I need a good reason not to sleep with the hot married guy I have fallen in love with at work?

Cash

Ummm....Let's see.....YOUR MARRIED! HE'S MARRIED! I mean really what other reason would you need to not committ adultry. And how would you feel if it wasn't you asking this question, yet your husband was?

Ms. Chick

He might have a disease. You can't tell by looking. :)

Mickey

You'll hurt more people than you think

canada4me

OMG!!! I HATE PEOPLE LIKE YOU!!!! You are married and so is he??? I have advice for you!! Divorce your husband and he divorce his wife and then **** all you want!!!!!!

Sax M

If you are prepared to lose your job, go for it. Marriage is not the problem here. You're not the first married woman to cheat. If you get into a relationship with a coworker, it can only end in either you or him quitting the job, or worse yet, getting fired from the job. If you go for it, be prepared to be fired tomorrow.

Am I the only one that thinks that married people cheat too?!?!

Katie

class

Mon

Don't let your loved ones suffer the consequences.

Tina T

i've learned that anticipation is often better than the real thing!

sunshine

because its just not the right thing to do..and you'd only be hurting your feelings and his.

Alexxandra1591

Put yourself in his wife's shoes and you'll see why you should keep your pretty clothes on. Why would you want to hurt your spouse and his and whoever else would be hurt because you think this guy is "hot"? Not a good reason to ruin your life or his. Also, if you work with him, how awful would it be to get involved and then you break it off because you were just s------g around? Wouldn't be much fun to work with him anymore.

Louis K

So you wont be a ho.

greeneyes

think about eachothers families. and how would you like it if some girl was on a chat line like this one asking the same question about your husband

Rudi A

You already have two good reasons:
1. He's married.
2. You're married. There you go.

albert

Hello..........the fact that you're both MARRIED should be reason enough! Remember - what goes around comes around and sooner or later, everyone usually gets theres. Be careful, these are people's feelings you are dealing with not to mention your own. Once you cross that line, there's no turning back. Use YOUR head and not his!

paula_5150

I cant think of one

courtlyn

Your answer is in your question...you're both married, and unless both of those marriages are open, or your seperated then you shouldn't need any other reason.

Willnotlietoyou

You mean being married to two seperate people is not enough reason?

Iowa_Bound

well, since you don't want people to preach to you then why are you even asking then???? you've obviously thought alot about it, and you'll probably end up doing it anyways, and I just hope that your husband and/or his wife finds out too, so that they can divorce you both. Why do you want to do this? why not get divorced first, and then go and sleep with this guy all you want??? You just come off in a bad light. I guess you'll just have to deal with the consequences of your decision, which you probably already made, you're just hoping someone can give you a reason not to do it? and If you need a reason not to do it, being married and him too..then why would you listen to any kind of reason anyone on here would have to give you?

Simply Lovely

Guilt, immoral and wrong.

Common Sense

Marriage vows are one good reason..

coolcat10

This is not preaching,this is simply facts that everyone knows.If you sleep with eachother you are both deceiving people that i guess you love.It will end horribly,unlike your fantasies,with lies and guilt and possibly destroying your whole work situation.Can u give yourself a sensible reason for all the hurt,drama and the fact that,yes,you both aren't good people.If u do cheat,i hope after destroying lives you both get off.Do u really want to be with a man who cheats on his wife.It's called control,divorce....use it & try not destroying lives for the holiday season.Or any other time!!!!!KIDS will be hurt too

Emptiness

Don't be so selfish did you ever stop to think that they might be happy.
If you are so unhappy in your marriage them divorce him.

although hes hot, i think he might have cooties...

Butterfly

looooooool no reasons at all. just go for it, it'll be adventurious!

Robert B

Go for it..

xyz

no matter what people here tell you, I feel for you cause I like a guy who's single though but I am married. I think the very good reason for me is "I will hurt people I care for" and I hope this is good enough.

Kitty

A "good" reason? There isn't one. The fact that he's hot is as good a reason as any.

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