I want my ex back i just love her so much ...what should i do ?? was it a right decision to stay friends?
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I want my ex back i just love her so much ...what should i do ?? was it a right decision to stay friends?
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I want my ex-girlfriend back.... but i need anothers opinion please help=(?
ok so i went wit the most beautiful girl i have ever seen and i really really like ...well let me tell you my story. Im 18 and well we met unexpectedly, i was walking down the hall at my school when she cuts in front me and tells me your my school boyfriend lol but thats not how it started .
well i got her phone number and we started talking you know and while we were talking she had just broken up with her ex and you know i was there for her i would listen to her problems and i would just cheer her up . so like a month or two of knowing her i really really started to like her and i forgot tomention that i'm really cool wit her best friends ...ok so one day it was feb. 11 and one her friends comes up to me telling me that i should ask her out but before i asked that i wanted to be with her but she wasn't sure , ok so that being said i asked her friend are you sure and she was like yeah trust me do it and i said ok . i was going to soccer practice well me and ashly well my ex, we were walking cuz she plays soccer too and that's when i asked her if she would be my girlfriend and she said yes, that was one of the happiest days of my life ....
ok so everything was going perfect well so i thought and one night we were texting and idk i had this felling that she wasnt really feeling me and i asked her are you happy being with me and thats when she broke m heart and to tell you the truth the next day i cried in the shower , damn i was just so hurt my heart didnt see it coming (sigh) so ok that happen right and she told me that the reson she broke up with me was that she was heading off to college somwhere in dallas , alright so the next day im down i dont feel like going to school im hurt and so i see her and i was like i need to to you and so we talked and i told her that we can make it work, i'll go and visit you in dallas no matter what it takes if i even have to go walking i'll go , but she said was ok alright and so months past and i ould still talk to her until i started suspecting that she started talking to her ex and i asked her are you going out wih him and she said yes...=( she said that she was sorry idk how it happen n i started crying once more, she told me that the real reason she broke up with me was that she couldnt stop thinking about her ex .....and she told me that she hoped and prayed so that she can fall in love with me ....
so now i still talk to her we text everyday im always there for her she calls me sometimes i call her sometimes and we even slept on the phone together one time lol but idk i really want her back we always say good morning and goodnight to each other everyday i mean every single day! i love her but do ya'll think that i still have a chance with her? what should i do? all i want is her =( her friends thinks that she should've stayed with me too but idk i really want her back ....we went out for a month and she went out with her ex for like three yrs but they broke up like so many times ...i jus dont know what to do
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Sue C
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I too well know how love just plain can hurt, & loosing someone you really do care about does hurt badly. Unfortunately, no matter how badly you want something to happen, we just cannot make it happen. I know this from an ex husband. Regardless of how much I loved him, wanted him to stay w/me & ONLY me, he still cheated on me so many times I lost count. But I just kept hanging in there "knowing" that IF I did, I just KNEW I could change it. Unfortunately how wrong I was. Regardless of how much I wanted it to happen, nothing but nothing I did or said made any difference to him. Comes a time in life where we just must ACCEPT the truth no matter how hard we try, or how much we want it to be "our way". I've found IF it's meant to be, it w/be. I've also learned that things do happen for reasons. We may not know now what the reason is, but they just do. You no doubt may just find out there actually IS someone better out there for you, you've just not met her yet. I know I'm not helping to make you feel any better, nor can I tell you any magic words that can bring her back to you. She does know how you feel, IF it's meant to be, it w/be. BUT if not, you CAN KNOW at some point in time someone WILL just come along when you least expect it & you'll know this one is the RITE ONE for you, even tho you don't feel that way at the moment, nor do you even feel that would be possible. You're young, we've ALL had our ups & downs w/our love lives along the way. But there is always someone to come along to fill that so empty spot when we need it or least expect it. So IF this one just happened not to be the rite one, someone else WILL come along & make you feel happy again. This you can trust me on, this is so true. So just hang in there, you can always hope, but KNOW there w/be others in your future who w/help fill that empty spot in your heart again...This I CAN promise you. Take good care...:) |
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adwoa
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there's no point in trying to get back together with her. from whatever you said she's not interested in you more than a friend. friendship would not work for you in my opinion, cuz it's not easy to see someone you love with somebody else. just try to take your mind off things and get over it |
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ChristieO
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I think she's just going to keep hurting you and you need to let her go. She prolly does care about you, but not as much as you want or need from her you know? She loves her ex, no matter how f***ed up he may be. When you not over someone your not over them, dont let her play you. Hit me up on y messenger... "mamanbeautyskoo" |
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Fred Jones
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You can get your ex back. Many people including a friend of mine have done this.
My friend could get his ex back following this guideline from a tough situation after a nasty break up:
http://www.get-your-ex-back.info |
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Jay
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listen u are the person that she just 'falls back on' give her her space and she needs to acknowledge ur presence or else she will miss out on a really good thing. when u arent there she will start noticing u more and she cant have her cake and eat it too.there is a time that will come when u will be fed up with all this.u are okay now cus ur still in the 'falling for her' stage which always looks pretty till u start seeing the ugly side to it.
listen i know its hard but u reeeeeeeeally need to take a stand and get through that u wont keep standing aside being the 'Side person'
her ex isnt silly, he knows that others will be with her if he isnt and he knows about u, it makes him want her even more cus every1 wants what they cant have and yet he is still refusing to be with her 100% cus if he was she wouldnt have been crying to u on ur shoulder for sympathy and re assurance.
take a stand and dont take this anymore.make it clear what u want and that u wont take it no more, ignore her calls and texts(and mark my words u will get alot of them) and dont show her the time of day until she chooses what she wants.she cant have u on th side as some1 she can fall back on as well as have her guy when she knows how u feel about her.it just aint right for u and she's doing herself an injustice depriving herself of a good guy that wants her.
be a man and make ur move.stop hangning by the side lines and dont waste tears on some1 who isnt worth it.sometimes ppl are good but they arent OUR good person for us to love cus they are giving their love to some1 else.that removes us from the picture of wanting that persons love and recieving it.
love urself, because this girl doesnt.if she's to get ur love, she needs to return it, if not lose u, the 'good' guy in all this |
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Alyssa M
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i need a shot of vodka after reading all that |
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