I wanna die?

amazin_woman2001

You say he's leaving you again - that means he's done it before? I bet you've done all you can for him in those 17 years, and if that still isn't good enough for him, then let him go hun. He'll just continue to make you unhappy. You feel like you want to die now, but honestly, it will eventually pass. And God willing you will find a man who wants to stay with you and love you like you deserve.

JadeVampyre

There are billions of other people in this world...why beat yourself up over one?

Gemma

Im sorry that you feel that you have to try to get him to love you. No one can make another person love them and i feel bad for you. You have wasted far too much time on him already, it shouldnt cost you your life aswell. you feel bad now but you will get over him.

kievoris

I'm sorry you're goin thru this...it must be hard :( but you said he's leaving you again? Please let go of him...maybe you can finally be happy when he's gone...and maybe it won't be as bad as you think it is...people (esp. women) are so afraid of ending relationships because we are programmed to feel this way....but if he makes you this unhappy, then maybe you better off without that "heart".
but do seek professional help,,,it seems that this is very hard for you...stay strong!

csiders30

Any man who leaves is no real man. You can do better.

Maggie May

You say you have tried for 17 years to get him to love you? You can't make anyone love you and even if you could make someone, what kind of love would that be? He is not your heart. Give your heart to someone who can give theirs back to you. He is leaving you again? Let him go. Grieve over the loss, get counseling if you need to, then move on. Life is too short to throw your love at someone who doesn't want it.

Dani Bosco

He is not worth it. My Dad once told me, "you can't make someone love you". Find the right man to love you for who you are. He is out there. Good Luck!

Jim J

You need to call a girlfriend and talk to her for a while. Then get some counseling. Fact is that there is a life on the other side and it sounds like in the long run you could have a very happy and fulfilling life without this guy.

Exitwound

The best way to get over someone, is find someone new!

curmudgeon

you'd be a lot better off finding someone who does love you.

ProudM

wow, 17 years. why? why so long? why did you decide that he's your heart? why is he leaving, again? why do you wanna die? why have you given him all the power?
if he's leaving again, he should. i don't know what the issues are, and they may be beyond your control and not your fault, but good bye. mourn the loss, take back your heart . . . self respect . . . and start loving yourself again so that others can love you too.

dizzy

I feel very sorry for you. Divorce is never easy, some days you feel like you will die but you won't. Things do get better, surround yourself with friends work and hobbies. Keep busy and it helps alleviate the pain. It really does fade with time and you will meet someone you won't have to try to get him to love you. He just will and your life will be full again.

Santa's Babii

don't listen to any1 who isn't taking this serious!
no women needs a man to live
keep ur head high & get through it
good luckk! <33 =]

angel

Oh Honey I know the pain of losing someone that you love. I was pregnant and the man I loved dump me, for no reason other than he didn't want to be a father. I cried and cried and cried the pain seemed unbearable at times. I prayed to GOD to help me. Well, the guy never came back, I had my baby (which by the way is the best thing that has ever happened to me) and the guy had nothing to do with me or our baby (which I know now is GOD sent that he didn't have anything to do with us) Well, after time went on I thought of him less, I hurt less and then I met the man of my dreams. I am happily married now for six years and dated my now husband for three years before we married, Anyway, sweetheart what I am trying to tell you is that GOD ALWAYS knows what is best. The guy that left me I thought was my heart only to find out he doesn't even compare to my husband. no one of course could have told me different at the time, because the pain is so real, but I assure you, you are better off. If he comes back again, stand tall and tell him he can't come back. Who is he to treat you like that. You deserve someone that will love you like you love them and NOTHING less

edoubleyou

One of two things is true:
He is better than you, or
He thinks he's better than you.
Probably the latter, either way find a new heart somewhere else.

vic91106

Sweetheart, he is not your heart - he is breaking it.
You have done more than anyone could expect, and he is leaving you - again.
Whatever is broken about your relationship is going to stay broken.
I know, it hurts so badly you can't stand it. That is because you love him so much. If he loved you half as much he wouldn't be leaving.
So it is now time to love yourself. He is not leaving because you are unlovable - he is leaving because he can't see what a good thing he has.
Love yourself enough to let him go and start healing. It WILL happen - but it will take time. And sadly, nothing can change that. But it will happen. You just have to go on living through it.
Someone will come along that can love you as much as you love them. And that is what you deserve.

comeundone4162

He is not your heart. You can't make anyone love you. Love yourself. You deserve someone who will love you. Why waste your years on someone that doesn't deserve you?

rae

again? u had a heart b4 u met him u gave him all ur love but but u still have ur heart no one can live without love but love exists in so much more than people love the air u breathe u can't live without that, love ur mom once upon a time she was all that mattered, love feeling the weather change love being able to smell the differance of coffee and flowers theres so much more in life to love that pretentions

aneil

okay you should just let it go after 17 yrs move on. you could be happy in another relationship "HAPPY". me i was in a relationship for 7yrs an he left me an our son. I'm happier without him that sorry no good money grubbing basterd. move on there is another heart out there waiting for yours.

what did you say

I'm sorry but,you can't make someone love you.You just can't

stepintostep

Sissy the whole point of having that significant other is to add to your life not become your life. If someone doesn't love you, no matter what you do, you can't make them love you. 17 years of your life has been wasted for what a man who doesn't love you. I am sorry but you are going to have to find love for yourself and self respect. I don't want to be with any man that doesn't love me. Do you really think that having a one-sided relationship can make you happy? Let him go, let his a** go, and find yourself girl. You are worthy to be love by a someone who will not only love but respect you, but first you have to have love and respect for yourself.

bigrobe

I thought the same thing about my ex wife..and at the end of it all I opened my eyes and saw the truth about her....You will be fine..believe me

Danette

Sweetie you are tight no one can live with out a heart but no one can live by having their heart broken all the time either.I think that if you took time to love you before you love the man you'll find inner peace and the ability to go on!

lefttheroom222

Just grieve. When someone you love leaves it is like a death. Let yourself be sad. Let yourself be angry. Go through all the stages of grief. And you know what? One day you will wake up and you wont feel so bad.

And just because he leaves doesn't mean that those 17 years meant nothing. They were real experiences.

Lean on family and friends. Do whatever you need to do to let out the pain. Clear out the closets one day, when you are ready. I promise you that your life is not over, it just feels like it.

Dr Melissa

Everyone can go on. You shouldnt want to die. You have love in your heart. This is an obstacle not a failure. You can achieve success. You cant force someone to love you and your heart will heal. Dont think about why he doesnt love you, think about why, for 17 years, you tried to make someone else love you and you accepted this behavior. It is time to move on. You deserve better.

yoda the twentysecond

It hurts now, but we get over these things.

867-5309 "Jenny"

Don't take it out on yourself take your pain out on the other woman..good luck

bella s

You can live and your heart is severally broken but you can go on. No man/woman is worth taking your life! If you have kids think of how it will make them feel knowing that they weren't enough for mom to live. Unfortuntely you cant make anyone love you. You should of left a long time ago. He sounds like a real prize.

Xavior

well if u feel u tried your best then dont worry about it, if anything its probably his fault, no one is perfect......keep your head up

ghost

I'm sorry

Enter Your Message or Comment

User Name:
User Email:
Post a comment: