I know too much about her husband cheating, should i tell her?
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I know too much about her husband cheating, should i tell her?
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hi, this is a complicated situation in which my fiance's best friend and his wife are living right now. They got married within 3 months and had their first baby 6 months after, now it's been 3 years, she's expecting another one, due in a month. He's been seeing that young girl of 21 yrs old, he's 33 and his wife is 29. The wife discovered all this cheating last year and he said he will stop but he's still seeing her. He's a very successful rich person and obviously he can bring her anywhere (trips, dinner etc). I know all about this as my b.friend hang out with him but he always bring the girl out. He said he's confused and god knows if it's true when he says he still loves his wife. The wife talks to me not often but we sometimes have a coffee together just like the other day, she was telling me she's so scared to lose him and that she has no trust in him anymore as he's always going out late at night with his friends. I feel so bad for her as she's pregnant and she said she's unhappy. I know so much but i didn't say a word that i know he's still seeing that young girl and the fact that the husband knows that i know (he doesn't care), make me even more uncomfortable now. what should i do? mind my own business? or tell her?
what should she do? leave him ?
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rooney
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She made certain choices that brought her to this point. Yes, he cheated but she decided to stay AND have aonther child with him. She obviously has a feeling that something's going on and is choosing to ignore it. If you think you are doing her any good by telling her you are wrong! Stay out of it! And if you feel that it's too much to bare you need to make visits with her more scarce. |
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ladyren
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What she does is her own business. Maybe she already knows. And if no, in her place, would you wish to know? |
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alialoggi
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If you are her friend, you tell her that you've been struggling with this decision, but you have to tell her and tell her that you hope it wont affect your friendship, but tell her that you know he has been cheating and promise to arrange to call her when they are together again. She deserves to know! If she stops talking to you because of this, then she isn't a friend. Good luck. |
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Ria S
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its not your place im sorry but this will only hurt u in the long run at the end of the day they sleep in the same bed and share the same home it will only burn u |
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samiwami5
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i would tell her. let her know what she is up against. and then she can decide whether to try to work it out or leave him |
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sillerious
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that's a toughie. being pregnant and cheated on. this may not be the best time to tell her, unless you know much about her life, do she have good friends that can support her and family as well? is she a strong woman that can handle that? |
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Alice W
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Well everyone knows the answer to this one. Of course she should leave him the question is... will she. Love, money and stability causes a woman to stick around way to long. |
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China Doll 3
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Yes she certainly should leave him, and yes do tell her. |
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