I want to get married ASAP?

alpha & omega

I want to get married ASAP too. My problem is that immigration is after me and I do not want to go back to Tijuana.

Julia H

Maybe try being a little more modest and humble.

No Woman No Cry

The faster you get married, the faster you get divorced. You do not seem to care about having a healthy, happy family but a marital relationship based on the quality of ones looks. Take your time with it. Do it for the children. Divorce is the worst thing in the world.

Random Bob

Once upon a time, a guy asked a girl "Will you marry me?" The girl said: "NO!"

And the girl lived happily ever after and went shopping, dancing, camping, drank martinis, always had a clean house, never had to cook, did whatever the hell she wanted, never argued, didn't get fat, travelled more, had many lovers, didn't save money, and had all the hot water to herself. She went to the theatre, never watched sports, never wore friggin' lacy lingerie that went up her ***, had high self esteem, never cried or yelled, felt and looked fabulous in sweat pants and was pleasant all the time.

The End

EevieS

You have to be yourself. You can't put on a happy face and live that way forever.

School Girl

Don't be desperate the one will come soon just don't be in a hurry to get married.

asha

I don't mean this to sound offensive, but men can smell desperation a mile away, and they will run a mile away, stop looking so hard and you might just find

Sarah =)

how about waiting until you're actually in love instead of marrying someone just because you feel like it ? ? ?

eyJude

you sound very IN TO yourself...
that might be putting them off!

Troy

NO. unless you find a grape under your mattress.

Veni

You should go to counseling and work on being happy with yourself.

P1 Rubber Ducky

try not being sooooooooooooooooooooo needy

Hercules Rockerfeller

2 Quotes in your question that would send the average man running:

"i don't have a prob with attracting men. Its just keepin them"

and the big one:

"the clock is tickin"

Kristiane-Cubical ninja

So what you are saying is you have personality defects that being pretty isn't making up for?
Sorry but faking it won't help you, you cannot fake it forever.
Perhaps try building yourself up, further your education, learn more about the world, focus on some personal growth so that your personality can keep them once you meet them.

Shisha Pipe

You're insane.

acedelux

Getting married with that attitude will only get you on the fast track to divorce. Why in the world would you get married just for the sake of getting married? Enjoy the freedom you got as much as you can before settling down.

sweetie

You should be yourself. Its not a marriage will work if you don't be yourself and then change when you get married.

princess

I bet you are really ugly. girls that say they are pretty turn out to be very ugly because they are insecure. im not saying this to be mean, but no one is going to want to marry a person like you.

ShyLover

if they are not sticking around somethings gotta be wrong. If you are as gorgeous as you say a man can look past a lot so either you are a total B to the itch, you have a serious body oder issue or something really off upstairs.

Hung

Your gorgeous looks will get my attention in the first 10 minutes of knowing you. After that, it's all about your spirit for life. I've dated some extremely beautiful women in my time, but I've found them to be vain and emotionally unstimulating.

If you want to keep a man, it won't be your looks alone. A quality man that gives a crap anyways. I don't understand your eagerness either. That will scare a lot of guys quickly.

Patricia C

Unless you're over the age of 35 I wouldn't worry about a ticking clock.

DramaGirl

goodness gracious girl! wait to want to get married until you find the man you know you should marry and trust me you will know. and just be yourself! it's the number one advice guys would love to give girls. here's a quote from a guy:
"Be yourself because you are more valuable than you think"

I got this from the book For Young Women Only. it's really great and you should totally read it.

hope this helped!

regjoeschmo

You will find what you are looking for when you stop looking....

Live your life, be yourself. Dont just take the first thing that comes along. Let someone like you for who you are......

Amarante

not all about looks (some could be only looking at the outside), it's about what is inside

shouldn't say yes all the time

not good to rush things, could get into bigger problems

eric h

You need to keep being yourself, if you try to be somebody you're not it won't work. Try a dating website. I too was sick of dating and finding losers in bars. I met a woman online in March of 2005 and we got married in October of 2005 and are still happily married.

Amanda K.

wow..
modest much
lol
im not answering b/c i get pts out of this eithr way

Lisa Z

no you need to be yourself, it seem that the reason why you have trouble keeping men is that you change your whole persona to try to be the person you think your guy wants you to be. if you cannot be yourself when dating how do you think you can maintain a successful marriage? you need to be honest with yourself because men can see it when a girl is trying to be something they are not and a lot of men find that to be a big turn off. that and you seem so adamant on marriage if you tell a man this right off hand it will scare them off. take the time to find the one that is right for you do not rush things, and make sure you are getting married for the right reasons not because of your invisible time factor, or if you do get married it will just end in divorce acting like a puppet to try and please the guy you are with will get you nowhere. how old are you? why is it that you want to get married so fast? t o have a successful marriage you cannot rush into things so many people rush into marriage and half of them end in divorce. which ironically keeps me in business.

Voodoo

You should just be yourself. I know from my experience from being with women that smiling during PMS is sometimes out of the question. You should not kiss any mans behind just to keep him. When you find a man that truely loves you for who you are, he wont expect you to. (Pssst...Please don't tell my wife I told you that) hehehehe. So no, my dear your plan will not work, you need to have your needs met and be happy to. If mama isn't happy, papa won't be happy!!! I bet that you are a lovely woman and it will all work out. Just when you think that it won't it somehow does. Good luck, hun!!!

Evie

I think you should just be your self and when the right man comes in to your life it will be least exspected and you will know he is the one.You cant be something your not for the rest of your life and who would want to.

ignant_slob

If you base any type of relationship on a lie, then it is a false relationship. The person who is attracted to you isn't really attracted to you, they are attracted to the person you are pretending to be, and that person isn't real. So your relationship is bound to fail at some point AND you have cheated that person out of the time, money and effort they put into being with you. So if you can't build a relationship on being yourself, then maybe you don't deserve one until you can.

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