I m going out with a married man, but he has promised to marry...?

igotplayedonce

You have been getting boned for four years. After all this time, do you think he's dumping his wife for you? Nope, he's not budging. Forget about him and hope you never get cheated on once you do marry.

mellychelly

Help you??? Someone should poke your eyes out!!!!!

misse

he is not going to divorce his wife. if he really loved you he would have done it along time ago. you are a boot* call. you need to let go and next time get involved with someone who is truly available. i can not believe you let someone do you like this for 4 years.

doggiemom

He promised, huh? Remember -- he promised his wife lots of stuff too, like fidelity. He went back on that one, didn't he?

Icewomanblockstheshot

This line is older than dirt, no he won't. He'll enjoy a nice piece of tail on the side for as long as you fall for it.

Value yourself!

mrs. justak

HOMEWRECKER!!!!!

cjordan23

1st of all, he not going to get a divorce.
2nd you belong on Jerry Springer, because u are an idiot for believing him

Gazoo

Stop being stupid and find someone who is single.

ozzy chik...

He gave his wife the same promise and so far has kept it..with her..Isn't wasting four years of your life long enough for you...You deserve to be No.1 in someones life..NOT ...No.2...
go find your No.1, he also has waited long enough !!.........

Dana S

Uhmmm can we say " i'm being played". he never had any intentions of leaving his wife....get out now before you waste anymore of your time with him.

leave him and tell him to call you when the divorce is final! you are letting him have his cake and eat it too!

Le_Roche

1. He's not going to marry you.

2. You should end the relationship immediately and avoid dating married men in the future.

3. You are only hearing about the problems from his point of view; consider that he is cheating on his wife with you. What does that say about his credibility?

You need to end it with this guy immediately. He has both of you; his marital problems are probably typical of what married people deal with. If you tell him it's over, he will do everything he can to keep you...BUT DIVORCE HIS WIFE.

Please stop kidding yourself about how he feels about you. I can't sugarcoat it: he's telling you what kind of man he is, and kind of woman he thinks you are, by being unfaithful.

April

Are you kidding me?! If the man is married, you shouldn't have started anything with him in the first place. his promise is the oldest line in the book. Break it off and find a real man. Even if he eventually did leave his wife, you would be very naive to think he wouldn't cheat on you.

angeleyez1956@verizon.net

4 years???????????? even if it was 1 year or 4 months he is never ever ever going to divorce his wife for you ro any other woman or man for that matter.......why would he when he has his cake and eatting it too.????????RUN.,,,,,move on..learn to love yourself and think you are worth loving......by a SINGLE man..and why would you want to SIN....and y would you want to hurt theri children....if they have children..you both are selfish!! and to top it off you really love him and he doesn't love you!!

ninamcguinness

Honey, that's the oldest line in the book.

If he was going to divorce his wife, he would have done it 4 years ago.

Face the fact, that unless you want to be the "other woman" for the rest of this relationship, you need to cut your losses and move on.

This time, try and find someone who isn't attached.

Good Luck

Quasimodo

Hes not leaving her my dear. No kidding. If this promise has not come to fruition then it's time to start ending things.

daljack -a girl

OMG......leave and go have a life that you deserve.

You'll look up way day and realize you've been wasting your life....you've already given him 4 years that you can't get back.

He is never going to leave. If he was he would have left by now. Get out before you waste anymore time on him. And stop dateing married men.

brian_d_long2006

Your being a mislead Moron.......
He hasn't left her yet? He is unloyal, unfaithful, untrusting
And this is the kind of man you want????????????
Are you Sick??????

SALSA

And you actually believe him. After four years. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha, Not very smart of you. Ya think maybe ya better move on?

usmc_piper

I would drop him. There is no reason for him to divorce his wife if he has you. Unless he has papers that the whole legal thing is going through the divorce, then if you are with him, in some states you can get charged with adultery. Just a thought.
And another thing. Can you trust him? He is cheating on one person with you, who is to say that he will not cheat on you.

kathy28

FOUR YEARS You need to LEAVE him. He's NOT getting a divorce. Even If he did get a divorce do you really want him, if he cheats with you, he will cheat on you.

Mr. Just Julie

Yeah, they all promise that. Very few actually follow up. It's called 'stringing you along'.

Enjoy the ride.

Graham Cracker Head

Are you serious????? You cannot really expect people to say that you should stay with this loser........Once a cheater always a cheater.....If he will cheat WITH you he will cheat ON you.........cut your ties now geeeeezzzzz

Vince Ruberto

Take this from a man.
If the guy is REALLY in love with you, enough to marry you, he would have left his wife looong loooong time ago. Don't waste your time. You've dedicated four precious years of your life to this guy who hasn't done anything for you.
My advice to you is tell him you prefer to stop seeing him until he is ready to marry you. That's the only way you will know how deep his love is.
Good Luck Honey!!!

Queenie Tay

Never date a married man. Always date a single & available man. That's the key!

He seems to be a romantic liar. He seems to able to convince you that he will marry you due to never-ending problems with his wife. Give a thought for his wife, dear.

If he's faithful, why did he cheat on his wife to be out with you?
That's enough to cause problems with his wife.

Imagine the thrill he's enjoying to have both you and his wife.
He has no considerations for his wife and for you.
He has considerations only for himself.

If he loves you, why must he let you waste your youth & make you wait for him to be single & available for you?

Do you think he will remain faithful to you once he divorced her & marry you?

There's alot of doubt going on. Having so many doubts is certainly not a good foundation for a secure & stable relationship.

This relationship is no doubt thrilling, but dangerous & risky.

Dear, I suggest you quit the relationship to save your face.
And this lesson will make you wiser in future relationships.

RED ROSE

ok what ever he said

the_hedda_lettuce

What kind of screwed up relationship is that????

For 4 years you've been hearing him LIE about leaving his miserable wife and the life he has with her, and wants to marry you, but YET has not fulfilled his promises............

1) You are being used.
2) If he will cheat on his wife with you, he probably will cheat on you as well
3) Honestly, do you like to share your man with another woman, his WIFE?

Do yourself a favor and find a single guy that is available emotionally, mentally, physically, financially, and so forth.

junebug501

its been 4 years already, seriously doubt he intented to divorce her.
what i would do personally is go to her myself and tell her about the affair. bring any proof such as, pictures, messages, anything. wives dont always want to believe their spouse is cheating. get her to leave him and then dump him as well. besides, don't you think if he did it to her he would do it to you too?

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