 
|
Smith Smith
|
This is fake, right? |
|
Tammy R
|
This happened to me and the pain is unreal! You have to confront her with the tape in hand, this is the only way you will know what direction to go next!
Good luck and be strong. |
|
sonia a
 |
wow... seriously? i think you should divorce her or something because she obviously didnt care or think about you to srew your friend and worst of all have it on tape! |
|
Itry
 |
It depends, do you have children? You need to realize that no matter how angry you are at her if there are children involved you must protect them at all cost's. No matter how much she hurt you this is an adult thing and the children should never know. Telling them will only hurt them. Go talk to a lawyer and file for divorce. Confront your wife but don't be stupid.
You need to realize that there were issues before she cheated. No one cheats unless there are problems or they are missing something. Maybe her lack of respect for you prior to this should be a reason for divorce. |
|
daydream♥believer
|
Leave her. No one deserves to be with somebody like that. |
|
?
|
Honestly.........stay in control of your anger.
Ask her to leave (today.) to give you thinking and breathing room *you deserve it*. Schedule time to talk about the situation in 2-3 days.......don't take any phone calls from her.
Then decide what to do. Write it downs......Pros (being married to her) and Cons (being married to her). If you want the marriage it will take a considerable amount of change in order for your wife to earn your trust back, but it can be done.
You stay in control. Don't use anger or threats. And of course, if there are any babies involved .......... be a great Dad.
Best wishes! |
|
missamerican_pie007
|
take him to the woods ..pretend like your going hunting...hit him over the head knock him out..strip him naked and pour honey on him and tie him to a tree... let him try to get out of this one lol ..also..you could get him drunk and let him do your dog ...or better yet...confront him and ask him was he thinking about YOU while he did your wife...Or.. just plain out ask him What were u thinkin ..I did your girlfriend..ex...wife whatever a week ago...now u are with my wife we need a foursome |
|
not4u2c_yet
|
Duct tape, masking tape, scotch tape or what??? |
|
buffybot67
|
LEAVE. I don't think there is any excuse for that deep of a betrayal by either the spouse or friend. I'd walk out and hand her a copy of the tape the origional may come in handy when you file for divorce and leave her high and dry! You my friend deserve better. |
|
HonestGuy
|
Well, you have proof of adultery for the judge. Doesn't help much in the grand scheme of things, but it will be a moral victory. |
|
decorator101
 |
Well hes not a friend any more!
Lawyer Up and give the tape to to your attorney! You dont leave the house make her go! Otherwise its abandoment! She will probably get nothing out of the divorce!
Good Luck! |
|
redsyoungstud
|
use the VCR and show her the tape and hear her out. then i would decide what to do afterwards. divorce or retrying. but i would end the friendship the friend because he's proved himself to be no friend at all. |
|
tillermantony
|
Get more footage!!!!!!!! |
|
smart mouth
|
dump your wife and then go bang his...don't forget to record it though.. then send him a copy... |
|
Babie
 |
Don't say a word and ask your friend to come over when wife is home for dinner or something then say oh I got this movie you just have it see and slap it in while they are both there watching it!!!!!!!!!!!! Take it from there and kick her out she wants your friend she aint worth having |
|
Beautiful Disaster
 |
Divorce her and submit the tape to the court as evidence and make plenty of copies. |
|
Btieti
|
D I V O R C E |
|
ndmac
|
Get a lawyer. |
|
Legs0891
 |
Wow Hun! I'm sorry you have to go through this. I would show her the tape and while she's watching the t.v. you watch her expression. It will most likely be horror over being caught. Then I think you need to get away. You don't have to end your relationship per say, but get out of the house for a week, month, however long it takes for you decide how you want to proceed in life. Try to not say anything to her. If she wants to explain, listen then leave. The worst decisions are made in the heat of the moment. Do what feels right to you and only you.
As for your "friend", I say send him a copy of the tape and say "thanks for the friendship" and leave it at that. Good luck to you. |
|
SapphireB
|
Well if this IS for really...It is very easy as to what you should do..
Say good bye to her for good. Her for cheating on you and you more or less caught her red handed in the act.
Say good bye to him for good. Your "friend" knew she was married to you and he betrayed your friendship with him by doing this. |
|
crkristy
 |
You know what to do, I think you're just looking for validation for your next move. Make a time to confront your spouse, if she denies the action, play the tape and ask her what she thinks you should do. There will be, no doubt, tears and regret, but remember a relationship is built on trust and she has destroyed yours. Or simply make a copy, leave it for her where she can find it easily and then leave. If you don't want to leave your home forever, come back when she is gone, pack her things, leave them on the door step and change the locks. Don't return her calls and refuse to see her. No need to discuss anything further if you are truly done with this relationship. Good luck, this is an awful time for you I am sure. |
|
jude
|
now that u know the truth, let her have the other guy, let her live with it,and go forward not backwards. if a person is constantly looking behind them, that wil be their future. truth hurts, and your one of the lucky ones, that u have seen it with your own eyes, and u won't have to go through the pain of unknowing. you will never feel the same about her, or trust her again no matter what she says when u confront her.u trusted her completely, and she has betrayed your love, and unfortunatly i don't think one can ever get past something as horrific as this. |
|
Tom.Wayes
|
Well, i think you should talk to her. don't do anything foolish. you need to relax and think about it. do you think you pay her enough attention? is she lonely? are you giving her enough love? she screwed your friend for some reason. maybe you're not satisfying her in bed? you need to think and then talk to her. |
|
☔UL☼
|
Use the tape as evidence in your divorce proceedings so you won't have to pay any alimony. That's really the only good result. Consider yourself lucky you didn't acquire an STD. |
|
mikydotcom@btinternet.com
|
Bin the ******,belt the plank,save tape as evidence,be single for a while-you deserve better than her or him-you don't need them.Best of luck matey:-) |
|
T-Roc
|
Dump her. Hurt him. |
|
texascomet
|
make tons of copies and distribute to friends and family..LOL..jst kdding |
|
Super Cleat
|
Kill your friend slowly in front of your wife to trumatize her, you know two birds with one stone. I'm kidding, the same thing happened to me a few years back and that is what I wanted to do. Get a divorce and sleep with a few loose women to get your mind off it. Good luck bro! |
|
Mean Carleen
|
sell tape on ebay? |
|
|
|
|
No Spam
Adult 
Gambling
Unfinished
Deception
Plagiarism
Not English
