I told her I am married, still she says she loves me and she wants to be with me. What I am supposed to do?

Edward B

Do like I did. Run like hell and do not look back!

greeneyes_bjb

Honoring your marriage vows would be a good start.

oldcorps1947

Tell her you a flattered, but you love your wife and will honor your vows. Then stay away from her. It takes a real man to live with honor when in this situation.

Drop Her NOW Sorry come on get a grip and just do it

kceg85

Why don't you have your wife call her and tell her?

WORKING OLDER SMARTER BLONDE

this gal is using you. tell her to take a hike and leave you alone. then absolutely do not have future conversations with her of any kind. do not answer the phone. do not see her. do not talk to her.CUT HER OFF AND CUT HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE

tami j

Get real for one thing. You know what you should do. If she is willing to be with you eventhough you are married then she has more than likely done the same before. We all are tested from time to time it seems and it is up to us to do the right thing. Once something is done it can not be undone. Stand tall and be a real man and tell her in a way she will understand and know you are not interested or that you are a better person than that. A real man is the same person with his wife as he is without her.

ciman7

Better keep away from her & end her relationship. One should keep it in mind that if you cheat your wife & children now, one day someone will cheat you or your daughter. Marital Relationship should only be with your legally bound wife/wives not with any other females.

josh

Don't let her to come in your life.Think about your wife .Be a good husband to yor wife.

Dolyn

Say, no. Simple. And, don't cheat.

Camila

Step away from the gal, run if you have to and remember to honor your commitment to your wife.

Pagan Dan

There is no satisfactory outcome. Make up your mind. Get divorced, and then pursue a relationship with this woman. If you can't do that, patch up your marriage. Your wife is entitled to your loyalty, and if you cannot give it, she is entitled to a divorce.

Sun of the Dark

ummmm- stop talking to her. Or divorce your wife. You choose but you HAVE to choose

joyceeleann

tell her no

eirama

Just don't socialize with her. Refuse to talk to her and do your best to down right avoid her. Tell your wife about her just in case she tries to set something up and attempt to disrupt and cause controverse in your marriage by starting something.

lillian g

first your should decide on what it is you want.If you love your wife be with her and dont cheat and in the end regret your actions.but if you love this other girl and you want to be with her as well then be with her but be honest with your wife thats better then caring on an affair and wasting both hers and your time on a marriage thats bound to end.

God is love.

How can one love you if you have not made love with them....actions speak.she wants to be with me? So you said I am married,so does that matter when one is unfaithful. I guess she is the clean up woman......

you have two choices stay with your wife and honor your vows or leave

Natalie

well you need to consider what means more to u ur marriage and ur wife or this other girl
love is a serious thing and if you value her over ur vows and love for ur wife im sure u need to do the right thing and get a divorce and if thats not an option u need to break things off with the girl and do right by ur wife and marrige
i hope u make the right descion
remember happiness is where its at
so go with ur heart

Lydia

Stay very far away and work on your relationship with your wife.

friskymisty01

You need to once again firmly say in no uncertain terms other than "I've told you I'm Married and back off" HOW can someone LOVE you unless you two have had some kind of intimacy?? If you havn't* and you have stayed faithful with your wife, then you have a loose/crazy cannon on your hands and you need to tel your wife this person is "in love with you and you've told her you're married and to back off and she isn't"......be upfront and honest with your wife. hopefully if your wife has a few words with her......maybe she'll get the message and back off and find someone who isn't married.
I still just don't get how she can "LOVE YOU and want to be with you" knowing you're married *Did u and her ever have something together??