Home     Links     Contact Us     Bookmark  
 
   Homepage      News      Legal Forum      Dictionary  
Home : Legal Forum : Marriage & Divorce

I love a guy, but he have his wife...i really love him. what i ought to do?
Find answers to your legal question.





I love a guy, but he have his wife...i really love him. what i ought to do?



    




honest
Rating
You ought to leave him the hell alone. All you will accomplish is making a fool of yourself and break up a marriage. Do you think that would be doing yourself or your family proud?


farien3
1. Give him up. He's married.

2. Go get some English lessons in your spare time.


gweneth lynn paltfeir
Rating
i'm sorry third party to be, but pls let them off.


big_boi_80
Rating
Learn to be second-string.


JAWAID I
i think it is only an apprehension of love and nothing else.I
think a person can not love a person by depriving another
persons happiness. so let the couple have their life...


?
99 times out of a hundred, the person who is married sticks with their spouse... & you get hurt.
The longer you stick with him, the more it will hurt you if he dumps you.
He's still emotionally attached to his wife... otherwise, he would already have made sure he got his freedom from her.
Do yourself a favor & love yourself enough to get out of that relationship before it happens to you.
It can do more damage to you than you may realize right now... it can cause you to be unable to trust & believe in honestly being loved... in the future.


Princess
Rating
wat if wen u marry n ur husband does tt 2 u??d feelings r same 2 every1.u reli wan d curse from his wife?it won b a wonder f he do d same tin 2 u soon.


GEISE
respect him that he is married..He will love you for that..Talk to him only for advice nothing else..They hardly leave their wifes..always go back to them..unless wife ask for a divorce..I hope that helps.I been there before..I found someone else who is free...


lost one
Rating
its hard when your in love with opp (other peoples property). ask yourself do i want to be second best cause thats all you will be hone!


rabb b
Rating
It is your choice, stay with him and perhaps have no real future with him, or distant your self from him and help yourself start a new love. Staying with him is a threat to his family, cause if the wife finds out then you will ruin a family. If you decide to let him be then you must not see him anymore or talk t him or call him or exchange emails with him, there is no other way than to completely cut off all communications with him, you can't be friends with him cause you will slip back into love. Walk away dear. Ask yourself if he is willing to divorce his wife and marry you, and if he does what will happen to his kidds if he has any? Is it worth it to hurt the kidds? You can leave him and start over, I am sure you can and you know that this is the best thing to do for all involved.


i-miss-my-brit.
Rating
Been there and done that. You'll be only hurting yourself in the end. Sadly just let him go, there is someone better out there for you. You'll see.


Vic
Rating
Go find your own man. This could be u someday with your man. Don't be a home wrecker. Stay away from him and find someone that was meant for you not someone that was ment for someone else.


Hollynfaith
Rating
Quit worrying about this guy and use the time to get a better education.


Chris
Rating
You ought to respect the marriage of this individual. You need to back off and find a single man. If he is fooling around with you while he is married he will fool around with someone else IF he ever chooses to leave his wife and be with you. YOU ALREADY HAVE HEARD THIS A MILLION TIMES! You knew it before you wasted your time typing this question. Don't be a homewreaker!
The man is scum if he is giving you his attention. You are seriously degrading yourself if you take it. STOP IT!


galbee
Rating
LEAVE HIM ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!! HES NOT YOURS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


cheetah7
Do everyone involved a favor (including yourself) and leave this relationship at once. He will NEVER leave his wife for you, no matter how many times he tells you he's not happy with her. Find someone single for yourself and stop playing second fiddle.


matty
Rating
Learn to let go...


boilerrat
Find a guy who doesn't have a wife!!!


ryladie99
Rating
Easy you have a choice that you need to do.
Fly away from him as fast as you can and you can love him and his spirit far away. Do not get mad if I say you are interfere with other people lives do not urge him to leave his family and take you instead. Think big and you are single and pretty, why you want a man who has a wife already? Do not waste your time with him at all. Good luck and I wish you well.


lost_carolina
Rating
You wont get any sympathy from a WIFE. Being tottally honest,...your a homewrecker. Run away as fast as you can. Would you want some woman tryin to take your husband away from you? Didn't think so.


anaghank
Rating
don't be so selfish.how would u feel,if something like this was to happen to u?trust,commitment and understanding plays a very imp role in all relations.do not rely on him.he is now literally cheating is beloved wife.u falling for him is going to ruin the lives of many.so learn let go.


ncgirl
Forget him and dont ruin the innocent lives of other people,,it happened to me and I would never put anyone else thru this HELL


msradiant
Rating
first thing u urself r not sure of what ur doin,else u wouldnt b askin this question here.......do u think what u r doing is right.......anyways the information put up here is not enough to actually comment......just think for yourself,follow ur heart.good luck!


WifeLost
Rating
scene 1 : If he can fall for you after he chose his wife, TRUST ME, he can fall for others soon after you.

scene 2 : he dont love you at all....... just a game. Why waste time on this kind of game ?

scene 3 : both of you get together........ but causing alot of hurt to others

From what I gather above, FIND ANOTHER GUY !!!


