I think that my mom is cheating on my dad....I read some of her texts messages of her having a conversation?

Rich

DO NOT TELL YOUR DAD RIGHT NOW. Talk to your mom and tell her what you read and see what she says.

Baby's got blue eyes

Sounds like she has just started to see someone new, thats why she's excited and nervous meeting him.

Your mum and dad's marriage is obviously in some kind of trouble. They have probably done a good job of hiding it from you until now. Perhaps your mum feels lonely and thinks she needs company and understanding from another person?

If I were you, I would talk to you mum. It might be the wake-up call she needs. Tell her you know. Tell her you dont want your family to break up. Ask her if she and your father can make their marriage better. Once the reality of her behaviour hurting her family is in the open, hopefully she will see sense and stop.

wrfine

Some things are better left alone!

wheelsofmadness

as harsh as this may sound and you are not going to like it. stay out of it. forget you seen it and don't tell your father what you seen and don't confront your mother. its none of your business. if you say anything to either of them it puts you into the middle of something you have no place being. I know their your parents but that still don't give you the right to say anything. if you need to get this off your chest take it to a priest or pastor and then leave it alone.

UMmm yea..^_^

She's gunna do what she wants and if that means a broken family than that lies with her or maybe you can ask her or confront her even when she denies it you need proof if she's goona play the game like that

Rebecca W

You had no business reading your mother's text messages. You have no idea what is or is not going on. And finally you have no business meddling in your parents relationship. So keep what you think you might know to yourself and work on being respectful of others privacy!

1401

i would talk to my mom about it but i know you said you are to shy to do that so maybe you can print this page off and just hand it to her
i wish you and you family lots of luck and many more years of happiness sending hugs to you i know this must be really hard for you

Yana

First of speak to your dad. 2 Altough he will get a shock he can then see for himself what to do.

I'm really sry fo yuw .. cheer up my dear :(

pizzanti

Why are you going through your mom's messages? However, Talk to her. If she is cool with you going through her messages then she should be fine with you asking this question. Use the fact that you were reading her messages to ease into the discussion if you are still shy.

Bia

i think u should stay out of it...and don't ever go through ur moms stuff ,not ur business

Osama

NEVER EVER TELL YOUR DAD

TALK WITH YOUR MOM

maybebaby

Hi Emma,
If you were anything like me, I would tell my dad. I would hate that happening to my dad, and even though hearing it would break his heart - at least he can then decide what to do.

And yeh, it sounds to me that she's having an affair. Sorry.

FERANMI S

I dont no how old u are, but is very bad to read ur mothers text message or help her to receive her calls is bad dont do that again. Now if u tell ur daddy u want to cause trouble in d family so pls stop dont tell ur daddy. u can as well call ur mummy and warn her or talk to her .

Aria

woah, woah, relax!

Yeah, this is a really hard situation.
If you tell your dad you have to bear in mind that, your parents may get divorced.
Alternatively you could talk to your mom and tell her that you read the texts, and get her to explain her actions.
Whatever you do, be careful!

If you want to talk about this more you can e-mail or message me
MSN: Saarkia@hotmail.com
YahooIM: Saarkia@ymail.com
e-mail: Aria.me@me.com

Good luck!! xxx

Katrina R

You poor darling! Well its clear she is cheating on your dad... You hav to be careful because if you tell your mom your went through her messages it will make it harder on you, she will get uspet that not only you caught her out- that you went through her messages... I think you should talk to your dad if you are close and can trust him not to say anything about you reading your mims texts. He has a right to know as the truth will come out sooner than later.. NO PERSON DESERVES TO GET CHEATED ON... That way your dad can either forgive your mom or just move on and be happy like we all deserve.

Bambi

100% speak to your mum first

SAN DIEGO !!!

1st dont tell your dad.
2nd talk to your mom. let her know you read her txt. and she better explain what the hell is going on or you will tell your dad.
maybe bring up the subject about "cheating" during dinner and see
how your mother reacts... just on about how so and so's mom cheated .... trust me you'll be able to tell if she is cheating ...
good luck &&
Im sorry.

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