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I need some mature advices?

i am from africa and my boyfriend is from the Caribbean,we live in germany. we are together since 3 years and right now he is in Iraq (he is in the army).i studied in germany.I have a college degree but i am jobless.i really feel down now,i miss my family especially my mother.I want to take care of her when she will be old.The big problem is that i am not sure to find a job in my home country and i don't know if it's wise to leave like that.On the other side my BF works in germany ,we love each other but i don't have a job here,i don't know if i will find a job here or how long i should continue to look for one . i can stay in Germany till February next year,my BF is coming back from Iraq in June.i don't really know what to do,i am so scared to take the wrong decision.
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Edit:i don't know if should stop looking for a job in germany and just go back home or stay in germany


    




BRYAN C
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Hi Nina,

Be calm and patient.

Look for job in Germany...nothing to loose. Try and stay for the boyfriend.

When he gets back work it out with him.

BC


rooney
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What are your options? You haven't mentioned what roads you are thinking of taking...


O2BQuiteRite
You should stay with your boyfriend until you have to leave, and 4 months later he can join you. Maybe you need to look for just any job, rather than waiting for one that goes with your degree. Or, you could always do volunteer work somewhere so you feel useful. Mothers don't get old in a year or less. You'll have plenty of time to take care of your mother. Basically sounds like you're trying to choose between your mom and your bf. I'm betting if you choose your mom, the bf is gone.





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