I hate my stepchildren and their mother?

Iâ™¥NY

~~ So if it is causing too much trouble, why are you still with him? Talk to him about it and if it continues to ruin your life as you said, you should consider divorcing him. You dont have to live like that if you dont want to~~

Champagne

You knew what you were getting into before you married this man.

I feel sorry for the step - children, you're a WICKED step-mother !

Dr. Kat

Should have thought about that before you married into it. Geez. It's not rocket science. Everyone knows you should know your situation before you step in!

Smoochy Poochy

What a disgusting thing to say, you made your bed now lie in it.

nebula

Someday your life will change?! Are you wishing for the deaths of your step children? I feel sorry for your husband for marrying such a selfish *****.

tinyponyhairs

you knew he had been married before when you married him, right?
You knew he had kids, too?
Stop whinging - you got yourself into it. No-one forced you.

angel 36

whats your question i hope if you have children someday no other woman ever talks about them like that as just reading that hurt me thinking of my children

ndnqt1966

You are a sad miserable bitter person....

aa889d

Well you can change it if you wish.... leave your husband.

Are you going to tell us you didn't KNOW he had an ex wife and kids from the 1st marriage when YOU married him?

Guess this is something that should have been dealt with PRIOR to getting hitched. You made the bed - now you have to lie in it.

C_DOGG

You sound like such a warm, compassionate person!

Yaya K

you sick!!! for you to say you HATE YOUR STEP CHILDREN is a sin. you picked him and you knew he had kids grow up. not there fault you picked there dad and guess what they are not going no were go rant and rave in the right section NOT THIS ONE

Nena S

Praying is good; but you also need to get help..Go to counseling or therapy ASAP!

Billy boy

No one is asking you to stick around, how dare you say no one shloud marry someone who has childrens, your are one mean person, i wish you was never born

Amanda

Jeez...you sound like a barrel of laughs...I can see why the man married you......

Newgran

what a dreadful thing to say that you wish they had never been born into this world.poor wee things, they didn't ask for their parents to split up . they probably hate the idea that their dad doesn't live with them also and might resent you because of it.

you are the adult here, you knew the kids were there when you married him. if your not happy with the situation then leave.
Don't ever try and split kids up from their parents

â™¦justmeâ™¦

Holly hell are you selfish. If that is the way you feel, then why on earth did you marry him? I have a step son. I'm not particularly fond of his mother, because she has made herself a thorn in my *** at times, but that isn't my step sons fault. I know all situations are different, but I can not imagine ever saying I wish he was never born! If they make you that miserable it's because you let them, or give them a reason to make you miserable. Did it ever occur to you, that it is your attitude towards them that they feel and that is why they are rude or mean to you?

janice

And the question is.....

eight-hours

Think on this lifes a ***** and then you die....so the moral of the story is make then best of a bad job. Try and think positive thoughts and you will be surprised how it helps.

Stop dwelling on your own feelings and think of others.

â™¥Pure Evilâ™¥

OMG....OMG....OH MY GOD!!!!

I can not believe u...my god what and in the hell did the person that married u ever see in ur cruel a** I'd like to know!

I hope to GOD he wakes up and smells the fricken coffee w/ ur pathetic a** and leaves u high and dry!

U think them kids wanted the wicked witch of the west for a step mother?? HELL NO!

Shame on u and u will get urs...I promise that!!

baby_face_paris

Ouch! that's a bit harsh. I really think you need to be discussing this with your husband instead of telling complete strangers. I hope the children are unaware of your hatred for them. That could damage them forever.

.x.sarah.x.

that is such a horrible thing to say "i wish they were never born"

The Drat. Penny Dreadful

You pray that your life will change how? That they'd all die? That you'll be divorced soon? Your attitude towards the whole thing to change for the better to accept the life YOU chose?
Sorry for your husband.

Warren

Great! You're on a roll, lady! All you need to do now to complete your transformation into a fairy-tale evil step-mother is to make your step-children's life hell. And why not make your spouse's life hell too? And your life in all this anger? You married him. He had kids. What did you think? They all disappear when the good fairy waved her wand?

You're an adult. You married this guy knowing the situation. M A K E T H E B E S T O F I T ! ! !

Phaylynn

wow what did you think was going to happen? Maybe instead of focusing on the bad things about them you should try to be a better person and help them to better themselves. I know you are probably under a great deal of stress but to wish harm on children is a terrible thing. They are just trying to make it through, the same as you. They didn't ask for you to marry their dad. Maybe they should have asked him not to!

Marble77

Grow up will you please!The hatred you spit is ugly.You married a man with kids and ,what ? You didn't know his children and his ex-wife would remain part of his life?If this is the case,your stupidity is surpassed only by the ugliness of your hatred.Don't pray that your life will change,change your life!Pray for strength pray for help guidance patients,pray for growth,pray for love to concur,pray for wisdom.I will pray for you and when I pray to god the holy father and to Jesus Christ him self I will pray for him to touch you with an ounce of selflessness,a tablespoon full of generosity and a small lump of insight.Stew on that for a bit.

kezza

what a horrible selfish person you are.The only people i feel sorry for is the children and your husband.You just want your husband all to your self.If you had a daughter boy would i feel sorry for her.GROW UP

eillem123

You need to seriously change your attitude. With feelings like those, you are in for a miserable life as long as you stay married to that poor man. You knew he had kids when you married him, therefore, DEAL WITH IT.

How would you feel if YOU were the one who had the kids and the ex? Would you like knowing that someone actually HATED your children? Would you like knowing that they HAD to spend time around someone who hated them and actually depend on that person for their well-being?

I'd give ANYTHING if I could've been my husband's 2nd wife instead of his 3rd because then I could've saved him and his poor children so much pain and heartache because of how the 2nd wife hated them. They are both in their 20s now and still suffer from the damage that woman did them. And they still even talk about all the horrible things that she did, while their Dad was kept totally in the dark.

YOU need to grow up and accept responsibility for your position, which is you married a package deal and those children deserve a place in your heart as well as in your home. Of course, ONLY if you really love their father.

moomoo

boy, really hope that you don't have kids. hope your husband finds out that you feel this way about his own flesh and blood

CHRIS J

shoot yourself. why dont u.

texas girl

ok......

Elizabeth S

I'm sorry you feel this way. I am a stepmother and my Husband Is a stepfater as well and I love my stepson alot yea I don't like his mother but i love him I always talk to a friend on the phone that Is the same way and would take on any mother that has kids as his own as well as my husband took my 2 kids on as his own as well and he love them

iLoveGlitter

OMG.... GIVE THIS WOMAN A CHANCE.Idont think she is a bad person.Being a stepmother is not easy.I dont blame her for what shes letting out,you can only understand if you were in a similar situation of which i am.Im sure this woman knew what she was getting her self into but did not realize how hard it was going to be.

Dr. Cat

Hi, I think this audience is very tough and unsympathetic. Life takes us by surprises and sometimes we think that our life is going to improve once certain things have settled. Having said this, you sound very clear and it is apparently obvious that you should start a new life away from your husband. Break ties, break the dream, and declare the life that you had always hoped for. It is not with him and it is not with his children. Stay strong, stay positive!!!

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