I threw my cheating boyfriend out....?

CeciliaM

Why see him again? He's already proven what a cheater and user he is. YOu are still vulnerable right now, and he knows it, which means he will sweet-talk you back into his life and while he may change his behavior at first, he will just go back to his playin ways. And you know this.

Anthony C

are you actually considering to see him again? listen, you do that and you dont deserve a real answer to this question. love yourself a little more and get a real man in your life, and not this dirtbag.

fathead

You have him pegged. If he really felt bad about what he did then he wouldn't give you that stupid attitude. He must expect that you'll cave in...maybe you have in the past?

Be strong. Don't ever see him again. You already made the right decision.

Child Of The Moon

GOOD BYE TO THE PERSON I DON'T KNOW

SweetPea

Umm, we're forgetting the fact he CHEATED. Throw his whinny butt out, and move on.

been_here_and_gone

He's a bum. You're better off without him. Tell him to get lost.

The Girl Is A Geek

He is just a user. Tell him to move in with the chippie he banged.

If you want to continue being hurt then by all means see him on his terms. Otherwise, get a spine and see you deserve better than this.

suzii j

You a doormat or what...where is your own self respect.........get shut of him...he will do it again!!!!!

*~*love always*~*

Don't even waste your time seeing him again. He knows he screwed up and he lost you. Plain & simple.

martinmagini

oh sweetie....just move on! You can do so much better than to get yourself into a bad situation with someone you cannot trust. You will need as you go through life a person you can rely on and that you can share life's joys and burdens with. He is not the one. I am sorry to say it, but you should just move on. You are worth better than he has to offer.

wellbeing

If he can't wait for you to be ready to talk to him, then he must just be trying to use you. He is the one that cheated, he shouldn't be asking you for anything at all. Either he respects your requests and shows you that he can be trusted, or move on and find someone that you can.

The Nag

You did the right thing. Don't take him back. You aren't married to him, and I can tell you from experience it will never be the same.

howie r

dump him for good. cheaters never change, you will be stronger and a better person if you stand up and say enough,,, its over.

there are a lot of other guys out there that will treat you better.

Lucky Man 2

Get a decent man for yourself you are worth more.

calzaghe_fever

get rid of him once a cheat always a cheat u will only get hurt agen

Kat G

I think you need to have a little self respect. 1st you support this looser, Waite on him hand and foot, feed him. That was your first mistake. He respects you by taking another woman out with your money. WOW! he really loves and respects you,

Love yourself and kick him to the curb, stop taking his calls and believing his lines of crap. Guys like him are a dime a dozen. You think your punishing him by not seeing him, he's been cheating on you what don't you get. Move on...;

sue66fun

Grow strong and get rid!!

Laura

use common sense, my dear! he obviously doesn't want to go back to step 1. he wants to back to wear you guys were before you found out.
he was using you for your money and taking care of him....treating you like a subservient person.

**********SEVER ALL TIES!!!******

The Squirrel Cage

You are not unreasonable and I think you are being to easy on him. If he can not pay the penalty for his cheating ways, then tell him goodbye. There are many more men out there who would not cheat on you.

Trust is a big part of any real relationship. That he would cheat on you and want you to forgive him so quickly on his terms speaks volumes about him. Give him the boot.

iminwa2002

THROW HIM OUT GIRL!!!!! Just what is he bringing to the table of this relationship? He is using you and disrespecting you and you deserve better! Run don't walk this man OUT of your life and wish the other woman luck.

If he says he doesnt think he can wait and he doesnt want to earn your trust back then dump him for good! What has he done for you? has he treated you with love and respect? Nope. Has he contributed to the household? Doesn't sound like it. Has he made an attempt to redeem himself for his cheating? No way. Cut those ties and move on or he will continue to use you and cheat since he will get the idea that you are willing to put up with it.

mafport

Walk away and don't look back! You seem like a very nice person and deserve better, he definitely sounds like a user. Get out there and find someone who enjoys you, and cares for you, not cares about what you can do for him. Look for someone that can take care of your needs. Good Luck!

ndnqt1966

Cut all ties with the low life...He was using you...and if he really was serious and wanted to help your relationship then he would be patient.....He "can't wait" because he has nobody else that will pay his way in life.

GEORGE D

You know the answer. be strong and dump him.

tacka....

If you're feeling bad about being 'mean to him', it sure doesn't sound like you want to let go. On the other hand, when you have a history with someone, pretending that you're going back to 'day one' isn't going to work either.

Stop acting like this is your problem. He's the one that cheated. He's the one that has to make it up to you, and if you're smart, you'll make him make it up on your terms. But you can't be wishy washy about it. You've got to really be willing to say good bye to make it stick. Or he'll charm and wriggle his way back in.

So is it unreasonable to want some space? No.

notagain49

He cheated once and now he is trying to get back in so he can afford to cheat again.You can't really be thinking about taking him back again?Find you someone that will love you and not cheat on you!Good luck.

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