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I might leave my husband for another guy, what to do?

I think I'm totally in love with my study partner but I'm scared if I leave my husband he will get custody of our daughter plus there is also her to take about as well. And plus the guy I love has a live in girl and 3 kids but he says he will leave them for me if I left my husband. But I'm not sure if I should please help!


    




Glen
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DO NOT LEAVE.....FORGET STUDY DUDE.....THE END....

GLEN


perfectlybaked
How can you trust him if he is leaving his partner just like that, and how can he trust you?

It's just an honest question.

The cycle doesn't end here.


ssncnmks
Of course you should not. It will be utterly selfish. You are a mother, think about your child and be an example. You are now an adulterer. What you do is wrong and you know it very well. STOP.


=)
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Heck no you shouldnt!! You made a committment to your husband the day you married, and you now have a committment to your daughter!


SDS
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STAY LOYAL TO YOUR HUSBAND


westfield47130
Another gullible girl... You really believe al that garbage about him leaving his gf? Grow up little girl. Divorce your husband, not because you want another man, but rather your husband deserves a better life than what he has with you.

Whether you stay or whether you go....the guy won't leave her.


Your Hero
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Get a Life!


'Barn
Sounds like a fling to me. Stop this with your study partner now. Find counseling. If you no longer love your husband move on "alone" not due to a fling who was a study partner. Trust me, he won't leave his wife and children.


Turtle
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Go right ahead and jump from the frying pan into the fire. Why not? Life's too short to have a grown up, happy and mature relationship with just one special person. You should marry several times and have lots and lots of kids and exes in your life just to keep things interesting and just to have that level of chaos in your life that you are looking for.


David J
Not just going to mess up your life but the lives of 3 other kids and a live in gf plus your husband. Wow how did you ever come to the conclusion this is a good idea? What part of "wrong" can you not see in your selfish acts? I was married to a double home wrecking, sad excuse of a person just like you, May she rot in hell with you!!!!


mas g
if your friend will leave girl and3 kids for you so no dout he will leave for any or with out any resin so what is in your guy you did not find it in your husband.....


contessa
Only you know the answer..
"There is NO spoon"


SafetyDancer
Um...OK, three words: DON'T DO IT.

Given your description of the situation, this is a recipe for total disaster. I couldn't make up a bigger one if I tried.

Slap yourself across the face until you come to your senses. And, try to think beyond your love-sick and immature little heart. You have a child. He has a children. Does any of your little plan make any sense at all considering them?

DON'T DO IT.


Alaric
Leaving one's kids is not cool.


KD & DJ
people don't be so selfish kids r innocent!!!!!


NAN G
You and your "study partner" are about to hurt 6 people very badly, and yourselves in the process. You should really think this through.


Rocketmaniac
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You need to stay with your husband. period.


typerchic34
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Is this guy worth leaving your husband and daughter for? Sounds like you have more to lose than this guy. If he truly loves you then he will wait until you dissolve your marriage first and get the custody worked out.
I'm sorry I have heard lots of guys say they will leave their significant others for someone else and they don't..they just creep behind both women's back... besides, what he does to his "live in" love he will eventually do to you..think before leaping, for your daughter's sake. Good luck.


E15
Get a good lawyer for advice on your legal position but if he is willing to leave his family for you. What is there to stop him doing it to you in the future or him backing out of a promise?


charlesjerrell
in lust it sounds like, better think twice on this, think of your daughter instead of you


joey yo
wow you have a crush on some guy at school and your willing to break up two families and **** up everyone's lives, that's selfish and ignorant and you'd regret it forever, plus if your both in school how would you survive financially, damn some people are so stupid


Lynn
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Dear heart, ask yourself this question... if you and he arent being honest and faithful in your current relationship. Can you really be honest and faithful in this one? IS it worth losing your husband and possibly your child? I've been married for 19 years and i know what its like to have someone other than your spouse look at you in a different romantic way and its not worth losing what you already have... it is not always greener on the other side... When I cheated in my marriage I nearly lost everything (house, kids, TRUST) (yes i got caught and no it wasnt worth it). I had to work hard to get our relationship back to the way it had been before. My advice is resist the temptation if you are smart and you know your husband loves you! it is not worth it!!!!!!!! oh and dont forget he has 3 children you will be caring for when they visit... is this what you want? his children vs. your child


55 and trying
Don't do it! The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Stop and think!


prozacfairy
Judging by your grammar, "doctorgirl", you need him as a study partner more than as a significant other. Your problem is a serious one, but if you have to ask strangers to tell you whether this is the love of your life worth risking custody of your child for... You probably already have your answer.


"U" is for Uranium
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Your a tramp! You should have never gotten married in the first place! Were you asleep during your wedding vows?

It's trash like you that keeps the divorce rate so high in this country. Try working on your problems rather than bailing out.


Rjlinnj
dont leave ur husben when u were married that set he is ur husbend for ever until one of u die , marrying is not a game if u left ur husbend for this guy the guy will be afraid of u to leave him for another guy and ur daughter will never forgive u , trust me if ur divorced ur daughter gonna have alot of problomes in her life if her father brought for her step mother and that hurts alot . so dont hurt ur daughter and ur husbend and dont miss up ur life for 1 guy


ndnqt1966
You are pathetic! You are married and "in love" with some other guy that has a live in girlfriend and 3 children. Has the words "Home wrecker" ever entered your mine?


lady bug
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You should be ashame to be doing your hubby the way you are doing.For God sakes you have a kid by this man.Get your head stright and get away from this man.How about you left your hubby and this man doesnt leave his g-friend !!! Then what !


vis
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if he could leave her for you than he could do the same thing to you.. i mean look at it this way.. he is just stringing her along if he can say that.. and that probably means he don't really know what love is





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