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I met my girlfriend 4 days ago and I want to marry her. Is it too soon to ask?

She is 25 and I'm 18. I know I want to spend the rest of my life with her. She's perfect in my eyes. She told me she wanted to get married someday. I want to be married by the end of this year. Should I ask her? I know I need a better job, but I'll get one and I'll take care of her.


    




KevZilla
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NO too early she will dump you trust me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Mary O
Yes it is way to soon you have to get to know the person four days isn't even long enough she could be an axe murderer for all you know.


toamassosso
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Every one seems like they could be the one at first give it time to make sure.


*queenfairy1*Antioch California
NO, At least date for a little while and get to know her. Remember everyone thought Jeffrey Daumer was a normal guy........


Dancin' HOTTIE!!
UMMMMMM
HELLO???????

Don't ask to marry her now!!!!!
TOO SOON!!!!!!!


Lisa
not too soon to fall in love, but too soon to talk about marriage... get to know her, let her get to know you. You have plenty of time to get married, there's a whole lifetime ahead of you.


krautlover2u
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Good grief NO, do not ask her. She might be silly enough to say yes, and you will be marrying without knowing each other. A recipe for disaster. Give it some time, at least six months, before you get so serious. If there's really something there, it will still be there.


curiousJ
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Not a good idea. Sounds to me that you only gave yourself enough time to barely know her name and nothing about her. What you feels sound more like lust and/or infactuation. My advise, if you don't slow down you will stand a likely chance of losing her. Good Luck!


angelhart47
Maybe if you wait a few months and get to know her better you will change your mind. 4 days isn't long enough to get to know someone, but of course sometimes a few months or years isn't either. ;o) But do give it more time.


dragonflies
at 18 you haven't even emtional, or physically developed yet, what's your hurry? if what you guys have is real it can wait awhile, marriage is supposed to be forever.


ponitail 55
that is sweet but the best thing you can offer her is some life experience, if it is till death do you part that I am sure waiting 2 years out of 70 won't kill anyone.


Stareyes
Yes, spend some time getting to know her. That will help your relationship more in the long run if you do decide to get married. Four days is too soon for either of you to decide.


girlinlove
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4 days isn't necessarily too early in a relationship to know that you want to be with someone forever but it is too soon to ask for marriage. Even a fast moving relationship needs time to grow and develop. My advice is to enjoy your time with her and wait until you are stable then ask her to marry you. You are still young and your personality is still growing so your ideas and ideals may change. Good luck!!!


Claresmiles
If you ask her now it will freak her out. Just be with her for a while first and wait until the time is right. Get the good job you want, maybe live with her for a while. Don't jump right into it. You will scare her away. She said she wanted to get married "someday" not "today".


Miss k
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Very soon! You should at least be dating for one year before you make a life changing decision.


skyehigh
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LOL yes! Way too early!


Rudi A
4 days is not enough to have a lasting relationship with
anyone especially in marriage. You still have a lot of
waiting to do so you can get to know the person and
true love does not come in 4 days time no matter what
anyone says.


Freakky.
omg! that's way too early! wait at least 2 months


jesdur805
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well if both of youare truly in love then it doesnt matter how soon it is


brandy
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First of do you really know the person you asked .Are you sure y
ou want to commit your life based on a four day relationship.The attraction is new,and should be fun and exciting.Get to know each other and grow.Going into a marriage this soon will only end in divorce.So enjoy life and love while your still young.In the meantime you can work on your on your on a goal for a BETTER job.


lousy@love
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If you have to ask this question, you need to grow up before you even think about marriage. What can you possibly know about this person?


fullofsugaw
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No, it's too soon. What if she gets scared and runs? What if she's so scared or freaked out that she doesn't even give you a chance... You need to give both of you a chance to get to know each other better, and if you do, later, this can be a wonderful story you tell the kids... I knew her for four days and I already knew she was the one for me!!!


Lovebug123
Wait until you have the better job and money saved up, that way you have a better chance of her saying yes. Besides if you ask her right now, she'll think you are crazy.


iyamacog
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PLEASE dont ask her. You have much living to do before you make a lifetime commitment.


cats3inhouse
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18yr is too young!!! get your life in order. get a job, support yourself. get a car, pay insurance.
you want to play a grown up. pay grown up bills.
dont be in a hurry. learn to appreciate yourself. and like yourself.
but dont rush into marriage. its takes communication, sacrifices, and compromises.


Nightflyer
Personally, I would hold off awhile. Get to know each other real well.


brightpool
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Give it at least a year before you ask her to marry you. If you still feel this way by January 15, 2008, and if she feels the same way back, then think about asking her to marry you.

As it was said in a song when I was about your age, "Take time to know her / It's not an overnight thing / Take time to know her / Please don't rush into this thing...."


sinned
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YOU SHOULD TAKE THE TIME TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER. IN 4 DAYS, YOU HAVEN'T HAD TIME TO SMELL HE COLOGNE. DATE HER FOR AT LEAST A YEAR AND ASK AGAIN THEN. GOOD LUCK FINDING THAT JOB.


Nicki
You know good and well that you can't be in love with some after 4 days enough to want to marry them. Get that good job first and get your life all straightened out, But 4 days I'm not buying that, what happen if you meet another say The love of your life, cause I don't think you have had time to fall in love, I think your just in love with love..


sweetredbeachlvr
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OMG! Are you serious!?! You've got to be a prankster sitting on the other side of the computer waiting to see if anyone will actually give you a serious answer!

If you are serious, we need to hook you up with the guy who is asking why so many people get divorces!





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