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I split up with my girlfriend two months ago!! She found out i had cheated?

we eventually split up an she`s been seein someone else, i made a really big mistake cheating on her an i still love her, she never spoke to me since but all of the sudden ive got a text of her tonight sayin `i really miss you, wish things could have been different` what do i do???


    




cheetah7
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What do you do? You can at least return the favor and let her know how you feel....I mean afterall you're the one who broke the relationship up. Txt her back or if you know her number (call her).
Say something like "Hi, I just got your msg and.........................
If she's currently involved in a new relationship, do not get in between and your conversation should end there so get it all out now and get some closure.


Ontheotherhand
You mail her back, and agree, and say you kick yourself all the time for being stupid enough to lose her


Drey M
Text her back and say " Yes that you miss her everyday and that you made a very big mistake and you are paying for it now. And leave it at that. Wait for her to text you again.


COCO
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Communication, communication.
Call her up; tell her you have made a big mistake; if she is willing to give you another chance; if she does
give you another chance!!!!
learn to be faithful ;is a very classy
thing to do.


KIRSTEN F
If you still have feelings for her text her back. I split up with my bf a few years back we had a young child together. Six months later I text him and since we have got back together and had 2 more children so go for it you have nothing to lose. Just dont cheat again if you do get back together. Also address the issues why you cheated on her in the first place.


michelle
talk to her


kiLLer_L0ver_2
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go talk to her and try to work things out again.


doesitmatter
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You're a cheating scum bag, your loss buddy! Better luck next time.


CeeVee
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Take it very carefully and gently, you may just have a chance to re-ignite the flame.

Good luck


da lost one
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look its plain and simple.. if you still like her well you guys should talk about it. and you.. you should think about why you cheated on your girl.


louwho
I you want her tell her. Apologize again and again, over and over, but, if she can not forgive and forget a new relationship will not work. Good luck!


Allie
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well sry... not


divaA
Send her this text back:
"If wishes were horses, beggars would ride..."

Get over it and move on!!!


T
talk to her then. If its really worth it after all the cheating crap.


dd17
Don't bother, even if she says she forgives you, she'll never forget! Every time you have a fight she'll bring it up.


Michi
go back out with her because if you dont you will always feel like a pressure on your heart....you wanna kno what that is??? regret


blondesaresexy13
well first i think you should explain to her that you were bein foolish and you shouldnt has done that....girls hate it when their cheated on it makes them feel like they have been used and no one likes that...then if you two can be friends thats a great start if not well try harder or get over her because she may never forgive you...girls hold grudes for a long time...talk to me more add stingraysky@mchsi.com..i'm happy to help anyone that needs it


Bucs Fan
You better take a healthy dose of "kiss ***"...


disney princess whore
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ignore it she was probably drunk


Ruth R
text her back telling her you miss her too and that you hope she can forgive you!


molly wol
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i would speak to this girl but i wouldn't hold any hopes of getting back together, for one if she is seeing someone else now it will only course problems in the long run but also she will never really forgive you for cheating on her, do you want to live a life of guilt????????????? but who is to say it wouldn't work only you both can answer that


worcester_welder
Go out tomorrow night have 2 strippers at the same time dance for you... That should help you clear your head.

No need for the 10 points mate give them to someone else who needs them.... I am just here to help.


nellie
Well, if you really love her, you should try to reconcile;however, I wonder if you have learned from your mistakes. Do you really love her or are you a dog in the manger? You don't want her yourself but you don't want anyone else to have her. Just wondering.

Anyway if you have learned a lesson, do some serious kissing up and make it work.

And for goodness sakes, if you're going to cheat again, leave the poor girl alone. Do you want to give her AIDS? That's what you'll be getting if you keep cheating.


Mx2
Nothing. Things must not be going good in the current relationship and she misses when things were good with the two of you.
If she wants you back, she will make the first step. But dont get your hopes up. forgiveness is a personal thing, she has to decide that.
Dont read too much into the text.


dunne09
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She's probably drunk and in the morning she'll remember what a waste of skin your are. then turn over a make love to her new fella and all you will be left with is bitter sweet memories and a appointment down the S.T.D. clinic


dare
nothing shes just texting you now becuz she knows you still love her and she must of broke up with her new boyfriend and now she feels alone...


hjbergel
Very carefully follow her lead,reply to her with a HANDWRITTEN heartfelt apology as you have in you and see what her reply is.If she gives you another chance then it's up to you to regain her trust.But if she cannot forgive you then you will have to move on in your life.(AFTER ALL IT WAS YOU WHO CHEATED ON HER) And even though you may have lost her do to your moment of indiscretion hopefully you will learn from your error in judgment and never do it again. As much as it you hurts losing her think of how much it it hurt her when she found out the person who professed his love for her cheated on her and broke the most sacred trust between two people who love each other.


~Jessica~
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Love, has a way of making everyone miserable at times. Just leave it alone, she'll never forgive you, it will always be in the back of her head.


tamsin the happy gardener
Ring her for a chat, and if she is the one for you, start all over.
Why did you cheat on her in the first place though?
Would you do it again?


npbassman
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Don't come in with guns a blazin looking to get some or something like that. You gotta call her up and sound vulnerable and insecure. Maybe even squeeze some lemon in your eye to squeak out a couple of tears. She'll be wrapped around your finger in no time.


pevehead
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just let it go. it isnt worth it. love isnt worth the pain that you go through in the end.





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