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I need help with what i'm going thru..?

i'm married and have 4 beautiful kids which i love dearly . my question is why after 4 yrs does my wife tear me down and crushes me. she has said she has to be right all the time. she kicks me out every spring its afecting the kids to c me come and go basically to her im nothing. but i go out my way for her and i love her that i do know my son ask why mommy wont let you stay and my oldest daughter is depressed. im a good father and i am a good husband but she has convinced me im not even that. im depressed constantly and i dont eat or sleep like i should. why do women hurt men this way. to her everything is my fault and now i believe that. help me.


    




ricky
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Been there myself. You are dealing with for the most part someone that is out of control. That crazy stuff of the Women, Screaming Get out of this F----en house, I'll Call the F----en Police. Doesn't do wonders for your Mental State. I felt Worthless. I was Awesome with the kids and broke my back for her.

In the end I realize she is just a nutjob. She was too underdevolped to see other people actually mattered. Nothing I did made any difference she was just a DRAMA QUEEN that enjoyed Abusing me. I was a butt hole for tolerating. I leared my lesson.

NO longer will I ever be Prey for the Pedator. It will never get better for you. I bet you have kids crying in your arms, because they are afraid of their Insane screaming Metapausal, freak show, wack job, bi-polar, excuse for a Mother.

The Heart of what she is doing to you is CONTROL. It's ABUSE, That's the POWER TRIP for them. SHE IS CONTROLLING YOU.

It's going to take a frying pan to your head, before you wake up, I'm sure your job is suffering and everything else. Your in one of the most unhealthy situations. It ain't gonna get better. When you finally leave. You will actually feel great. By the way your also co-dependent, as she is to you. It does destroy your self-esteem.

Dude, it go so bad for me that I couldn't even offer my opinion without being screamed at. It trains you to just agree and never say anything. You do it for the kids sake, plus you don't understand the situation, WHY. Because your wife isn't playing with a full deck. Hormones is just and excuse. Notice they don't treat co-workers or their boss like they treat you.


Philip
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You need to grow a backbone. What do you mean she kicks you out? Hell, you live there too. If she wants to leave, let her go. Or go and don't come back.

Why do women do this? Because they can. It is just the nature of the beast.


Cynthia
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seek some professional for all the family You need the help to work on you. As for your wife see if she is willing to go with you. If not you owe it to your children to be the best you can be. And then if things do not work out you go for good with the children.


gingersnap
You all need to get into counseling. If for no other reason than to help those children deal with the hell they are going through.


ragdoll1959
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Divorce her and get it over with! Why make the kids suffer any more! Or your self for that matter


NeatyB
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HORMONES! I'm telling you, it's her hormones. You need to have all of this that you're saying you're doing DOCUMENTED. Because it sounds to me that you are not giving this woman no reason at all to act this way, and you're being the best father and husband that anybody can ask for. You don't know what the future holds, but you know the courts are always on the woman's side, especially when there are kids involved, so be prepared for whatever may take place.


Debbie
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I'am a woman and a man did that to me and it took a very long time to get my self esteem back. Get away from her, it's not your fault and don't give in to her. Make her leave.


MissC
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Don't put up with that. She doesn't appreciate. She knows she can throw you out and you'll come runnin' back. Put your foot down. Your kids won't respect you because their mother doesn't respect you. I know it's HARD raising kids and not being in the same home as them but you two will hurt them MORE this way.


Jay
THIS IS BECAUSE YOU LET HER. MAN UP AND FULFILL YOUR ROLE AS A LEADER AND HUSBAND, PROVIDER AND FATHER.

**I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH SWEET MILDRED**


KAZONE
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Move on, someone out there will love and respect you the way you deserve.


Jenn
I just can’t see a woman being that nasty over something so stupid. If you were a great father and loving husband there wouldn't be a reason. Im sorry you are having to go throw this, not to many guys out there that are good fathers and great husband especially. I never did understand woman, even know I am one lol. And I never understud how hormones could change a woman into a monster. I don't believe that is true, my advice would be to just leave for a wail and show her what she is missing out on. She can’t miss ya if you won’t leave. Good luck on everything! =]





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