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I got curious and tried on one of my wifes lacey bra, undies and halfslip sets and got caught! She?

laughed hystericaly but is still teasing me, and calling me girls names a day later. I realize being seen in her pink lingerie was pretty funny but will she forget about it soon? Also can I count on her not saying anything to the ladies she works with or her sister?


    




Sophia
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Where this goes depends on your relationship.
If she loves you dearly, she wont tell anyone unless she is worried your gay.
If she just loves you, but your relationship is not dear, She is telling everyone with humor.
If she doesnt care about your relationship, she is making fun of you with her friends and family.
Sorry this happened to you.
I can only suggest being open and sharing why you chose to put her underware on. Honestly make total sense.
To change the situation, try turning this into a fun loving silly bedroom game.


Bern
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Rick, you are one sick puppy.


*Leann*[ilrav]
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tell her that you were just curious. and you want it to be between just you and her. if she loves you, shell keep it on the DL


Red
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Hey, be glad she didn't divorce you on the spot.

Just live with it, you did something wrong/funny/etc and got caught, the least you can get is a bit of 'ribbing'.

Hell, if she does tell anyone, chock it up to a Halloween costume or something.


Mommy to Lauryn and Sydney
Dude your screwed all of her friends know by now!! It will blow over after a while..


wachirasa
yes she will tell everyone,
dude just admit it you are a cross dresser, many famous people are and were like Hitler and J Edgar Hoover


louie l
try on a moo moo


marlenekay4
She will always tease you and no you can't count on her to be quiet about it.


squirlly3521
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HA, HA.


sumankhs
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It is not a big deal and even if she doesn't forget it or mentions it to her sister (which I don't think she would coz wives usually view such things as intimate and not to be discussed with others, even family) Just take it as a funny incident and laugh it off!!


Mrs D is expecting #2
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A real man would not be wearing his wifes lingerie....


chelsea v
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they already know


islecya
Well,all I can say is I know what the ladies at her workplace will be laughing about when they go to lunch....


Rosie G
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She won't forget about this anytime soon. Women never forget anything!! However she may or may not tell her friends and sister. She might be too embarrassed to tell them. On the other hand she might think it's so funny that she needs tell everybody. Depends on your wife.


Suzy
she will never forget that one..


catrinaqgirl
LOL... your first mistake was not letting her in on this desire to wear her panties. she would then be a co-conspirator instead of a whistleblower. make no mistake about it, if she is like most women, she will discuss it with her co-workers and friends. next time invite her to participate, you both can have a giggle together and then get on to other fun things.


roseannetb@verizon.net
Tell her, that you hope that she can keep this between the two of you, that you do not know why you did it, and that it would not happen again.


ashdave2005
I think this is very funny! And I also think that it happens more often then what guys admit to!

It wouldn't surprise me if she talked about it with close girlfriends.

I think your best bet is to talk to her about it and just explain your curiosity and that you hope she can keep it between the two of you.

If you wanted, you can make a joke out of it and like someone else mentioned, do something for Halloween and show that you don't care.


iwild
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Lmao!!! that funny to me 2 !! What the hell possessed you to put on her silkies???wut the f--k?? Hell no she not forget this, things that funny never ever leave your mind... personally I would be extremely concerned If I"caught" my lover putting on my silks, and probably end the relationship..to me it indicates a little too much feminine curiosity... Lord help ya baby, you might just be a sick puppy!! and here is the difference between Freaky and Sick... great example!!
Don't feel bad about yourself...explore who you really are, and laugh with her,as long as she doesn't mind and accepts that you don't want to be called by female names, ride with it and enjoy the ride..we are all messed up a little....
Get a Leg up !!!
ha ha ha


rkrell
Dude you did it so you must live with the consequences. Just stop worrying about it and learn to laugh at yourself. Maybe you should ask her if it turned her on and if she wants you to do it again. After all it is just a form of fantasy play...


callawak2
Oh please. You got busted and now don't want the world to know that you wanted to wear woman's underwear. If you like wearing it don't apologize. So what if other people know. You did what you did now live with it.

Honestly, what made you want to try on her stuff anyway? Dude, while I think you should not be ashamed, I have no frame of reference as to why you or any guy would want to put on ladies underwear. On that point she is right, in my opinion, it is very girly-man stuff.


cloey
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if you ask her not to and she is ur wife then you can trust her.
and next time you should lock the door
LOL
i hope it all works out
:P


David m
be kinda hard to keep under your hat...lol


Ryan
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Who cares its not that bad. She will always remember it but not as an embarrassing moment to you but a very funny moment for everyone!


Jessyca
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You are an idiot and she will tell everyone


=)
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You tell her you were drunk. Therefore, even if she tells anyone,be like well you did the chicken dance without pants last time you were drunk and if they deny it, be like, exactly, just like me trying on her undies didnt happen.
Tell yoour wife you were playing along, but dont remember that day you were drunk and didnt want anyone to find that out.

Whoever said Alcohol was not the answer is an Idiot


BigBrother9!!
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try and turn it around on her and mock her for something haha
nah talk to her dude its the only wayout of this situation!


annanheradvice
well it is ur fault kinda but talk to her bout it...... hehe i am a chic to and i think i would tease u but i wouldn't go tell the ladies at work or my sis... u jus have to talk to her bout it.....


Cliqueless Kayla
Dude, you screwed yourself. There is no way in hell she is going to forget this. She is going to spread that story everywhere. So what? It's a funny story. Get over it. It's not a big deal. I mean, eventually she'll stop telling everyone...except for around the holidays when you're all drunk and telling stories after dinner...she'll bring it up then...good luck....


just around the hill somewhere
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aww haha do it again and laugh with her as a joke so she thinks it doesnt bother you


HandyMan
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Better then getting caught in your mother-in-law's undies.





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