I sense that my marriage is coming to an end. How did you know?

KRIS

you know, you just don't want to admit it.

Siggi

pray to GOD for help

luv41anatha

I was not the center of his world anymore and communication came to a stand still...

Banana

when she is never around anymore.

Kal

You feel it in your gut. But before you act on it, communicate with your partner. Marriage doesn't have to come to an end. It might be going through changes, but that doesn't signal an end. If you feel you are drifting apart, stop the rift from happening and find ways to drift back together. It can be done before it's too late. It takes work but it is possible.

curiouscanadian

Well it sounds to me as if more is going on than meets the eye here. You have to make her talk and if not you then a councellor. The fact that you are good friends is half of the battle but there has to be passion in a relationship otherwise what is the point? Is she depressed? I managed to save my marriage but it took us a heck of a lot of work!

BridalBiz

When we became indifferent of each other and started to feel like we were cohabiting as roommates and not husband and wife.

soozemusic

My first thought is that maybe your wife is depressed. Is she resentful toward you because some previous issue(s) in your marriage? She just may not be sure and that is why she will not commit to an answer. I would keep trying to communicate with her, write notes or cards too and see what happens.

theoriginalquestmaker

When I realized that home alone with him was the last place I wanted to be after work.

â„¢ Mogul SUpreme â„¢

What does your gut say?
My ex gf put no effort towards me and I left good thing I did not marry her.
But people tend to ignore signs before they get married.
but also you have to accept the bad with the good when you love someone lol

But pray to god for wisdom and guidance in you situation
Ask him if he can change your partner's heart towards you....
Sometimes this is a real wakeup call for people who idolize one thing but do not give god the time of day.....

I hear fire proof the movie save some marriages.....
Some people need a wakeup call

Shannon

Sit down with her and talk to her and drag it out of her what is bothering her. Don't stop talking while still upset. Don't accept trivial BS answers, keep digging. Don't get angry but don't give up.
Many couples drift apart and essentially fall-out of love while raising a child due to the demands.

His Needs; Her Needs might help, but there needs to be love or a want for love again to make it happen.

Jazzy

SOmething is going on. You didnt mention how long you have been married or how old you are. Those two things would help alot to answer your question.
Your doing the right things trying to talk to her. If she wont share then there has to be a reason. Are you angry when you talk to her? Do you interupt or discount what she says? do you listen and give her space to talk? Have you tried a letter? Write a letter telling her how you feel, what you fear, what you want to happen. Tell her allthe reasons you remember falling in love with her. Open up to her and share your deepest memories and feelings. It amy be a notebook long but do it. And give it to her.
take care and I hope things work out.

goddess

The connection is not there and you are no longer feel the attraction towards the person or think of the person while at work. When you can't wait to leave for work or out the house just to be away from them.

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