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I know the pain you are feeling is awful, and feels like it will never end - but it will.
I've been where you are, when you feel like giving up, but please don't do anything. You owe it to yourself to think this through calmly and rationally - don't rush this descision.
When I was suicidal recently, I asked a question on here. Have a look below at the answers, they helped me when I was on the edge. You have to think how this would effect other people - it would break so many peoples hearts.
I know you are in love with this girl - but you want to wait until you find someone who loves you as much as you love them - otherwise the marriage won't be happy.
If you want to talk to someone who has been through this and come out the otherside, please get in touch with me.
Thinking of you. |
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Liz
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What do you expect, you never told her about your intentions, then all of a sudden you ask her to marry you? I can't think of anything you could have possibly done that would have made her run for the hills any faster. She is not being "cruel" to you, she is doing the only rational thing in the face of your lunacy. Please get some therapy to learn how to act like a more balanced human being. And stop all this nonsense about wanting to hurt yourself, how do you think that would improve your situation? Move on with your life, there are plenty of things and people worth living for out there for you. |
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Jimmy H
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I've just wrote out an answer but deleted it cuase i cant be bothered. |
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prismcat38
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"...she knew my intentions which were never spoken..."
Really, is she a mind reader? How do you know what she knows?
"...although she is still in touch wid me an unaware abt these feelings of mine." You already said you asked her out for marriage, so apparently she is aware of your feelings.
Could it be you caught her totally off guard? Tried to push her too fast? You can live without her because believe me, you would never be happy with someone who didn't share the same feelings. You can't force someone to love you, why would you even want to? Love that isn't given freely isn't love, its abuse, and it sounds like you need counselling from a real live person. |
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CeeVee
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Grow up !
This isn't love it's a selfish infatuation.
Given your reaction to the girl's answer she was quite right not to get involved with someone as self-centred as you. |
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myra
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You are Pathetic! Get a Life!!! Anyone who thinks of Suicide is a Coward, not brave enough to face life's challenges. You think you have had a hard time, think of the mother of the 6 year old who got kidnapped from her own home, raped and chucked in the street naked. Think of the millions of starving people around the world. Think of the all the people born blind/deaf/disabled. Now read your own question and think of the answer yourself. |
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sue l
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www.samaritans.org |
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Toxxikation
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Okay, you've got two paths here:
1) Stop being a whiney baby, and stop acting like it's the end of the world.
2) Slice your jugular with a razor. You know, the vein along your neck. Try writing a message for her in the blood. Aim your neck and write, "I love you, ________". Where the blank is, write her name. That'll make the evil b**** pay, right? |
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jimmyfish
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You are a bigger a**ole than most. firstly think about IT you Will see this girl all the time, so ignore her she's a waste of your time.
She don't want you so find another interest like stamp collecting. |
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Truthsayer
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Dude get a grip! People who talk about suicide in any other way than one on one, to someone close to them, is after attention. Infact people who talk like this are a burden on normal people. So do your part to fight global warming and go ahead and do it. And anyone that's nurturing this idiot....shut up! |
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Henrietta
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Nick,
Time to move on.
She does not like you - end of story. |
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david l
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Get your *** down to the hospital mate, just so they can give you the once over
Then after a few days get on with your life, plenty more fish in the sea, she wasnt yours to start off with anyways you dont say anything to her for months and i take it you asked her out and not to marry you which if u did you definatly need to go to the docs |
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3
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This is one of the most stupid questions I have ever seen. What do you mean you want to end your life. Dude, life is precious. Children are in hospitals fighting cancer to survive and your talking about life ending because some one will not give you attention. Grow up. Jeez. No wonder with your "WIMPY" attitude she doesn't want to have anything to do with you. Quit being such a "WUSSY" and kick your gonads into gear and be a man and the girl just might change her mind.
What an idiot.
Sarge |
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ABSYNTHMINDED
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turn it the other way round, what would you say if someone had feelings for u but you didn't have feelings for them, suddenly they asked you to marry them what would you say ? would you be being cruel if u said no? you need to stop this infatuation and move on how can you really love someone you don't really know. suicide don't be daft she said no its not the end of the world |
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she
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you seem a bit unstable to say the least...get a grip...im not mocking you but remember that peoples husbands leave them, peoples children die, people starve to death or are beaten every day...kids are abused, people are abandoned,die in stupid wars...this is a girl for f**ks sake, stop feeling so sorry for yourself and put it into perspective in your head...when you think about these other things, maybe it wont seem so bad after all...;0) |
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dungeoness
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come on,think this through.how would killing yourself make things better?what about the family and friends you'd leave behind? |
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big al
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I don't think you are the only one who has these feelings. Your not alone in the way you feel and you can speak to people who will listen and can share your problem. You can meet people who have had the same experiences. Why not drop a line to the Samaritans to talk, they will be able to give you sound advice and point you in the right direction. Why not? It's worth a shot hey? |
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tazzle
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Just how old are you?????????????????????????????????????...
