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I saw her yesterday..?

I saw my ex fiancé yesterday after a week had gone by that she decided that she wasn’t ready to get married, However, she was still wearing her engagement ring…Just on her other hand...Just seeing it makes me feel like it shouldn't be with her, it should be with me because that was my heart...Why would a woman wear it if she cut it off...


    




gabs4_28
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maybe she just wants expensive things..one word: money?


JAZY
OBVIOUSLY U BOUGHT HER A REAL NICE AND EXPENSIVE RING AND THATS WHY SHE IS WEARING IT


skawp
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just because she backed out of the proposel, does not mean she still does not love you. Marriage is a huge commitment and it usually spooks a lot of people. Give her time, don't pressure her by trying to get her to marry you. She wears your ring because she is still phycologically attacthed to the fact that you are willing to partner down with her.


wanda w
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law says it is yours if she doesnt go through with the marriage


eyes_kitty_green
because its hers and she can do whatever plus she probarly knows it bothers you


Tia
If she broke off the engagement, she should have returned the ring. Have you tried asking her for it? If she refuses, then remind her that you gave the ring to her as a condition of an oral contract (which is basically what a proposal is) and she breeched that contract. Therefore you are entitled to get the ring back. You could probably even take it to small claims court if it really means that much to you.


Kimberly T
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The rule she should give back your ring. Ask her for it.


'Cause I'm Blonde
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Maybe she forgot to take it off.


♥♥♣BABY GIRL♥♥♣
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i think she still has a thing for u so u just have to find a way to see if she loves u


dooneygirl@sbcglobal.net
if she broke the engagement she needs to return the ring !!!!!


prince47
meet her today.


connys1976
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its prob. a nice ring and thats why she is wearing it on her other hand! If you want it back, I would ask her for it! She is the one that st oped it all so she sould give it back and dont buy into the gift thing, its not a gift its a promise and its a symbol of your love a promise to get married to her so unless your the one breaking the promise she doesnt have any claim to it!


funky-dog@sbcglobal.net
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cool


a1quick57
Once you give a girl a ring....it is hers. Regardless of what happens in the relationship....it is hers.


mand
Because it was a gift, and she has the right to do whatever she wants with it.


Just a note - whoever told you you have a legal right to reclaim the ring is incorrect. I work in the legal field, I can assure you that the judge will agree the ring was a gift and she doesnt have to return it.


Brian
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Are you in the US?

If she cut off the engagement, you have a legal right to the ring.


bluez
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If she broke off the engagement, she should have given the ring back to you. She has no right keeping it. (If a man breaks off the engagement, she would keep the ring.)

Apparently she likes the ring and that's why she still wears it, but she doesn't like the idea of being married to you.


Phrosty
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The ring belongs to her now. Although the ring was symbolic of your love for her, she may only see it for it's material beauty.
Chalk it up as a lesson learned.


shae
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Maybe it was a really nice ring and I'm sure it still means something to her and she might not be ready to part with it.


Blunt
Etiquette dictates that she should return her ring, as it was in lieu with a promise of marriage. Ask for it back, you are entitled to be returned it to you.

Good luck


starbluewolf
If you gave it to her on a holiday as a gift too she gets to keep it. (i.e. Christmas) If on an average night ask for it back. SERIOUSLY!
but only if you broke it off. If yall are still together ask for it back and say that you're keeping it for later.


tannedknight45
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Wow that is painful. I don't know why she is still wearing that ring, however in the US, if she calls off the engagement and you bought her that ring, she is legally bound to return the ring to you.


JustMe
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The question really is why didn't you take it back ? If she doesn't want to marry you how come she gets to keep the ring ??? Why would she wear it if she didn't want to marry you ? I dont know, it is a diamond ring isn't it ?





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