I have told my partner I don't want to be with him anymore but he will not move out.(I own the house)?

choco

thats because, he might still love u, and he might have no where else to stay... give him another chance, i promise everything will be ok!

nlj1520

Wait until he's out then get the locks changed!

gweneth lynn paltfeir

wait for him to leave the hse, den pack his stuff and throw it out. change the locks first.

Dorothy

Call the police and have him removed!

Huge

Send/give him a letter stating that you are giving him due notice that he is to leave the property within a reasonable time -say one month. If he still does not go after that period is up wait for him to go out to work then get the locks changed.

Mr. X.

Easy, phone the police!!!

clcalifornia

When he is at work, put all his stuff out on the front yard. Then get a lock smith to change all locks in the house. Leave the guy a note on his stuff saying....."I told you I wanted you out." If he bothers you, call the cops. If you are afraid of the guy. ask the cops to drive by a few times when he is expected to get home from work.

Also before doing this I would as many times as you can, leave him a note about evicting him. Have him sign it. If he won't just keep leaving him notices, and date them. Maybe have your camera phone take a picture of him refusing to sign the papers.
Make sure you have proof behind you. Text message him, whatever you need to do to establish the fact that you have asked him to leave.

Good luck

Kate

First off if you are still sleeping with him - stop. If you are cooking for him - stop. Washing his clothes - stop. Tell him in no uncertain terms that it is over and he has to leave. Give him a deadline and stop being nice about it. If you make his life so miserable that he doesn't want to be around you, he will leave.

If there are shared financial issues, you need a lawyer.

If he is violent that is a whole other story and you probably will need to involve the police.

Once he is out, make sure you change the locks either way.

Be strong and don't give in to his manipulations if getting him out is really what you want.

Gossip81

Sling his *** out as long as his name is not on any of the bills at your home either.

Ontheotherhand

By partner, do you mean spouse? A spouse is different than a roomie- File eviction papers against him. Then, the sheriff will move him, if he doesn't move.

angel 36

get a solicitor and get on with your life good luck

missree

when he is out change the locks and pack his stuff and leave it out on the front door and if he tries to break in call the police they will sort him out

fungirl

you cannot just put him out and change the locks. (he could actually sue you for wrongful eviction and then you would have to pay him). what you can do is go to court and have him legally evicted.

Curious

You offered this man a home and now you want to kick him out. If you were a man kicking a woman out your answers would be so different. I feel you should help this man find a place of his own - it is so bad to throw someone out on the streets.

A solicitor would be the best person to speak to regarding your position because it will all depend on how long he has lived with you - he may be entitled to half your house.

I hope you can settle your problem without too much pain

sscott12414

If you are not mariaged it is called trespassing. You could also wait until they are out and change the locks.

gatekeeper

Sell the house and then he's s------ unless he can get his hooks into the money. I know it's your house but if you want him gone that's one way , it's just material thing and you can all ways get another, I know that doesn't sound fair but such is life. Good luck

Stooky

move a new bloke in and sh.ag really loudly he'll soon get the message

Mit

Depends how long he has been your partner. If he has helped pay for your house and its up keep I am sorry to tell you that you might have to pay him for it. He might have interest in it now. You need to get a lawyer and have him evicted by serving him with eviction papers. After that you can call the police.

george g

good luck you really have a problem call the police but its going to be a struggle i hope you learn your lesson

sweetlipsy69

CALL THE OLE BILL N HAV HIM REMOVED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
n if he dont hav nowhere to go thats his problem , make him go to his mums !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lone Wolf

Get a court order

Daddy Dave

There is too much missing from your question to be answered here.
(1) do you own the house outright or is it your name on the mortgage?
(2) has he been contributing towards the upkeep of the house.
(3) can he make a case showing that he expected to have that roof over his head the rest of his life.
Just there of the questions a solicitor will ask you. be the first and go and see a solicitor. an order from the courts can be made and if not complied with, he can be arrested.
"Daddy Dave"

physandchemteach

How serious are you about him moving out? Give him written notice that he must be out in 30 days and keep a record of this. If he is not out in 30 days you can call the police and have him evicted. That is pretty drastic, but it Will work.

MANDY S

tell him to bolt girl its ur house, seek legal advise x

k0005kat@btinternet.com

Get to a solicitor, fast, because depending on how long you have been together, he may be able to claim half even if he never paid a penny. This would see you homeless, so do it asap. Good luck....been there.

Hi hot chick. First thing are you giving him some mixed signs that you care at all? Because that is what happened to me. I was told that things were over but was still getting the sign that a chance was in the air. try being honest with him and tell him that its over.

sonny

Oh, quit being a baby. Wa, Wa, Wa.....gawd!

Dead2TheWind

kick him out or have him reported for trespassing

bitchy ***

Well, thats a bit of a problem... Talk to him again. He might just be thinking you are not that serious. Show him that you really mean it..

Not Ecky Boy

Not a particular problem, just get a new boyfriend who will rough him up a little. And change the locks.

OR wait till he's out THEN get the locks changed. Then if he tries to get back in, call the cops.

But seriously, you need to get this sorted RIGHT NOW because every day he stays there, just makes him think that everything will be OK.

If you think he might turn nasty, have a word with your local community policeman. What he's doing is a form of bullying, and inappropriate.

berry

If you are serious, then here's the plan.........

Pack all his belongings and dump them outside your house. Lock all the rooms and change the front/back door locks so he doesn't have the chance to come back in.

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