I think my husbend is cheating he comes home later every night! and wants nothing to do with me and the kids!?

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Whisper from the Myst

Actually the usual response from a spouse when cheating is more fun and more involved with you and kids. I would have to say he's out late drunk. But whatever you do don't leave this alone, but don't confront him directly either. Try to goad it out of him.

Anji

You need to talk to him about it and go from there....

It could be depression or another woman. You never know these days.

Good luck.

Keelo Lulu

Confront him. Address the issues.

Miss Kriss

Have someone he doesnt know, follow him after work, it could be something so dumb and it would make you feel better. You dont have to pay someone just get a friend he has never met.

RainDancez

Have you asked him? I would ask him.
If he says no, then I think you should still suggest counseling because if he wants nothing to do with you and the kids then something dirastic has to happen now before he does end up cheating.

Plus those kids need a dedicated father!!

sobay310

You just have to talk to him and ask why he is acting the way he is. Why does he come home later every night? Why does he want nothing to do with you or the kids? The first step is to ask him these questions.

Kitty-kat

:o Talk to him alone in a room on some nights...ask him what problems he's been facing, stress, or maybe he wants more "fun time" with you that you aren't giving :( I wish for the best >.<

good luck~

wesley

Maybe he is working later and stressed out

TomMac

So ask some family friends what they think. If he hasn't told one of them or one of them hasn't noticed anything than ignore it until he gives himself up stupidly somehow. He can't go on forever without getting caught.

Jumbo Mama

Hire a private investigator. Don't tell him. Not wanting anything to do with you is one thing.....the kids....well that's just despicable. Perhaps you should leave him and find someone who will appreciate you and your kids. You need to talk to him about his actions. Get your facts first. Good luck

Jackie

Have someone follow him and know for sure, if he is get rid of the cheat!

sarahlove_us

I would start to ask him what is going on and if he still refuses to talk, then you have to look at the picture and see if he is depressed or really is having a affair... I know that my dad was a very distant man but he suffered from depression not infidelity so look deeper into it...

Hi H

You could see if he smells like perfume when he comes home, ask him. And ask him if your important to him anymore.

PICK MEEE!

follow him after work.

Rachel *

that's what i would assume too........ if i was in your position. or he's depressed. that's a possibility too. i would post more details.

thesunshineking

why don't you just talk to him to see what's going on?

maybe he's got something on his mind and he doesn't want to have anything to do with his family. You really have to get involved, see what's going on. Because without knowing, you'll always be suspicious...maybe you should confront him and ask him if he's cheating on you, or see his phone, etc...there's really no other way to confront it....

You have to think about your kids, though, they are the most important part of the family, not you or your husband..look after their best interest..don't break up the family just b/c u feel that your husband is cheating on you..

ZaCkO

You think? Find out... and if he wants nothing to do with you and the kids, throw him out, move away. Your kids are important to you. Take care of your family, if he doesn't want to be apart of the family then he needs to leave. Find someone else that will like your family and you will love back.

The best option is to talk with him before getting to any conclusions. If he is your husband, I am sure you know him well enough to catch him, if he is lying.

ginapery

Have you asked him if he is cheating? If he wont be honest with you then maybe you should borrow a friends car and follow him and see what he is up to. Good luck.

MadKat

Go online to you wireless provider and check his phone records for unknown numbers. Look for frequent ATM withdraws or odd charges. I'm sorry to hear that.

Try counseling.....

raj

you should ask this question to your husband he will give you a batter answer

mckean family

Try being more spontainious or ask him (tell him!)to take the kids out for a fun day and see if the kids enjoy it!

thatswhatnoonesaid

There could be different reasons for your husband to be coming home late every night. Maybe there's traffic after work or he's being kept after.
Also, he's probably stressed out and really tired. Sometimes, when my parents come home from work, they just want to sleep and sleep and sleep.
However, if he's coming home late every night, having secret phone calls, coming home with different smells, acting awkward and secretive around you, then maybe he's up to SOMETHING.
Ask him about it and that way you'll know for sure.

angie

ask him

Hank the wayward Christmas tree

Do some investigating. Borrow a friend's car, and follow him after work one night. Look at his emails, and (if you can) look at the recent calls, messages, texts... on his cell. If you find out that he is, call him on it.

JennyH

Well, first off....I would talk to him about how you are feeling. Ask him if anything is bothering him. You dont want to assume the worst, you have to keep an open communication with him. If something ever bothers my husband or I we communicate, and it always gets resolved. good luck!!

skyepaige39

private eye! my friend does it for a living. catches people everyday. and in some cases, he finds out that there is no cheater at all.

Rahul Prasher

I understand you must be suspicious about your husband coming home late every night, but you shouldn't jump to conclusions. Why don't you ask him why he comes home every night? Perhaps you should talk to him about it, but don't accuse him of anything.

Just curious

maybe he just wants to be away from you. When someone cheats they usually behave a lot different like be on the phone with people you dont know on internet or texting or out specific nights.,

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