I have to move,I don't want to. Help?

OK, I live with my fiance and have been living with him and his family since November. His parents are unable to pay the rent like it should They found another house for rent and more affordable, and they are moving out at the end of the month. Meaning, I have to move back home with my parents, and that's the last thing I want to have to do. My fiance seems not care. He sees it as his family can no longer afford the rent and they have to move as well I me. I feel like he doesn't care that I have to go back home and it's going to be hard for me to fine gas to come see him ever day. I have been trying to get him to get his things together so we can get our place. Well it seems to be to late. It is starting to interfere with our relationship. I don't know what to do. Can any one help? I want us to work things out but I feel like he don't.I don't want it to end like this. I don't want it to end at all. Help!

sunny

get a job,,,,,then rent an appartment then ask him to move in with you , until then thank your parents for letting you come back,,,

Annabella

Welcome to reality sweetheart. Guess what? The rent fairy doesn't cover the house payment or the gas bill or the water bill or the electric bill or the trash bill or the property taxes. And you're bummed that you have to move back with your parents to live rent free SOME MORE? I would kill to have my rent & utilities covered. Maybe then I could just focus on earning money for my car payment, my insurance, my cell, my credit card bills, etc. You seriously can't earn enough money to put gas in a car? Spoiled freaking rotten. Sorry but your b*tching gets zero sympathy from me. Pull it together & EARN money for the lifestyle you want. Handouts are rare. You're engaged to be married & you're this clueless? Maybe this happened at exactly the right time for you.

V_Dragon

Why would it matter if you have to move back home for a while. Do you not work and have money to buy gas? I have a hard time believing that you moving back home has anything to do with the two of you not spending time together and has a lot ot do with not wanting to move back in with your parents. You should be more considerate of him that he is probably worrying about his family's finances. It sounds like you are being a little selfish.

LaLALALA

Maybe you and him should have helped out more and then maybe they would not be having to move meaning helped pay the bills. I would send you back home to your parents too. In the real world you have to take care of yourself you can't depend on others to do it for you. You have to work and pay bills that's how life is.
If he isn't willing to get your own place together with just you and him then I would say it's pretty well over. Your engaged so why not be out living on your own together.
Sounds to me like he is a leech and does not want to leave living with his parents and have to take on the real world. As for you I don't know what your deal is but why not work as much as you can and then find your own place that's a start!

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