I want to get a divorce...?

Arthur W

I guess your reason for divorce is definitely not the worst nor the stupidest Ive ever heard, but it is unique. I have this feeling this isnt the main cause for wanting out but the last straw. You just need to sit down possibly with a paralegal, cheaper than an atty, and work things out as the judges love it too. Chances are your wife will get custody of your son, the house and child and possible spousal support. File it in court, shell be served within 72 hours and a date will be set for court, and the rest will be decided. Basic divorce 101. Good luck

Leo

all that cuz of a gotee? just shave it off i mean itll grow back.

Only a moron would leave his family over something so petty...

wantme_comegetme

well that is a immature reason to get a divorce

lowrider

You are doing the right thing Alex. Sounds like it's time to bail out of there. That way she'll be able to find herself a real man to help her raise her son.

just_me_1955

dam it is a good thing you want to move on you cant even handel a gotee,pal get a life grow up

Anarchy99

Dont divorce over this, tell her you will put your best face forward
shave your a** and start walking backwards that way your face will show your true inteligence!

Hollynfaith

How dare she! Alright, I'm kidding. This is pretty juvenille and a little far fetched. If you are seriously considering divorce (which I doubt), you need to re-evaluate the situation. Nobody divorces, packs up and moves out of state abandoning a child after five years of marriage over facial hair. Lay it on the line for her. Tell her this is who you are, she did not marry an "idiot", and you can accept the fact that she is not fond of it as long as she can accept the faults you find in her.

BluePassion

Ok, somebody is bored!!!!

idontwannabefound2nite

Divorce...face it...the gotee is not the real issue here...I mean c'mon if two people are truly, deeply in love with another they aren't going to split over some facial hair. You two have problems that run deeper....Good luck in the future.

sunshine

If you want my honest opinion....I think your being silly wanting to end your marriage over a gotee...is your marriage and your son more important than facial hair?

sarah071267

Do it. She deserves a man who isn't a baby.

polygirrrl

ewwmuhgawd are u actually saying that u love ur goatee (btw they r ttly unattractive) more then ur wife and kid, whatta bi**ch

Gill T

Shave it off. Beards are disgusting, but a goatee is the ultimate in revolting. It probably makes you look like a slime ball.

unique 39

Are you sure there's not more going on? Have you shared how this makes you feel with your wife? Before you decide on a divorce make sure you've exhausted every option to make your marriage work, especially since there's a child involved. I would suggest family counseling to get to the real reason you feel divorce is the only option to resolve this issue. good luck

wanda h

sounds like you both need to grow up

just m

there are two ways to look at this first she married you for who you are and should accept this, but if you are ready for a divorce and to move out of state instead of compromise there is a much deeper situation going on here.

marmar

I think its a build up of little things like this that are behind you wanting to get a divorce. Because you have a child I wouldn't advise you get a divorce,give it a try for him. Help your wife work out her issues, give each other some respect it might work out

trina

i wouldn't recommend getting a divorce just bcuz you have a disagreement like that. you have a child and a wife.. and even though you are mad.. dude it aint that serious.. life could b worse you know so grow up and act like a married man.....talk to your wife tell her how u feel come to some conclusion if only to try and see how it is for a while.. that way both of you will win.. take care .. hope it works out

iyamacog

Are either one of you able to understand the word....
Communication???

jimel71898

You want to end a marriage and rip your child's world apart over a GOATEE?!!! Grow up and get into marriage counseling. If that's your only problem that is no reason to end a marriage.

shepardman1

why dont you come to a compromise,and trim it up or try a new style.

ridingthestorm_out

First of all, if you like it , she should respect you for it,,do you tell what clothes to wear? hairstyles?. I think divorce is a bit much over something like that , just talk to her , tell her you like it, end of story. We all see or think at some point in our marrige something "idiotic" in our mate , Hey this is life , how boring if everybody were the same , GL

Kelly

I'm no psychiatrist but if your ready to leave your wife and son over something like facial hair maybe there is a deeper problem that needs to be addressed. Good Luck! P.s As a wife, my guess is if she tells you it makes you look like an idiot then that is a very distinct possibility.

Michelle :

why divorce over something so small? Unless there are other issues that led up to this.... talk to her and tell her you will not shave your gotee.

Esma

Grow up. If you want a divorce over your goatee, then you need to figure out if you were mature enough to wed in the first place.

And, guys look ridiculous with facial hair, especially as they age. Just FYI. Almost any wife or girlfriend would ask you to get rid of it. I say shave it off.

wondering

Shave your gotee. In my opinion, it makes a person look shifty and untrustworthy. Also, like a slacker type. You had it for years, make a change already.

rodjryder

It is evident that you don't love your wife, this is just a poor excuse to leave her. Marriage is a partnership of give & take. So either grow up and make sacrifices, I am sure there are things she sacrifices for you.. Or just leave & don't come back. Your son will be better off without you as a role model.

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