why he has a strippers number.
how do you know it's a stripper?
is it a business card?
does he have a friend that's getting married soon, or is involved in bachelor party planning?

don't jump the gun, ask some questions.


blackdeath452
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give it to me


mikebnchprss
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Unless you KNOW he's planning someones bachalor party.......kick him out.


Colleen O
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He is YOUR husband YOU decide what to do.


squared away
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hire her to come over and strip for you and your husband. Just because a number is in his wallet don't mean he is cheating. maybe he somewhere and she was just passing out her card and he put it in his wallet.( I don't believe this but it's possible)


NotAgain
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Call her up and take lessons.

Geez....


Dawn S
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Why were you going thru his wallet? Trust must be an issue. Show him what you found & ask questions


Al Rozz
Do nothing. Sometimes if you are alerted on something you never jump to conclusions.

You must now become the investigator and solve this mystery of the strippers number and the next thing is what were you doing in your husbands wallet?

If you have no trust you have nothing already. He's as good as gone and probably has been seeing this stripper for sometime now.
She may have won him over already.

YOU may have lost your husband already and your just going to feed the fire by bringing it to his attention.

I would sit back and use your brain God gave you and think intelligently how to make this a most embarrasing moment for him once you have your facts and have made up your mind that you don't want him after you know for a fact that he has slept with her.
You plan the capade and execute and the funny thing is that you just dont' see it in the movies, you make it a reality.


SexRexRx
...and pray tell, how do you know it is a stripper's number? Aren't you being a little paranoid and jealous? Have you asked him? And WTF were you going through his wallet for any way? Pffft


Fish
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If the stripper in question is on this web site I might be able to help. www.striparama.com.au


American Beauty
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If you can first explain why you were going through his wallet, ask your husband what is going on. Otherwise, throw the number away and say nothing.





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