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Sus-Girl
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ye so??
theres nothing wrong with it
just be happily married..and love her like crazy....
i know lots of people that are married to relatives and they all have normal marriages like everyone else
good luck!! |
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stanleys_2001
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wake up...
What an odd dream you had! |
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~*♥Ariah♥*~
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that happend to my cousins but there kids didnt have any mutant deformaties |
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dathickesteva
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stay married the damge is already done |
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jasonjas
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Have kids and be a weirdo!! |
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lyricbrodie
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ITS A LITTLE LATE TO CARE NOW. U WOULDVE GOTTON AN ANULLMENT IF IT BOTHERED YOU THAT MUCH |
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Ken and Wendy M
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you wouldn't be the first couple |
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skettopolis
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Stay married if it's legal otherwise you might not have a choice |
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Hicktown girl66
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Well, try not to worry about it. If you love each other, I guess it should be ok. Its not like you married your sister. |
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kazzadanni
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I cant believe it took until your wedding day to find out.Surely someone knew before then , but anyway whats done is done and if you really love her what does it matter.If you plan on having a family you had probably better look into things a lot beforehand, but other than that, as they say LOVE conquers all. GOOD LUCK in whatever lies ahead for you both. |
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GNR Sam
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marry her. |
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Yes
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Actually it is not true at all that cousins who have children will have "retarded" children. That is a very American sterotype and for centuries in all other countries it was preferred that cousins marry as to keep families close and to keep money within a family. Having retarded kids is a total myth and ignorant American ideology.
Whether it is "right" would be a personal issue and should not be subjected to other people's moral or ethical interpretations. The legal issue is a different matter, there are those states which have specific laws pertaining to such relationships. Without knowing the state of residency a more specific answer is not possible. |
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sufferingdaily
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If it is a cousin by marriage there is nothing wrong with that, it just sounds weird. If it blood related you have entered into incest. I see no accident in that, it's called ignorance, If blood related. shouldn't you know who your family is? |
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Nevwe
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Go ahead and marry her. You're not the only one who did that. |
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tami!
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well.................. um............................ i really dont kno. |
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Trilochan Kaur
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this is a hard question. |
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The_Dude
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Good for you |
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Angel Gill
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Stay married. It's OK. Now it's all done and over with. In many Middle Eastern and Asian countries they marry cousins and the chances of retarded babies are EXTREMELY low. In fact people that aren't related have more mentally retarded babies than people who are related.
Plus, in the Old Testament where it talks about people you can't marry, it lists everyone that you aren't allowed to marry or whom God is not OK with for you to marry but would you believe that NOT ONCE ANYWHERE does it mention anything about cousins?
So stay married. Love her as much as you can, she is your wife afterall. Don't tell a lot of people about it and live a happy life.
All the best to you. |
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NutstersChick
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U been playing 2 much GTA or what?
Well at least UR babies will have a good chance of looking like their father!
Hahahahahahahahaha |
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Chloe
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Get a life sonny. |
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LVieau
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Why didn't you parents say anything about how you 2 being related???
Shame of your relatives for keeping this a secret!!!!!!!! |
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queen
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if you really love her then she is true love. you guys just got married dont worry about it. it's defiently a wierd situation but love is strong. Albert Instine married his cousin. |
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Cooljohnstu3
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A lot depends on how close cousins u are. In the U.S. u may marry ur cousin as long as its not ur 1st cousin. In some states its 1st and 2nd cousins. In that case its ok and no ur children will not come out retarded nor have extra fingers, toes , or limbs. The Egyptians did this for 1000 years and did not have problems til the last 100-200 years are so. When they had problems it was mentally thats where the break began. |
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120 IQ
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Nice lie. |
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brwneyedgrl
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we are suppose to believe that in 3 years u never once brought her around any family members? That in all ur years of growing up that u never met ur first cousins? That untill ur wedding day when someone finally recognized ur parents , siblings, child was the only time u knew she was ur cousin... LOL WHATEVER! thanks for the 2 pts.. |
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Brandy
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Well, you do love her and you are married now, so why worry about it . That would throw me for a loop too. |
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donjaun91
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If you lover her and she loves you do nothing as long as the truth was never hidden from you |
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Stone
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YOU GUYS FIRST COUSINS OR WAT? |
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nanny2
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well you are married now.make the best of it. |
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Ruth R
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i would get an annulment if i were you!!! i would be interested to know how you found out you were related!!! |
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