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I found this message on my hubby's cell phone do you think he may be cheating on me?

He received this message:
FWD:CNN reports a retard escaped from a mental home . One million dollar reward. U know I love U, but I need the money... where u at?

It can be a sort of joke but I do not like the i love u part, however the fact it is forwarded makes me think it's a joke. Opinions please?
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I am not snooping, he forgot his cell and received a message and I always check it because it might be important and related to his job.


    




video production
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I got that same message from one of my old highschool friends a couple of weeks ago. The message said all of that including the I love u part. The person that got it just probably forwarded to your husband too. I wouldn't worry.


that judi
This is what happens when you snoop.....and let your imagination run wild. You must have suspected something to snoop in the first place. Why not talk to hubby about your trust issues?


jwalkr_83
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LoL.. My husband gets these jokes all the time. It's nothing. THe love u part.... it's like a dude saying "I luv ya man". Take a deep breath... everything's fine.


maggiemae363
I would definitely ask him about it. BTW why are you checking his phone messages?


mezwood
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JOKE. Funny one too.


Johnny O
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If I were you I would turn in your retarded husband yourself and claim the 1 million dollar reward. Problem solved!


purplepunch
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its just one of those jokes u get, and the I LOVE YOU part is just part of the joke the person has forwarded, so dont be paranoid i get them all the time!


homemaker
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sounds more like a joke than anything. I would not read too much into it. Wait till he gets home and ask him if you are that bothered by it. It could be a friend teasing him by saying you know I love you... where are you. Meaning basically his friend, even a close friend would sell him out for some mega money or his friend is teasing by saying he's crazy. Why would you think, just based on this one text message that your husband would be cheating on you? The usage of the wors I love you does not mean it would be a romantic or intimate type of thing. Don't worry about it. But like I said, if it bothers you, ask him about it when he returns home from work today.


Lola N
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was it sent from a girl? it probably was a joke have faith in him.


littleviv2000
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Uuuuhhh, read the REST of it, you know the "Retard escapes, I need the money where are you at" part?


Man in Black
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The "U know I love U, but I need the money.....where u at?" is something I've seen in emails before but never in a text message. Its a pretty common way to try to invoke a response by answering "What money?.....who are you?"

Answering confirms that the email address is good, and also is evidence that the sender and receiver have an ongoing relationship so that future correspondence would not be considered SPAM. The sender isn't a friend of your husband's, just a spammer.

You would be best off, asking your husband about the message; but then you would have to admit that you have been snooping. :-)


Sasha's Mommy
I have actually received this joke and seen it floating around. The whole message is the joke, including the I love you part. My husband and I both sent it out to our friends (male and female). Doesn't mean we love them or are in love with them. It's a funny joke. I don't think it means anything and if that's all you have to be suspicious, you should let it go and not worry about it. It's no big deal.


redpeach_mi
it's a joke. if it was a forward, then whomever sent it did not put that in there. maybe. i wouldn't think too much of it. who did it come from?


honest guy
It's a joke, I got one exactly like it from a friend. You have nothing to worry about. The I love you is not a romantic "I Love YOU" it's like a close friendship. Havent your friends ever said " You know I love you, but... then told you how your doing wrong on some issue. The same thing here. The friend is saying you know I love you, but I need a million dollars, where are you at


bootsontheroad
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There is a radio station here that sends that kind of stuff. All it takes is texting them for a contest. Guess what, the sponsor of the contest is a Cell phone company. it is called profit margin.


catherina c
ah you were having a little snoop, admit it.... was it from an unknown number?, ring into the voicemail from your own phone, but set it on private first!! if your that worried, itll more than likely have a voice msg to say who they are.


hiswife
looks like a joke someone has sent him. Dont worry about it.


gh0st
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It's not cheating friend. As for the part about you checking your husband's cell phone...I don't agree with it at all.


JOE
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IT a FWD

Meaning who ever sent it, sent it to someone ELSE first and then Forwarded it to your husband. to see what was sent

the CNN reports a retard escaped from a mental home . One million dollar reward

Is a joke implying he is the escaped retard

U know I love U, but I need the money.. this is the JOKE
I need the money more than you

. where u at?

so I can turn you in.


ITS like those crazy emails, people fwd, funny texts.

M


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Since its a forwarded message it seems like a joke. Why not just ask your hubby; you've already checked out his phone might as well let him know about it.

FYI, sometimes us gals can make a big deal out of nothing, but follow your gut if you feel somethings just not right.


elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom
probably a joke, or, the sender might be hinting that she has a crush on him... keep an eye on this situation...

also, sending messages like this, that throw around the word love meaninglessly, is just awful... it's stupid... it's wrong... love is sacred, not something meant to be a joke...

anyway, keep an eye on this...

personally, we don't use texting... I know it's the latest thing but it just causes trouble, and unneeded expenses...


mrskeller
I wouldn't be worried...the fact that it is forwarded means the person probably didn't read it fully or didnt want to change the wording and just pressed the forwarding button. I wouldn't worry about it!


John
Sounds like a joke to me.


chik7896
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It sounds like one of those messages that are just for fun that people keep passing them around. Why not just ask your husband about it?


pussycat
No; it's just a media message. He can bloke these from his cell phone.


NoWomanNoCry
yea sounds like a joke to me since it was FWD. umm why are you looking at your husbands cell? you not trust him?


RanaBanana
Sounds like a joke to me. It's not the kind of joke a lover would send, don't think anything of it.

This is why people shouldn't read texts and emails of their spouses.


Mama
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OH dear GOD...

I tell lots of people I love them. Doesn't mean I'm ******* them.

My dad.. my sisters.. my brothers.. my friends....


That could be anyone.


Jesus, Christ.. why are some people married when they obviously aren't mature enough for commitment?





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