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I love my husband of 6 years but I hate and am embarrassed by his new job which he loves what should I do?
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I love my husband of 6 years but I hate and am embarrassed by his new job which he loves what should I do?


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He's a massage therapist. But that's not what I'm embarrassed about. It's because he currently works at this foo foo spa.


    




Lauren
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what's the job?


I don't think it would have any effect on how I felt about my husband...he's earning a living.

ADD: Does the "foo foo spa" pay the bills? Who cares really. Does his working there change who he is? Stop being so superficial.


Noliee
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what kind of job does he do?


Young C
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you should be happy that your husband has a job and is working hard to support you, which is a luxury taken for granted by too many women.


Ember
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what is this new embarrassing job that he has?


Corona
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Pleaseeeeeeeeee tell us what he does!!!


*smile*
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What's his job? Male stripper? You need to specify.

You know my husband thinks his job is boring and not exciting etc etc - not proud of it but I think he's the smartest man ever! His job is good.

Depends on your husbands job- seriously. SPILL.


Scott M
Be glad he's working


Saddennis Recipes
depends on what he does and if it's considered embarrassing by the masses. It could be something that only you just find embarrassing


kidfree
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Why should it matter what he does? If you love him unconditionally, you should love him no matter what he does for a living.


ceegt
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As long as he isn't doing anything obscene or illegal, then you should support him. It is hard to really answer this question without all the facts.


shelly.lamb
well tell us what it is for god sake. it cant be that bad unles hes working in a gay sauna


racer 51
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shame on you. what's the job?


Brad 56
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You have to decide what's more important, your husband working at a job he really enjoys but embarasses you, or your husband working at a crappy job that he hates and is miserable because of it. Being able to find a job that you really like doing is not as easy as you might think. If you two are happy otherwise, support him and bury your negative feelings.


sarah71397
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i would say support him but the question is a little vague


SWEETYPI
Stop being a snob, and be a supportive wife. The man is bringing home a paycheck and is happy at work.


Swaygirl27
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Oh rats... what is his new job? :-

I would just do your best to stick by him, maybe you'll get used to it eventually. If it makes him happy... I guess that's all that matters!


orangie
I would like to help you more if I knew what the job is and what it entails.

I would have a talk with your husband first off and explain to him what your feelings are. My husband and I always talk about our careers because it is a hug part of our lives besides our family.
I would be open to suggestions and make the best decisions that fit your family.
It more sounds like your husband is in the adult industry of some sort? I don't know but on the same hand what ever it is you can work it out. Good Luck.


lawlady
OK, the obvious question is "What does he do?" Is it legal, is he supporting the family? You could be a lot worse off. Is he a stripper, garbage man, work in the poop plant or what? Also, if he loves it he is probably in a lot better mood than if he had to go to a job he hated everyday.


daljack -a girl
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If you love him and he works at a job that is legal.....forget about what he does.

Him being happy should make you happy.


Kay!
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Just get over it, he loves it and is happy, so you should be too, just accept him the way he is


PrivacyNowPlease!
All work is honorable as long as it is legal. My husband worked for a time at a Strip Club as a bouncer.


.
So long as it's not illegal or personally degrading to him, you should just be happy for him. Have you any idea how many people hate their jobs in this world??


sugar321pie
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It would really help if you said what he does.


confused<3
If he loves it then I think you should support him in what he chooses to do. You should also talk to him and tell him how you feel, communication is key in any relationship.


Leannamick
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what does he do???? and why would you be embarassed by a job that provides for you and your family....I WANT my husband to be a male stripper...he has a hott body...and can make a lot of money showing it off

EDIT: are you kidding me...free massages and your complaining!!!...what is it...a gay spa? Whats a foo foo spa???


Durango
I feel sorry for the man......


Fabiola J
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You love him so you must accept him - faults, defects, flaws and all. Especially if his job makes him happy, just stand by his side. You would want him to do the same for you. Love him and just avoid the subject when possible and grin and bear it if it ever comes up.


Bird Girl
unless hes a stripper i dont think you have anything to be worried about. love him! if hes happy then you should be as well!


Beth
What does he do? Without knowing that I can't really say. But if he really loves his job I would be supportive. You can't change other people.


Ela J Pete
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I know that you may not like what he is doing but it dose help with the things that you need in life.
I say get over it and leave the guy alone but if its like that movie HOSTEL then that is when to say something or split.





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