I want my partner to do things in bed that she is not comfortable with.How can i persuade her to be dirtier?

farleyjackmaster

Respect her boundaries.

golden rider

If she is not comfortable doing these things, why would you want her to do them anyway. Sounds a little selfish to me.

spiegy2000

You can't

Just Me

You can't, and you shouldn't try to coerce your partner into doing anything she doesn't want to do.

caroline1409f1

You need to compromise - not make her do things she doesn't want to do! If she's not comfortable with something try and explain to her why you'd like her to do it but you cannot force her.

lookin_for_my_thong_panties

this type of action isn't fair....RESPECT HER WISHES. Would you like something that you definitely don't want to try or do forced upon you?

War Veteran

Slowly work it in...she may be wanting the same things but is ashamed to think it. If she reacts in a negative way then don't push it...talk to her and give her time.

Juanito

that is just rude and WRONG. you should give her time or do what she want if you try to force her she might leave and then you wont have anything

YORKSHIRE

Try doing something for her first. I'd do anything for My Sweet Mistress without thought of reward. Seeing her happy is reward enough for me.

loopy_loo

if she dont want to do then no matter what u do shes not going to do it

Katie

You shouldn't be trying to get her to do anything she isn't comfortable with. She needs to get rid of you. Don't be so selfish.

MaryBeth

Do not put pressure on her.Maybe she is just too conservative for you,and you should be honest to both of you...and move on.

~J*me~

Tell her to be more confident and who knows she might like it...you don't know unless you try!!!

Rainbow-Taster

keyword - COMFORTABLE!

Obviously she isn't, as you yourself already stated.
Stop being so selfish pressuring her into things she doesn't like.

If it's that bad then leave her but don't make her feel like it's her problem.

You can either live with it or leave her and find it elsewhere but you can't make her do what she's not comfortable with.

Unhinged....

You cant force someone to do something they arent comfortable with.

sebastian

Talk to her. Tell her why you want to do the things you're interested in. Reasure her that you're still attracted to her even if she doesn't do them but explain that you think it would be pleasurable and fun for both of you. Also ask her what she'd be interested in and give it a shot.

kizdrop

Ask her to try, if she says no, dont push it.

If she doesn't like ur idea maybe change it up so it is comfortable for her to do and then maybe she wil advance further.

Just curious..

just be patient with her, as time goes by she will become more outgoing...but you have to be realistic and remember that she is not your fantasy, she is a real person with her own wants and needs and limitations!

xeibeg

do not try to make dirty her

opjames

You just answered your own question fella. If she is not comfortable doing it then DONT DO IT.
It's not just about YOU after all.

alberto r

Try to convince her. But donÂ´t push her too much. ShÃ©s not gonna do something that you want, except you convince her thatÂ´s important for you, and coul be really worth-trying.

tell her it is OK you wont tell anyone
and what other people said

mooncrystal6

If she's not comfortable with the idea, then why would you want to push the issue?

laplandfan

If you make an issue of it she will feel a failure to you in bed. you need to approach this carefully. Have you asked her what you would like to try doing? If she slaps your face you will know it's a no go area.
Bottom line is if she has said no or that she isn't comfortable with it then I cant see anyway forward.

Concrete

tell her not to bother washing................

ken

Tell her , Dont worry i wont tell that you got itchym worms on your thigh

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