I love this person but he is married we both like each other what may happen, he can't leave his wife too?

SLC

The key word in that is he is married. You said he can't leave his wife but it is more like he won't. Move on. I am sure you can find someone who is available.

nimo22

Stay away from him. Married men almost never leave their wives. And they are full of lines to make you think that they are trapped in the marriage. Some common ones:
"My wife is mean to me and psycho and she'll kill me if I leave her."
"My wife won't let me see the kids if I leave her."
"My wife is sick, I can't leave her until she gets better."
"My wife will commit suicide if I leave her."
I watched friend after friend in high school and college fall for married guys and their stupid lines. Don't waste your time on this guy. Plus you know this is wrong. Move on. Better to hurt a little bit now than to waste time waiting months or even years on some guy who won't ever leave his wife.

katydid

If you really don't want to hurt his wife you should find a man who is not married. This guy probably isn't going to leave his wife. Why should he? He's got a wife with all those comforts and a lover.
I'm just curious, how do you love someone who could do that to his wife?

chula_929

2mths thats not love thats lust n u should be ashamed 4being w a married man n he nasty for being w u honey u r second in his life n second best aint nothin u r his side hoe n u should b any1s sideho u should be #1 n he aint leaving his wife anytime soon

mistyboo143

You should leave him alone!!! No one should ever come between a husband and wife, they are a family and have commited to each other. If you two are meant to be together then it will happen when it is right. If he doesn't want to be with his wife then he has to finish that relationship first before he can be commited to you. What kind of man would do that to someone he loves, and is that really the kind of man you want to be with?

Starla_C

Turn around and RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!! DO NOT BE A HOMEWRECKER!!!!

Married means: HE'S NOT AVAILABLE. HE BELONGS TO SOMEONE ELSE. HE'S COMMITTED. HE'S TAKEN VOWS. HE IS NOT YOURS TO EVEN CONSIDER!

Go away from him and never look back!

Rawrrrr

Don't be stupid - end the relationship now. Nothing good will come of it. You should have enough self respect not to get involved with a married man, and he should have enough respect for his wife not to cheat.

John B

you are headed down a road where only you will be hurt. One day he will come to you and say "I know I told you I loved you but my wife and I have too much history together so I cannot leaver her". And he will be gone.

May not happen for quite a while or may happen soon it all depends on when he gets tired of living a double life.

Anyone who is going with a person who is married is asking to be hurt. If he truly loved you and wanted to spend the rest of his life with you he would be fileing for divorce very soon.
My guess is there will always be an excuse why he can't do that.

For your sake I do hope you move on. Find a man that is not attached and you can have a real love affair then.

áƒ¦Queenáƒ¦

GIVE UP! Gosh, you people ask these questions like, "We both like eachother, but he has a girlfriend...he's married...he's going out with someone else... WHAT SHOULD I DO?!" The answer is pretty obvious: DON'T DO! JUST DON'T!

1. Two months isn't love, it's lust.

2. He probably won't leave his wife.

3. What goes around comes around. Someday you may find someone you truly love, a cheap tart may not care that he is in a committed relationship and have an affair with him.

4. You have no right to lust after another woman's husband.

5. Grow up.

6. Find your own man.

MsChuLa

i have on ething to say

he doesnt love you.
sorry if you dont like mai answer but, hello!! hes married.
all that he cant leave his wife stuff?? i dont think so.
hes love neither of you becuase hes married and saying he loves you so theres no love or respect for his wife.
if yu were to end up with this fool, hes gonna do tha same to you.
dont waste your time or heart.

SillyKimmie

You've already hurt his wife!!!! Cut off all contact with him! Quit calling him, emailing him, texting him...everything! Don't take his calls either! You need to leave this guy and his family alone! Do you honestly believe that he will be faithful to you? No! Grow up and find someone that's single. Quit being a homewrecker!

Becky B

the best thing to do is back away and leave him alone, he is a married man

Melissa

leave him alone. If he wants to leave his wife then let him make that decision. YOu don't want to be the reason for that..and do you really want to be with someone who is married and wants to be with another woman. If he can do this to his wife what makes you think that he wont do it to you

Free-Lance

WALK AWAY NOW!!!
you know that.

Mo the Great

Leave it alone!!!!!!!

dance4praise

First off, I'm not gonna bash you for falling for a married man or for being a homewreker. We all make mistakes. You both had equal wrong doings and it needs to cease immediately! Think about it, if he'll cheat WITH you, he'll cheat ON you! That's tried and true! If he did leave his wife for you, you'll be in her shoes in a matter of time! Think of how it hurts! What about his kids(if any)? What if YOU got pregnant by him? You say you don't want to hurt his wife, you already have. Just be the mature adult and back away. There is someone out there for you. Its not a married man, either.
This relationship is just a volcano of pain ready to blow. Once crap hits the fan, you'll see how much he 'loves' you.

Make the right chioce. There is no way that you feel right about this in your heart...

Mr. Joshua

walk away.

it would not be worth it.

fatt_and_juicy

if u don't leave him now, u will suffer for committing adultry.

Tiffany

This is common sense, leave him so that he can be with his family

kiki

First let me tell you that this man is a liar! He told you the same things he used to tell his wife.....don't put yourself in such a situation,you worth more than that! Think about the other woman,she loves this man too! Why they are married if they don't love each other? this man only want to taste both of you an compare both of you.....if you love yourself forget about him!

smileyone

A married person who cheats does not respect their wife/husband .......Respect = Love.

Would you hurt someone who you claim to love ??? The answer is nooo, yet so many claim they love their spouse yet they are cheating on them, for whatever excuse is given it is pathically a low act, and one which i have no tolerance for.

Hes married...... You are just as bad as he is... You will end up the hurt one from this in the long run, no doubt about it.

Leave it !

reddevilbloodymary

He's made vows to another woman, is married to her for crying out loud, so how can he possibly respect you? He's not honorable or ethical in his actions, by claiming to love you while he is still married to another. Tell him too bad, you won't settle for being the 'other woman.' AND THEN LEAVE....you deserve much better.

Sarge1572

Hey Geeta, YOU are the OTHER WOMAN. He CAN leave his wife, but he's not going to!! Why should he? He's getting fed at home and getting laid by YOU!! And when he misses you he's getting laid at home!

If you call his wife watch how fast he dumps you.

jeeccentricx2

He does not love you and he will not leave his wife...but will string you along saying he will but the time is not right now.
You do not want a cheater anyway...he will cheat on you.

Dixie

Leave it alone,he is married.He is just cheating on his wife with no thought of ever leaving her.He is just hoping not to get caught.He is using you because you were dumb enough to believe him and have an affair with him.

Carl_the_Truth

Dump him ! He's a player. If he cheats on his wife, he'll cheat on you too. Wise up before you get hurt...

sweetgranny06

leave him don't fool with married men

pinniethewooh

You believe that he loves you? I'll bet he'll stop saying that if you stop sleeping with him. You are just a piece of *ss to him at this point. Why would he leave if he can have both of you?

kat_luvr2003

don't mess with married men, you will get into trouble,that's why people are getting killed,spouse finds out and gets revenge

psuricheman

I think you know what you should do...stay away from him. You don't want to be a homewrecker!

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