I love two men. Can I keep seeing them both?

practical thinking

If you were to find out that one of these men loved you as you do him, but also loved another and saw her when not with you, how would you feel? If you're fine with it, then that is your choice, but you at least owe it to them to let them know you are not in an exclusive relationship with them. Love has no place for deception.

tortuga

If I were one of them, I could solve your problem cause I would be gone

scrappy06

you dont love them. you think you do. you are a scardycat and dont want to be alone. dont be a ****, you are better than that. grow up and stop trying to act like a teenager. leave that to me. hell i dont even do **** like that.

sunshine86

No you are not right and you can't keep seeing them both!! How would you like to find out that you are number two to one of them. Put yourself in their place.

demented teen

u should pick the one u love most and dump the other

CowboyBill

You are a $lut.

lormik2

u must choose one. weigh. the compatibility, security, love of each of them to u. . . if u love them bothe, who loves u most? choose the one who loves u best, cares for u, and the one who can give u a nice fjuture ahead and the one who takes u seriosly. ok? i hope God almighty will guide u in choosing who's the lucky guy.

Diamonds_4Ever

It won't last. You will either get caught, loose interest in one, feel guilty, or find a third guy who has something that the other does not. Just don't "be" with one if this is what you want to do. Just "date" them all, then there is no harm done if it isn't serious.

John B

You are headed for a big fall girl. After while it will become obvious to the one your with that you are not completely with him and the questions will begin.

And what happens when one...or both...ask you to marry them.
What will you do then? What will you do.

Jenna

noo! ur living 2 lives and thats bad...wut if one finds out about another?

stephanie v

no u cant! because when you love sombody you want them to be happy ...I dont think they would be happy if they new you were being shared. pick one and let them know what u did.

tinker143

as long as you dont get pregnant and you dont marry one of them

toujoursamours3519

no . if yoo love them . you wudn`t be hurting them

Katherine B

You are being selfish.If neither man knows about the other one then I assume neither one would be happy if they found out.You need to decide which one you like better and dump the other one because if you don't and they find out they will be gone and you will be asking,what went wrong? up here soon. All good things must come to an end.

rogue chedder

you're a freakin idiot

wittlewabbit

Choose one and pass the other...

Jacob R

People don't two time the ones they love.

grow up

addicted2stamping

You don't LOVE two men..... you might love one, but are in LUST with the other.

Lust is a very powerful thing, don't be decieved.

The grass may be greener on the other side, but it still needs mowed!!!!

dooneygirl@sbcglobal.net

eventually your gonna have to come clean about your secret because your going to end up alone

uranus2mars

i believe in honesty...if you can't tell them, it isn't worth it...they have a right to know

acedelux

Based on your question, there are one of two (or both) things going on here. 1) The first one may not give you what you need (emotionally or otherwise) so you are seeking out a second one to fill that gap. 2) There are some unresolved issues within yourself to make yourself get into this kind of situation. The way I see it, you are playing with fire here. I assume the guys think the relationship with you is exclusive, so when they find out, there is going to be some sort of trouble. A serious heart to heart talk with one of them (Or both but at seperate times of course) about how you feel is in order. It may be uncomfortable however, it will be no where near the pain and discomfort when they find out the hard way.

m434u

see them together. Go to bed with both at the same time.

colorist

If you're not married you're fine. Best wishes

nanduchitnis

Keep both of them happy. You can take ur time n finally choose the right one. :D

BNM

You can see both but eventually you are going to get caught

mustanglady

They both will find out and you are going to lose both!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ctrujillo2000

Why stop at 2?

No it wont last long! Someone is going to get hurt out this situation. Y did U start seeing someone else if you already had someone. I feel sorry for the first guy. Sooner or later you will get hung when the rope gets long enough..

glowworm

First if you already had one then either you love him enough to stay with him or cut him loose and find someone else..sometimes we get into relationships and down the road something seems like it is missing so we search for that one person who will lighten up our life in that area..Is that what happened? Well,,one ? I do have...Are you married? If so then if your marriage is over to you then plz divorce your husband then seek another...One day they will both find out..It always happens is how i found out when my husband had me and a girlfriend..Trust me that hurts worse when someone you love is cheating on you for whatever reason...if you are not married then you need to ask yourself...Would you want them to do that to you? God bless

runsane6o

Sure just Douche in between meals ...kinda like flossing

kayla

get real........their gonna find out sometime

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