Gypsy Girl
Leave him alone, he's married. If you need a distraction, you could alway study English.


Lola21
It may hurt to hear this from everyone, but they are right he's taken and belongs to someone else.For love you just might find it with someone else who actually deserves to have your love, and be their only love.


firefly
Look..thats a tough situation.I know its gotta hurt but you have to let him go....Even if he were to leave his wife for you,would you like to build your happiness on someone elses' misery??Unless he really really doesnt love his wife at all and would leave her in any case even if you werent in the picture....Still..its a sensitive situation any which way you look at it.Best is to let him be...Theres that saying too"If you love something,let it go..."you know how that goes...


Ride on
Find your own apparently this one is taken


krista112179
Rating
it depends on alot


Madare
Rating
Leave him alone, nothing worse then being a home wreaker...





 Enter Your Message or Comment


User Name:  
User Email:   
Post a comment:




Legal Discussion Forum

 I've been having an affair for 1 year. Is there a "best" way to tell my wife?
We have 2 children who are 3 and 1 yrs. old. I love them dearly and want to make the best of this bad situation. I know this is mostly my fault but part of it lies in our marriage going downhill ...


 Am I being unreasonable?
My husband is a marine recruiter, and has to work ridiculously long hours. I've tried hard to be patient with this, as I knew before we came here that it would be like that. However, the ...


 If your spouse is cheating would you want to have it out with the other person or your spouse?
what's your opinion on this?
I think its kind of crazy to want to have it out with the other person when its your spouse that is cheating on you. He/She is the one who is suppose to be ...


 Is it illegal for two divorced parents to talk bad about each other in front of their kids?
i heard that was illegal my mom talks about my dad all the time and i have a 10 year old sister 19 year old sister and me 15 almost 16!!


so is it illegal??




...


 Did he just leave me?
i planned a vacation for our family and he decided to not go but too late cause i am visiting my family. well we promised eachother to work on our relationship and communicate while i was gone with ...


 Can a married woman have a single man in a platonic relationship be best friends?
...


 Would you marry a old guy for his money?
I couldnt even marry a young guy with money if I didnt love him....


 Why are men all useless pigs?
Last night I wanted a cigarette and coke, and I wasn't in the mood for driving out for it, so I ask my husband to go get it and he does. He goes out, picks up the cigarettes and coke and drives ...


 Haha question for the guys (ladies too if they know)....?
Guys... now this is serious.... How many of u have ever tasted urself??

Oh and I don't mean like licking ur arm....use ur HEAD to know what I mean!

I'm really really ...


 My father inlaw is always putting me down...help?
many different times my father inlaw has yelled at me to the point where i cry. He yells at my children, tells me i am a bad mother and is always making fat jokes towards me. My husband never stands ...


 I know I shouldn't be upset but I can't help it?
Today is my fiance's B-DAY. We don't have a lot of extra cash bc of X-mas so I got him a $50 gift card to ITUNES, made him pancakes this morning and I was going to make him his favorite ...


 I am so hurt and lonely...?
me and my hubby had a fight over some silly matter..and i was showing tantrums and he just said that i am shameless and he won't care if he hit me....
i am so hurt...he is the same guy who ...


 Do you think an open marriage can work?

Additional Details
We've been married 4 years, and have been monogamous, but his job takes him away for extended periods of time. We're discussing the possiblity of having an ...


 Me and my wife have a 6 month baby.. she gained alot of wieght after her pregnancy...?
I dont have that attraction for her anymore cuz of her weight!! Every where we go there is hot girls all over and can help to look... I am affraid that im going to cheat on her..WHAT SHOULD I DO??...


 My hubby was 33 and slept with my 17 yr old babysitter 2 times while i was out earning the money for the?
family and i am still here with him and i keep asking my self why but when it comes time to walk out the door i cant i just freeze and think about my kids some serious an decent advice would be ...


 I'm going to go through a divorce..?
I know that divorce is frowned upon in religion. I know that only in the case of adultery are you encouraged to get a divorce. My issue is that my husband told me that he was attracted to this woman 3...


 Should I Stay Or Should I Move On?
I have been with this one guy for about 3 and half years now. We have a great relationship. However I want to get married, he on the other hand does not know what he wants. We have had several talks ...


 What Should Do About A Husband Whom I am Divorcing, is Cheatin on his new women...Speak Up or Just Let It Fly?
I lived with him as a roommate so I can get back on my feet from 4 yrs of him supporting me. but his women kept calling me and threatening me...I knew about him sleepin with 3 other people (including ...


 What's a man's Idea of helping with housework?
...


 Should I let my wife quit her job?
I have a business and my wife has a clinic.

Currently I make about 5 times $ as she does.

My wife complains about her job a lot. She says she gets sick (physically) from ...




Copyright (c) 2009-2011 Wiki Law 3k Monday, May 28, 2012 - Trusted legal information for you.
Archive: Forum  |  Forum  |  Forum  |  Links
0.084