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I think my husband is gay he never wants to be intimate with me am i overreacting?

I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 2 YEARS MY HUSBAND HARDLY EVER MAKES THE FIRST MOVE. I ALWAYS START WITH FORPLAY HE TURNS OVER 99% OF THE TIME AND GOES TO SLEEP IS HE HAVING AN AFFFAIR OR IS HE GAY?


    




First L
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A simple test, put a playboy magazine in the counter or somewhere. You hide somewhere and see if he reads it with excitement.


Kuji
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Maybe he just doesn't like you. Maybe he is just lazy. You haven't said anything that would make me assume he is gay or having an affair of any type.


Sinead C
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I would not jump immediately to the conclusion that he is either gay or having an affair. Perhaps he is under severe stress, at work or with something else in his life. Perhaps he is having some sort of medical problem. Perhaps he has a fear of intimacy. Perhaps he is annoyed at you for some small reason and is hoping that by withdrawing affection you'll realise he's irritated and sort out the problem (childish, I know...) Maybe if you try talking to him, gently, and asking him how you can help, rather than thinking of him badly, it might be a good first step to healing this problem. Good luck...


RANDALL 5
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He may be tired or stressed. Do an activity that he likes then in the conversation ask him about work or any stress tie it in with your questions of being intimate. If that doesn't work hire a Private eye and have him followed if you believe he is cheating on you. When you get all the info you need then make the right decision.


AMANDA S
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well if he is not getting it from you, you know he is going somewhere. Test it out. Set up something he should not be able to resist. If he still seems uninterested....you have a problem. He just might be gay.


jinz
Try to work it more - you're at the 2-year itch.
Is he stressed, busy, lazy?


F
Could be any number of reasons including stress. Tie him up, and don't release him till he tells you what's on his mind.


♥ of gold
thats not much to go by.

was he like this before you married?.... more details or else we don't really know what to say.

also.. if you suspect affair, why? is he gone alot? are their strange phone calls? this is quite vague.


orlin
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Question for you? Just how far do you go with the foreplay? for how long? maybe he is getting satisfied and you are unaware? If he was gay he would let you touch him, If he was having an affair I think he would just not be interested at all, he would not even want you to touch him. (my opinion)


dorianfreeman@btinternet.com
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im a man and to me that ant good i feel sorry 4 you


campos_eliseu
bom dia!!!!!/ good morning.
amiga, o que voce tem feito para atrai - lo?
eu como um homem, sei que é dificil um recusar um convite feminino.........eu te aconselho a investir mais na sua sedução, feminina.

hugs
eliseu( brasil)


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you should be talking to him x


donua1022
I would be really worried, as i think that in a relationship, there is nothing worse than being rejected, have you ever sat him down and asked what is wrong, try and talk to him, before you jump to all these conclusion, about him being gay and having an affair........hope all is well, good luck and god bless.


nicemanvery
Course he's gay why do you think he's turning over , he wants you to sort him with your vibrater !


SUMMER
maybe he masturebates too much!


punkyboygirl_24
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Think you should be asking "Why am I still with him" not is he gay!


Sally G
Well it could be either one. If he's gay, then you can surely tell
if he is in fact gay. The way he moves, talks. If he's cheating
then he can be having a secret affair. Go on the show CHEATERS and they will investigate and get to the bottom. That's if he is in denial. Don't stay in a relationdship if your husband is not in to your marriage, your wasting your time.


Kay
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He may be just over tired. What kind of hours does he work? Is he a real worker around the house? You can only do so much.


JANET M
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probably both to yes of these questions


boyet
Well if you thinik that your husband is a gay,accept the truth and reality that your husband is a gay.The most important is that he love`s you.





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