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I hate my husband?

My man goes to work at the airport to fix the planes all day and then comes home and looks after the kids while I go to work on the night shift. He's a great farther and treats me and the kids nice. He cooks them food and reads them storys before bed, they love him to bits and he always helps around the house.
I hate him and want to take the kids off him and have him sleeping on the streets with not a penny to his name and hope that he kills himself with self pitty.
How do I go about doing this to him?
Ps the reason I hate him is he's so nice and so perfect its sick my friends keep saying how he is such a good man and they wish they had a man that nice even my own mother tells me he's great and I should stay with him.


    




Dawnya_Blue
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Maybe you should buy him a pair of glasses so that he can see what a loser for a wife he has chosen....May I suggest a new type of man for you...Ted Bundy!!!!!


Red Rose
I'll trade with you. You can have mine and I take yours. Mine only thinks about himself and doesn't help around the house.


Angel
Come on? Have you read some of the questions on here about their man beating, cursing, cheating, etc.... and you are gonna hate your man b/c he's nice? That's crazy. See a therapist please.

I would fall over dead if my husband helped with the cleaning w/o having to ask ten times.


Liz
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Do him a favour and leave him. Then he can find someone normal.


Jo
sounds like youve got a problem then.


kiki68
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actually you do not hate your husband, you hate yourself. you hate yourself for not being a perfect wife and mother, for not being such a saint as he is.

truth is its very difficult to live with someone so perfect. stop trying to compete and instead focus on your own strengths. what are u good at? what are the things people like about you? what are your gifts and talents?

the idea is to stop comparing yourself to the unattainable. do what you are good let him do the rest.

people divorce coz the relationship is hurting the kids. you may not like the guy but do your kids deserve to lose him too?


Cham
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wow you are a real YOU KNOW WHAT I pray he leaves you and takes the kids with him because they deserve a mom who is not crual@
YOU are LUCKY to have a good man..what do you want?? one who beats you or screw around on you

YOU HAVE SERIOUS MENTAL ISSUES
go get therapy!!!!
my god SHAME ON YOU!!
I do I honestly do hope you realize how good you got it

to me YOU seem insecure and jealous because it is YOU who has personal issues and are upset because you can't be as good as your spouse

SHAME SHAME SHAME ON YOU!
your sick! I feel sorry for your kids


NINA
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You are probably stressed from working night shifts.Maybe you don't spend intimate time with him because of the difference in schedules. You should realize that you choose this man for the same qualities that you hate.


a15stn1
Your the type of women that puts the B in *****, why would you wish this on someone who has obviously done nothing wrong to you. Your selfish and your being childish, I hope this poor guy see's through you, if you try and divorce him by the sounds of it he has the back-up of your friends and family when it comes to custody of the kids and quite rightly so. You dont deserve to be a mother if your prepared to rip a good father away from his children


littlemisssaigon
wow if this is a true story , then you sure are one ungreatful person..... alot of women would die to have a man liek that, i know i have one, how can you be so thick and cold...what the hell is wrong with you...oh if anything you should be the one sleeping in the gutter because with a mind like yours thats where you belong!


Majestic M
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Then why do you hate him so much?


Lord worthy of knotso.
Live with a druggie, or an alcohlic. And then say you hate him, it seems men cannot do the right thing for some women.


gypsy g
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You should just leave him and the kids and find a man who will treat you like sh!t.


MyOwnEnemy
Thats an awful lot of hate for someone who doesn't seem to do anything mean to you lol.


princess charlie
Believe me 100% the problem is yours not his. Your children will truly hate you if you destroy this man. Please go and see a doctor, I think you may be able to get yourself some help, maybe take your husband with you?


General Devious
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But what about your children.you sound very very selfish.


Lod732
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You are the type of women I always hope dies alone so they can't hurt someone who isn't worthless.


Jud
I think you don't deserve such a good husband. I am in the middle of a divorce from my husband who I love very much I have been married for 30 years and I would not wish anything bad to happen to him. You sound so bitter and nasty I pity your children and hope they don't turn out like you. What do you really want ? a husband that drinks or takes drugs beats you or the children. It is so hard to please some women. I pity you. Have a good think about the terrible things you are wishing on your poor husband.


Archimedes' screw
Well, this is ridiculously asinine.


DESTINY
Get some counseling please. You have a good husband and Father and don't know how lucky you are.


FRANCO
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You have some issues, time to see a shrink.


TRUTH HURTS OOO K
Trust me HE HATES YOU TOO!!!


lorraine.webb2@btinternet.com
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hi,my name is brian,i have read your comment about your feelings about your husband.women always think the grass is greener,by destroying there marriage and hurting there partner,but you take the biscuit,not only does your man love you and treat you right,and has a very good job.that is not enough for you.why the hell do you want to kill him.you sound to me that you are one selfish women,to want to kill and take his kids away.think hard before you go to prison,and re ck not only your life but every body that ever loved you.especially your kids.when they are old enough,they can accept that you and your husband splitting up.good luck anyway,you probably hate me now,but i am being honest,it happened to me.


Steph
Lol haha, "how do I go about doing this to him?"
It is so obvious that you are kidding.
Good one!


Bhusta
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great, u hate ur husband because he helps u a lot and he is a great father...how would U feel if ur husband cheated u, beat the kids, drinks and some other shitty stuff? Geez....


i love anne
listen to your friends & mother.why did you marry him if you hate him being nice ? :-)


Brie
LOL!.
Then what are you wanting in a husband?
An alocholic? Someone who beats you and your kids?
Someone who puts you down?
An druggie? Someone cheating on you?
You take what you have for granted..
and it is you who should be put on the streets without a penny to your name.
You don't deserve to be in a marriage.
Good luck with your next one!


Chloe.L
grow up and get a real life....divorce him and move on and learn how to be mature.





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