DUMB *** |
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ebonny
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dnt want to blv its cos of the gal u want to commit suicide,i guess u neva liked life dts y.get on wit life,blv dt ur partner s on the way,shes nt urs |
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mnm4213
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You want to kill yourself because some girl doesn't like you?! I'm sorry but that is about the worst excusse I have ever heard. We have all been there. There are millions of women out there and trust me there are ones that are BETTER then her. You need to go out with your friend and just start talkin to the ladies forget about this other girl and have a good time. If you do this...in a month you will forget how much you liked this girl and you will realize how dumb the idea was to kill yourself. Hell leave this sight and get into a singles sight and just start chattin. Good luck |
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penny_172
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forget her and start another relationship, doing harm to urself will not benefit you, look on the bright side, as you see, even u hurt urself, she might no feel srry and give in to u |
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ebiraland
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nick, life is not all about the said friend, she is not worth the trouble, there is a better person for you out there, so go boy and look for her. gud luck. |
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Crayzay
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DONT! you can find this love again! it wont be he first trust me! just please dont harm your slef its her loss not yours! |
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sexypinobunny
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let her know how you feel again and if she still doesnt have any interest, move on with your life.She is gonna get married to some1 else and if you end up killing yourself, she's still gonna get married to some1 else. so think about it |
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SvartSjel
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Listen u dont have to watch her smash ur heart and make u eat it and poisen u. Be a real man and show anyone that u can survive..and u re strong u re a man commiting suicide is for weak......u can withdraw from dating for a lil time but this has to be done with the honor. Just lay on your bed and try to ease ur pain.....keep telling u that why i am suffering for her? She should be the one who has to suffer because she rejected me...u the one precious ok? not her......and try to be with ur friends go out......do sth that will make ur mind keep busy i know its never easy but god has given us a very important thing..."the abilty of forgetting"......with time...ok it wont be to quick but things will be ok.....there is still hope nick.....its not over until the fat lady sings...im sure that there is someone out there for u waiting..if u do sth stupid...what will happen her_? she will lose the only one for her..so u do.....u dont want to miss that chance right? |
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sexy
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sweet heart there is a person named JESUS. you need to pray and ask him to mend your heart. suicide is not the answer. that is the devil trying to steel your joy. you need to pray and pray without ceasing and he will take that void away. Read Isiah 54:17 no weapon formed against you shall prosper. that is a weapon that is trying to prosper. hold fast to GOD's word and it will be alright. |
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abusybloke
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a] learn to write in english.
b] top yourself, you sad git |
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kelsey
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why take a permenant solution to a temporary situation???? This to shall pass and with every relationship you have you will grow as a person life is a learning experience. experience everything you can. don't hurt yourself she is not worth it. |
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Stingray
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Let me share with you a method that works in being able to deal with the situation.
Visualize in your mind, that the person you were so madly in love with, and the one you cared so much about, and would do anything in the world for. . . . . . . just one day she died.
Imagine that you were very hurt, and cry and let it all come out . . . . . . . and then imagine attending a funeral for her and show all your respect, and put her to rest.
You are now free to understand that you still have a strong love for your woman, but she does not exist anymore, because you put her to rest, along with all your unbearable torment, and you took a deep breath, stood tall, and went forward with your life and lived happily ever after, and one day meeting the girl you were destined to be with.
Just think, if you end it all now, you will never have the opportunity of meeting that special someone that is out there for you . . . . . waiting for you to find her.
Darryl S. |
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j6shawie26
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commiting suicide is the most stupid and most coward form of escape. just thinking of doing it is absolutely insane!!! you cannot go around and waste your life just because someone dumped you. i think what you need to do is learn to accept failures. this is what life is about. you cannot always win. sometimes you have to lose or get rejected but this should not be a reason for you to give up on life. instead, make this a challenge so you can become a stronger person. i think its time that you grow up and become a real man. you have got the balls and its time you stand up for it. she is not the only girl on this planet. look around, and maybe the right girl for you is just waiting around the corner. so get up...life is good!!! smile cuz you have got a lot of friends around!!!! |
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blondegirl
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It is hard i know but you will move on from this experience.
I think and only can advice that time is a great healer.
I am in love with my ex but as the time is going by i am finding it a lot easier to cope with.
I am not in contact with my ex and i do believe that is the best thing because i think that if i was still in contact with him, it would make it a lot harder for me to carry on with the rest of my life and it would also make it harder to get over him.
Maybe it would be a good idea if you stop having contact with this girl and than maybe it would be easier for you to move on too.
Maybe you should try talking to someone and possibly it may be a good idea for you to not be alone at the mo, surround yourself with your friends and family.
They are your friends and family and they will want to support you at this time.
Please don't end your life over this girl as your life is so much worth more than that and in time you will meet someone and settle and more to the point be happy, I just don't believe that you have met the right one yet
good luck and hold your head high and you will get over this x |
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