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I think my husband is fooling around with my daughter?

I came home from work and saw my 14yo daughter come out of our bedroom in a towel and into her room when i went into our room my husband was just getting out of the shower and
denied that she was even there then she denied she was in our room and told me she came ouit of the bathroom
but the bathrooms at the end of the hall plus ive found her lundery in our hamper a few times before. I dont know what to think?


    




CRAVIN
Sounds Very Strange but maybe you need to Ask a few Questions Before You Call The Cops.

CM


Nichole
This question is really disturbing. Take her to the Doctor to get checked out.... I think that is the most OBVIOUS thing to do if you really think that is going on.


Now What?!!
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What?! Don't say anything for a while. Tell your husband one day that you are going out with your friends, give him a few days notice. Get dress and act like you're going out. Leave and give it about 15-20 minutes and sneak back in the house or set up a camcorder in your bathroom or bedroom. You have to have proof before you go assuming. Once you have the proof then you can get him arrested and talk to your daughter about what happen and even get her some counseling.


Marissa C
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oh my goodness thats awful.
if it really is happening then you will never get them to confess. you have to come home at an unusal time & hope to catch them in the act.

ughh thats awful. im sorry.


michael E
set up a camera. or call the police, that is rape even if it is consensual, so he could go to jail.


James M
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Gross!! I think it is time for a nanny cam!! and catch them in the act!


The Queen Bee
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first of all u need to be completely sure before u accuse. second of all if it is happening do NOT blame ur daughter. she is a child and she knows not what she is doing. u need to do some serious investigation dude.


ronimg
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Wow...i'm speechless


justakiss62
Is she a step daughter to your husband? Set up a camera if you really think something is going on. You should have some vibes from them when you are all together. Find out and if so have him castrated.


dakota0810
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Your child's welfare is most important. Use a video camera in your room. If the father is doing horrible things to your teenage daughter he should be caught.


irish_jimmy
Um.........gross. You need to make sure this is not happening.


Florence P
This is nothing to fool around with. Set them both up (even though she will not be at fault) You will have to have some proof. Don't say another word about it. If something is going on, you Will find out soon. Once you do, kick him out and call the police. If you don't, you will be in trouble for not saying anything. Make sure that once you have proof, let your daughter know that it is NOT her fault and that you are with her all the way! She will appreciate that. Good luck. Go today and get a camera.....


Juggman
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Let's see...people have said get a camera or go on the Maury Show or call Cheaters.com. I have nothing else to add.

Be sure to share the results in an updated question!


tml
get a nanny cam


Mrs.Lucero
Sound fishy to me to! If it is true leave him and call the cops.


**GO SPURS**
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I think you need to seriously get a spy cam of some sort, because this sounds very fishy to me.... Are they both acting defensive? IDK, you should get down to the bottom of this FAST because this really isn't looking too good. I really hope for the best for you, good luck


Lucy
Lord have mercy.

Ask her.


dmj_369
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There is definitely something wrong with this picture. Take her to the doctor and kick his *** out. Youre not feeling this way for no reason. She has no business walking through the house or your room naked. Does she have her own room?


michael21242003
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Set up a camera and when they are both home tell them that you are going shopping and will not be home for about 4 hours. Then check the camera when they are not home.


chrissylm37
Somethings going on. You "seen" her come out of your room and she lied. He was just getting out of the shower and said he didn't see her? Than why was she in a towel and he's in the shower???? Would there be any other reason why her laundry would be in your hamper? Does she make it a habit to change her clothes in your bedroom? Just remember lying is a sign of guilt. Is this her dad or step dad? Either way you need to do something about it. She's just a child and probably doesn't know how bad this situation really is. Keep a close eye on how they act towards eachother when their in the same room. Alot of eye contact, very quite towards eachother when your around, stuff like that. I hope for you and your daughters sake it's just a misunderstanding. Goodluck


Julia
I would set up some video camera equipment around my house and find out for positive what may be going on here. This man could be a pedophile and you need to get to the bottom of it immediately and take legal action if you discover your gut feeling is right.


Sharon O
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I would take your daughter somewhere that is safe and you can talk to her with no interuptions... I would let her know that you are goign to take her to the emergency room and have her checked out.. .. she should at that point confide in you what is really going on...... once she has.. told you.. what he is doing to her.. which is most likely child molestation.. you need to call teh police.. keep your daughter away from him.. they will then have her checked at the hosptal.. I am sorry to say. I do think he is doing something with your daughter.. do not blame her.. she is a child.. he is the adult.. and he is wrong.. please do not wait.. do something now.. if not.. when you walk out that door.. she is once again.. his victim.. if you like you can email me or message me.. Sharonogborn@yahoo.com


Smiley
Incest is never ok. Get to the bottom of this and put his rear end in jail!


amyhpete
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I also vote for the nanny cam and for making a show that you are going out of town for a weekend or couple of days and have a couple of nanny cams around the house in case one is discovered.

See how your daughter reacts to your going away and leaving them alone. Do ask her if it is okay with her or if she needs you to stay to gauge if she seems afraid or needs you to stay.

If that happens do have a talk with her to find out if you can before-hand.

Given that she is only 14 the likelihood of a consensual affair is low. I am hoping either a) there is nothing going on; or b) if something is going on your show of going out of town will bring your daughter to tell you.

If you do follow through with leaving find a way to sneak back toward the house to watch in the windows if you can but give them an hour or two then return unexpectedly and see the reaction.

God be with you and I hope for the best outcome.


Sandy
Ewww! I would never be in front of my dad in just a towel.


blueberry
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why don't you call the cops and throw him out is she his natural daughter? this so disgusting i would cut his willy off





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