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I made my ex wife giggle on the phone today,should I ask her if she wants to fool around?

we've been legally separated for a year and a half . She was very nasty when we split . But I still find her very physically attractive , she phoned tonight asking if I may have found her i pod in the kids swimming bag , as we share custody , and I asked if she just wanted to call me .


    




Cynthia
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She's an ex for a reason, and let me remind you that not all relationships are healthy for us nor should they all last a lifetime. Of course there's gonna be an attraction there, the two of you had a relationship at one time. That attraction and chemistry doesn't just go away, but you are an adult and must realize that sometimes you need to move on. Something caused the two of you to go your separate ways. Your relationship has run its course, and now the two of you are in a place where you can once again be kind to each other and put the children's best interests first. Things sound like they are going well, don't mess things up for the sake of your children. Starting a casual s-- relationship is not worth the risk. Find someone else that you are attracted to and leave this relationship alone. Things are good, don't mess them up!


Headin South
Don't confuse your children. either stay separated or get back together. You are going to screw up your kids if they find mommy in daddy's bed but mommy and daddy don't live together.
just find a girlfriend


IQ lady
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Sounds like you want only one thing.Find a girlfriend and don't mess up the kids.


Im just answering your question!
When there are kids involved its not fair to be showing them that you are still affectionate with each other, all you will do is bring everything up all over again and confuse them. And dotn say you will do it discreetly- cus kids know these things, they sense something is different and you WILL get caught out.
If you really want to get laid then get someone else.


jonathan o
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make some excuse for her to see you

I gotta show you this... or show you that.. or

YOU GOTTA SEE MY...

this way you can sneak something and get her before she sees it coming


Janet W
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Never hurts to ask. The worst she can do is call you a pig and hang up.


ramni222
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i suspect that in addition to physical attraction, you also have feelings.

she is the mother of your children.

if you want to get back together and she wants to, i suspect it will it may not be that difficult if she now giggle at your comments.

importantly, you already know the territory.

go for it.

best wishes and god bless.


summer08
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even you are separate no longer husband and wife but both of u may be friend. don't be too sensitive. both f u have to take care ur son growing in health family not worst


Nale
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You will do what you like but I advise a big fat no! You think your only fooling around with her but its your kids who will get hurt when they think you two will be getting back together. You both may be confusing your familiarity with one another for something else. Don't do it.


vegasskiier2581
You're an idiot.


mz
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You won't loose anything by trying but it sounds like she was just trying to be nice to you


cutie_katie
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try! =) both of you might find out that you're still into each other, then end up together again.. a nice happy ending for everyone!


Bootylicious1
I wouldn't go there if I were you. You aren't with her for a reason. Keep it that way!





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