I was in love with a my friend for 4 yrs & had the acceptance from both the families.?
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I was in love with a my friend for 4 yrs & had the acceptance from both the families.?
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I had a elder sister who was yet to marry. I lost my father we could not find a suitable alliance for my sister and the marriage got delay. My fiance family were not happy with this delay & they searched a new alliance for him & pressurized him to marry her. All these things(Searching the bride, preparation, marriage) happened in just 2 months. He is the only son, He was told that if he doesn’t marry the one which they have found they would harm me & my family. He was loving me too much & got scared that his parent might hurt me & accepted the marriage just to push the time but unfortunately they made him tie the knot, soon after that he realized it was marriage & we met the very next day & he told everything. We both still loves eachother. Its been almost 1.5 yrs after their marriage he doesn’t have any physical relation with his wife till date. He is facing too much of problems because of this reason. But he want to come out of this relation which was unfair & they did it with out his permission but they are all from political background (Both his parents & his in-laws) hence he is very scared to apply for divorce also. What can be done for this problem? Please help me.
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azalee
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u know what? i am the the same situation u are but the other way round, my husband married me because his parents fixed with mine and i know that he still in love with a gal he wante dot marry but his parents were against... i can just tell u from the point of view of that gal who got married to ur love: it is very bad feeling to know that u married a man whose heart beats for soemone else.
it was not her fault ,not yours and not ur boyfriends all of u are victims somehow but u have to be strong now.
i think the man is in the worst situation, caught in between.
let time decide but still be open for dating new people u may find someone more interesting. |
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wizard of the East
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Forget him or it would only unnecessarily complicate your life
Marriages r made in heaven
he has married someone else, he has tied the knot
keep out of his way, let him love his wife and look after her happiness
she is innocent, she deserves some happiness
maybe it was unfair, but god destined it
accept the inevitable and I am sure god has some plan for u
u will meet the prince of your dreams shortly, but forget this boy
or u will only have problems for yourself and your family |
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Smile
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I know you are a good lady. But show your goodness by telling your boy , to give the love to his wife and not you. He should start loving his wife and not think of you anymore. Make him understand what is marriage . Its a bond which should not be broken like this. I know you understood what I mean. You must be the person (good person) to make the marriage successful . Convince him that she too has feelings and she deserves his love. help him to lead a wonderful life with her. Tell him to stop thinking of you and tell him to show his love to her and I am sure, he will be very thankful to you and glad to know you are such a sacrificer . He will never forget you for this. And tell him, that though you love him, you would love to see him happy . Happy in married life.
I know its difficult but why dont you try dear.
Good Luck. |
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