I really enjoyed chatting with a married man and we had a lot incommon, I'm married too...was this wrong?

casablanca

Because somewhere on your mind you'd like for your life to be different. You know it should be your husband with whom you had this intimacy...

fortyninertu

What you did was not wrong. You had a conversation with someone. However your moral/ethical charecter took a hit because you probably want more of this interaction and may have even considered an intimate relationship.

Caesar Chica is Sweet : )

dont feel guilty. ur just making friends. if u dont c ur hubby all the time then u have to have someone to talk to.

Live Life the fun way!

Why do u feel so guilty u can have talk to people if your married my dad has friends as girls and my mom has friends that are boys talk to him more if your lonely dont feel guilty u have no reson to

Larry-Oklahoma

This is the way the word DIVORCE started.MARRIED 4 time's i know.

free_angel

You've done nothing wrong, you and him simply chatted and kept it clean. If you enjoy chatting with him, do so. If he says something you don't like or something that makes you feel uncomfortable, end the chatting. If your husband knew he may think you have ulterior motives about chatting with this man. But it's what you know inside of yourself.

Heather P

WELL DID U TELL YOUR HUSBAND THAT YOU WERE HAVING A CONVO WITH THIS OTHER MAN. IF NOT RIGHT THERE YOU ARE KEEPING SOMETHING FROM HIM THAT IS NOT HEALTHY IN A MARRIAGE. YOU NEED TO TELL HIM.

DiL

What you had is just a temporary enjoyment. When reality kicks in, men are just men. Sweet to you in the beginning, sour in the end... just wait and see for yourself.

Feeling guilty?? dont! Just feel silly.... : )

jasonmyers_200

No reason to feel guilty. I talk to married women all the time. I work opposite my wife to reduce the cost of day care. Nice having an adult to speak with.

MrsESJ060708

Maybe cause u know it's wrong thats some 1 else's husband u have ur own so talk to YOURS.

Ally

You shouldn't feel guilty - you didn't do anything wrong. Don't be so hard on yourself - you were only chatting.

would u like your man talking to another women and enjoying a good time with her?ya, u r wrong to do that and u feel guilty cause u know it's wrong, remeber your vows , and don't do that no more before u get yourself into trouble,or it turns into something else

You're playing with fire...

Change the scenario...your hubby is busy at work chating with another women & they have alot in common and he's enjoying the chatting...does this raise a red flag for you?

Pat R

Deep down, you know he's trying to get into your pants.

wthing5

Because you know you are looking...be discrete and enjoy it.webcam is a great way to start...and realise there are 1000's out there who could fill a big hole in your life.......

pepo

wowww it's not only wrong ,,, it's a mess !!

Jim_Darwin

don't feel guilty and don't use the "love" word it will lead to hurt

attachment is forbidden!

rdhedhottie

Because you got enjoyment from it, he made you laugh when you were lonely, he made you feel good.

Now, put yourself in your husbands shoes and wonder if he was doing the same thing from work...would you be happy about it?

It's ok to have friends online, it's easy to talk to someone who doesn't know you, but if you feel guilt about it, then you should STOP immediately...to save your sanity!

I don't believe that you did anything wrong. If you are feeling badly about this, tell your husband as I am sure he would probably understand. Mine knows I talk to people (men and women).

paulamcneil1223

If your feeling guilty, you probably know your husband would be upset if he found out that you were talking to another man. If that is the case don't do it anymore, I have seen many happy marriages go down the drain because of on line chatting. If your lonely and want to talk to someone, try your husband, make a special dinner and chat away, Hope this helps Paula

Cjs

If you have to hide it from your husband, then it's wrong. If you wouldn't have the same conversation with this guy if your husband was in the same room, then you have a reason to feel guilty. This is how affairs start, both emotional and physical. If you are needing more from your husband in the way of intimacy then TALK to him about it, don't venture off to someone else.

sattor

yes, it is good while chating away some bored time, but i tell you this watch out, that is how relationship starts. wilt time he or yourself starts developing likness and before you know it loves comes in.Try set a standard where the chating goes and end and at the same time how you respond to certain issues

sunflower

ITS BECOZ U R HAVING SOM AFFECTION TWARDS HIM. 1THG B FAITHFUL 2 UR HUBBY,

carrie

only you can answer if it's wrong. as long as, conversations are about neutral things, it could be innocent.
i would answer a question though; what would your husband think?

out of my wit's end

because if your husband did what you did, you'd feel that it was wrong

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