I have been happily married for 6 years. I want a threesome, do you think it will hurt my marriage?

nj_pipelayer

sounds like he wont go down huh? shave it and slap some perfume on it, hell even decorate it with whipped cream and a cherry on top, but if that doesn't work then you may have to check your contacts and hopefully activate your IM, lol

Tonya B

Any cheating will hurt your marriage. My husband tried that crap and it caused a huge rift between us for a very long time. A friend of mine is now divorced because his wife did that crap to him. You want to lose your husband then go ahead and do it.

SuperVibrationalEscrow

Yes. I have never known a marriage to survive infidelity with the strength that it should have. Staying married and having a good marriage are two different things. Once the bonds are broken.. it is pretty much a lost cause.

m&m collector

lol maybe you can ask a georgia peach lol

labdoghoss

If you are lookng for a threesome, you are not happily married.

shellybelly0

Your marriage is already in trouble because you have thoughts like that. If you truly are in love with your spouse you would not have thoughts like that.

DON'T DO IT - unless you are ready to be single.

Wait until you ruin your marriage before you move on to other pastures.

ladyjane

I think you are a very selfish woman. Some women would love just to be married. Grow up.

legalizeit

yeah most likely, I mean it hurt Jim Mcgreevy's marriage.

D S

It depends primarily on your motivation; if you are looking for some excitement behind closed doors and everyone knows that is all that is going on you should be fine. It may even strengthen your marriage by experiencing something new together. If you are looking for intimacy that you are not getting right now, then there might be a problem down the road if or when an emotional bond forms.

teapot

yes, because your giving him what he wants........
but hey, whatever floats your boat.

sexychocolatecity21

A threesome is not what your marriage needs. You need some help! as men and women we have allowed what our body desire control what is good and right! If you want a women leave your husband and go and be with one because in spite of what is your mind tells you!! This is real life not pron! You cant have it both ways!

Cecil S.

it may not right away but it may cause distrust after time goes on

STREETROD23T

it sounds very exciting to me BUT !!!!
your man may like it so much that he may want to try different partners without you being one of them .
or he may like the one you pick better than you and use her and her lover to take your place .
the choice is yours but remember don't be a cry baby if all goes wrong and back fires on you .
you might just leave it alone and save your marriage

This is a hard one. I wouldn't do it, because even the most secure people can go crazy after seeing their SO with someone else. If it's a girl, you could feel jealous if he's showing her more attention than you. Then later on you could start to think that he's thinking about her when you're being intimate, etc. And if it's a guy vice versa with him. It's just not worth it.

Nykohl

It will only hurt your marriage if you two do not have trust in each other and if you both do not agree to participate in this. I have read some other answers and I can say from personal experience that it did not ruin my relationship. I ended up marrying my husband who was my boyfriend at the time. I just strongly suggest that the two of you thoroughly discuss this. Only the two of you will know if your marriage can handle a threesome. I will have to admit that a lot of relationships cannot deal with this situation and they end up breaking apart. If you guys are strong, truthful and trustworthy towards each other, then you should be ok. Also be sure to ask yourself if you are doing this because you really want to or if you somehow feel inadequate or lacking. Confidence in yourself is key. You can easily feel threatened with another woman sharing your bed with your husband. Just take your time in making a final decision. A threesome always sounds exciting and fun on the surface but there's no guarantee that it will be that way.

ronnny

It will take a lot. is she better than me or you like her better. Was her....... and if his attention is more on her. I even knew a couple that did and she left for her. I would have to think about it.

lilmamamaxwell

yes it will, cause some men find it to be a threat to their manhood that you want another woman talkto your husband first, and then go from there.

auburn_hazel

If the reason you want a threesome is because you want to be with a woman, then don't involve your husband. I think you should discuss it with your husband, tell him the feelings you are having and see how he takes it. Of course I don't think there is a man alive who wouldn't want a threesome with his wife and another woman but be prepared for the consequences. It could open a can of worms you aren't ready for. Good luck and be careful.

FeIsTyGuRl

YES. don't do it, if you are truly happy, you wouldn't ruin your marriage this way.

Computer Guy

If happily married, why do you want a threesome? Have you discussed it with your husband?

I think a threesome, even if it was a one-time occurrance, would throw a giant monkey wrench into the allegedly smooth running engine that is your marriage.

If you have not yet discussed it with your husband, you may want to reconsider. Some husbands would consider the very idea to be very threatening.

I'm assuming for the moment that the additional person was male. What if your husband wanted the third person to be female? Would that still be OK with you?

what kind of person are you, i mean srsly. why do you need a threesome if you already have someone else that can "forfill your needs" your jsut going to ruin your marrige over this. he's going to think that he isn't forfill your needs anymore and he's going to think that you don't think he is good enough. maybe you should think of this before you do anything about it. and think, is that what he's going ot want.

janecat

I think that's a bad idea

Hannah C

hell yno dont do thats just wrong come on you need respect for your man not doing it with anouther woman maybe he might like it but it might kill your relanshinship what if he falls inlove with the other girl cause she has big broobs you really need to be smater than this

Davo

you are just freaky. but you should do what you feel is best. there could be a possibility of hurting your marriage.

bobbi

Yes especially if you are talking about having a three some with your husband and another woman because he might find her cuter than you cutie pie!

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