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tweety
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How old is your husband ?? Sounds to me like he needs some growing up to do... |
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lady_phoenix39
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So you married an immature child.
Your point? |
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casapulla2001
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He might be really worried about you sharing "other things", with other people -- around your office.
If it was a woman that you shared your coffee with.. then, your husband just has money issues, or feels you are (or, he is) subsidizing someone else's mornings. He probably resents having to do anything for you, in the first place -- and that it's a Grand Gesture of his, for you. He thinks you appreciate it less?
PS - It's amazing what people have issues over, isn't it? and how coffee, on Yahoo, can become a subject of interesting drama. |
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Bryan M
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Ok, your husband is being a REALLY big baby. |
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ann s
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it was a frigging cup of coffee FFS
even sesame street taught it us it's nice to share
you'r husband is an anal uptight controlling *** |
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MrRight
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Its your Drink now..you can do whatever the heck you want with it...................
Do you have to ask permission to go to the restroom too???
my god,,no wonder Divorce is up 30%%%%%%%%% |
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slushpile reader
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over coffee? wow, you married a real a*hole! |
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♥my2sons♥
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sounds like your hubby is being very childish....good grief, he bought YOU the drink so he needs to get over it! |
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Kyle
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What a crybaby control freak. I don't think you want him to buy you anything ever again if that's how it's going to be. Here's a gift with strings attached...no thanks! Keep your coffee honey! I'll get my own. |
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Marina
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Wow, your hubby is very unreasonable and selfish. You're not wrong for sharing---he's wrong for being stingy and then making you feel as though you've done something wrong! |
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tacka....
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He sounds like a controlling idiot. Like a 'slap across the face' for giving someone a sip of your coffee?!? He sounds incredibly insecure. |
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bouncyfun1
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Sounds like your husband is selfish and unreasonable. It also sounds like he might be headed down the road toward wifebeating. Keep an eye on that one, and plan your escape just in case. If he also accuses you of cheating, and tries to isolate you from your family, RUN. |
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M8729
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It is just COFFEE. You didn't do anything wrong. |
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Positive.Vibrations.Yea.
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Wow, he needs to chill out. Once you give a gift, the receiver can do with it what he/she choses. Thanks for being kind and sharing. |
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Cassandra C
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tell hubby to grow up. (Actually my hubby probably would have acted the same way! ) Luck y US! |
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ohiojeff
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yeah, it sounds pretty petty to me. life is full of issues and problems, and i wouldnt waste so much energy on something so trivial. he needs to grow up. |
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tracy
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sounds like he is very selfish and childish to dont take it |
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Me
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very immature |
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Jessica C
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I really don't see what the problem is. It's a coffee drink, not naked pictures of him. But if he is that sensitive then don't share whatever he buys you. |
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Wendy P
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I am sure we all fight for dumb and littlest things like that but this is the first time I've heard someone fighting for something as lame as sharing a cup of coffee. Don't stress about it, just tell him that if that is soo important for him you will never do it again. |
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eeyore6838
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Hunny, ask your husband whats really bothering him. This sounds like a over the top moment |
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snugglegirl88
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it's not really rude, but if it was a guy you shared it with, then perhaps this issue isn't really all about "just the coffee"...
otherwise... perhaps a bit childish, but if i were you i wouldn't argue about it. he probably just tried to do something nice for you by buying you a drink. perhaps he thought you didn't appreciate it as much because you let someone else drink from it too...
just my thoughts |
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Mr. "Diamond"
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Oh! MY God! You are going to go to hell for this one HUH! well, thank him for it anyway...tell him you love him for it...and buy him one ...see if he shares it...if he does..smile, and tell him it was "nice!" and then, start buying your own, or, start drinking "tea" (it's better for you anyway!) or, buy him two, tell him this one is for him..this one is to "share" (so he can learn!) takes men longer you know!...(some of us anyway..) and remember...can't shoot them...can't fit them in the trunk! "Peace!" :) (canablism is illeagle too!) bye! |
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Hershey Highway road thug
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Is your co-worker a male or female?
Female, not a big deal. So what?
Male, we have a problem.
Did you give it to him, then drank more after he put his mouth on the cup?
Sounds strange, but that's an indirect kiss. Sharing personal items that you've put your mouth on, demonstrates a level of trust and how close you are.
I can do that with one of my really close guy friends. But not with any females.
If you gave the rest to someone else, then I don't see that as a problem. |
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Lost
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My husband is like this to I think you should say sorry and be like I did not know this would affect you so much and tell him that you promise it won't happen again and give him a nice kiss. |
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Lunaeclipz
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Depends on who you shared it with and why did you even tell him? duh! |
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here_without_you ♥
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guys are just jealous, whether you shared it with a prefect stranger or your best friend, they feel sorta unworthy sometimes and little things upset them, but come on.. is he really gonna take it as a slap in the face? i mean how much was the coffee drink, like $5? does it really matter if it was shared or not. hes your husband, he should buy you these things anyway, whether you want it all to yourself or if you feel like sharing. how did he find out you shared it anyway> |
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Battery Operated Boyfriend
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I'd say he picked on this because there are other issues that he's avoiding. |
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Kim N
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He is being controlling and emotionally abusive. Deal with it or divorce. |
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