I think my gf is cheating on me, i need help???

Eliez

start talking about a female juss lykk she talks about raymond n f she doesnt get jealous den that must mean she realy doesnt like you n you shld juss move on.. dats serious tho at 3 am!!?

Erica A

Ask her flat out! ask her is she is cheating on you with that guy and explain why you think that. Tell her how you feel, and that you think its inappropriate for a man to be with her all the time and at her house at three am. If she is cheating then you have to move on, she obviously wants to be with other men. You deserve a woman who is faithful and doesnâ€™t drive you crazy with suspicion.
Good luck

Willie J

She lives an hour away, You call her at 3 a.m. I think you do not have the relationship you think. She has left the port and you were standing on the dock. Move on.

sarah

NO guy should be at her house at 3am. She is walking all over you. Dump her ***.

bayou_babe1111

friend or not, if my man had a female at his house at 3am, it'd be over. period.

This is kinda an immature answer, but I would start snooping around if I were you. Look through her phone (text messages, cell phone bill, lates night calls) I really don't think that this guy should have been over there @ 3AM! And if she is always talking about him then she may be up to something. Keep your eyes open, but, I'm sorry to say, it sounds like she's messing around.

Confused

Dump her. She is cheating on you.

DarinG

Move on...time to find another my friend!

liason

long distance relationships never work out. don't let her do that to you. just walk away.

Jery E

you aren't that bright are you?

AnnaMarie

If you think she is cheating on you, then you need to either break up with her, or continue being played.

xegyptianbabygurlx

Internet Hat is right

áƒ¦ Marissa áƒ¦

Ask her. If she is cheating, then she doesn't love you. That shows no respect...

Kayy

ask her about it. i mean they could just be really good friends especially if shes not like trying to hide it from you that shes always with him. but tell her that you trust her, but be like why is he always there when i call you. and be like im just worried about this. just talk to her about. she will respect that you are concerend enough to ask. and it will show her that you have the confidence to approach her when you feel there is an issue.

good luck!!

s.d.v

a good indicator of a cheater is if she starts comparing you two to each other. I have close guy friends and a trusting boyfriend. So she needs a little male attention. your not there.
i dont condone cheating, but for her to keep her confidence, she feels she has to be reminded of her potential. its completely innocent. i know this because i am a psychology major and this is a behavior we study all the time.

if i were you, be honest, have no regrets and if you love her as you claim, then how can you hold back your feelings of frustration, by holding back, you will grow a resentment for Raymond and if it is just a platonic relationship, you might lose her with your suspicions.

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