I have a problem?

Your first problem is grammer, (Wishes not Whishes) and maybe its just me but I don't quite understand the last sentence..." i live in my dreams but never had the courage to live them..."

fly guy

I'm afraid the only advice is to take a chance and go with your heart. Everyone wants the approval and love of their parents. What you may not see is that their simply afraid of losing you. They will love you and be proud of you. Follow your dreams but never forget where you came from.

floridaman39us

Live the dreams before it's too late. Life goes by fast.

iLuVjOrDaN

GO FOR your dreams dont let anybody tell u cant. If u wanna be a model then go ahead take babysteps to suuceed to your goals. People will say u cant do it and no thats stupid and thats cuz they say that to make themselves feel better. I say go for your dreams!
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CANDY

well how old are u? just move out

Angel Eve

Life is too short to be unhappy.

honeybunny

Well are you the one taking care of them? If so, I feel sorry for you. Is there someone who can help take care of them well you go and full fill your dreams? Sometime you need to start taking steps toward your dreams, with or without them, because there not always going to be there and you need to live your life too. Talk to someone who can help you with your parents and you.

Amy

Considering you still live with your parents, I'm going to assume you're young. This means you have plenty of time to fulfill all your dreams and wishes and have a full and happy life. You could also try taking a risk sometime, if there's something you really want to do, do it, and damn the consequences, so what if you get grounded, it'll have been worth it. Alternatively, you could face up to your parents, and explain to them what you want out of life to be happy, if they truly can't understand this, maybe you should get in touch with an authority so that you can get the life you deserve. I wish you the best of luck!

freeman3905@sbcglobal.net

how old are you. do you have a job, a car. if yes to all that then go on your Owen. you can ck in on your parents any time you want to. have a good life. here's a BIG HUG for you

Joe D

huh

Little*Miss*Perfet

tlk to ur parents, i know tht it is easier to say thn to be done. but it helps. tell thm whn they-re in a good mood tht u want to be a ______, and not wht they ant u to be. tell thm straight forward. ur parents love u and they dont want u to grow up too fast, so take the time to explain to them whts in ur heart.

sweetgranny06

respect your parents

mommie

get the courage to go and get your dreams.
if u dont ull live to regret it

Raven

When you're 18 you can do what you want and if your parents are so sick, there are social service agencies and attendant care to take your place.

zagi

dont waste your time, go for your dreams and try to accomplish it as soon as possible, dont mind your parents because if they care for you they let you go to materialize your dream. listen to me, i have experience like you and i did what is bests and here i am very successful person.

wish I were

Grow up, I bet your sick parents have dreams of their own they can't do!!! The world does not revolve around you! Help your parents out more and quit whining and maybe you'll get to do more!

marilyn_l_kirkland

Do you mean they are physically sick or they are like sadist? You can accomplish your dreams you just have to allow yourself to be free. You are in control of your own life as long as you take the responsibility for it.

hopefreegirl

unsure of what you meant be "so sick". health problems or mentally? if you live with them, move out, and follow your dreams. have no regrets!!

castillo5247

There is nothing wrong with having dreams, but it is terrible when you don't get to accomplish any of them. Be patient and know that when the time is right you'll be able to do all you want.

WURSTNGHTMARE61

first I don't know how old you are, and I don't know what you mean by "sick" write back for info...............

skizzle-d-wizzle

So I take it your dream is to get married and then go through a divorce?? You are in the wrong category--I think

shdwtalker2002

"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." You must start down the road of independence from your parents. Get more education, get a job, whatever it takes to begin to establish financial independence first. Then comes physical independence -- moving away from them. In this case, the farther the better. Then will come emotional independence, wherein you continue to care about them, maybe even love them, but make decisions bases on what is right for YOU. Once you reach that point, you will be well on your way to finding your wishes and dreams.

April

This is Marriage and Divorce..... grow up first, then what you want to know in here, you can then write.

Douglas D

I am going to assign some required reading for you.
It's a book by Melodie Beatty titled "Co-Dependant No More"

It will seem to be a book directed at women who live with alcoholic husbands, but it won't be too big of a stretch for you to apply it's message to you, & your situation, so invest the 20 bucks in it, & take some time to read it.

Also look up the nearsest chapter of "Co-Dependants Anonymous"
You have tied your future to the fate of someone else. That's an unhealthy thing for anybody to do.
So learn to take care of yourself.

jett

u still sound so young. u have time to do any thing.wait until Ur parents r better and when u r older. you can still follow Ur dreams.give it time . not all dreams can be made.

Danielle S

Parents can be very over protective. I know my parents always were and I missed out on A LOT because of it. Once you are 18 you will pretty much be able to do whatever you want. And as long as your wishes and dreams won't do anything to hurt you, why won't they let you start acting on them now? Maybe you need to sit down and have a talk with your parents and tell them how you feel and try and get them to listen.

Karen A

I want to congratulate you on helping your parents but if you can't help yourself how can you truly help them? Talk to your parents, let them know you have dreams and what the dreams are. Ask other family members to help you take care of your parents. Even talk to a visiting nurses agency. If they are on medicare, it will cover most if not all of the fee for the visiting nurse. You can't be expected to stop your life to take care of your parents. If they want you too they are not being fair to you. I wish you luck in your achieving your dreams.

Stacy

Yes, parents sometimes they do that, I think that if ur dreams are positive and would make you happy you should get the courage to do them because its ur life and ur parents can't control for ever..u know that..if it makes u happy i prefer u do wats best for u...but remember parents sometimes want wats best for u...
Stacy

Bonduesa

It's not your parents fault. you can still make your dream come true. You have to begin making the steps, toward just one of your dream. You can't just dream about it, you got to live it Good Luck

Clarkie

If your parents are truly sick, you may be stuck.
If they are well, but you're simply calling them sick, and assuming you're of legal age, go live some of your dreams. Life passes quickly, and at the end, the only thing you'll regret (short of hurting others) are the things you didn't do!

damage_dx

try to fulfill your dreams secretly without their notice

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