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urstruly8604
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you're a pig and your fat, obsessive wife deserves better than you. Divorce her first and do her the favor of letting her find someone who actually is worth her time. |
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peppermintpatty
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NO! You cant compliment another woman when your wife is there! Have a heart for her feelings!
Had you complimented your wife that evening as well? |
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ALLEN B
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Your wife at that point just realised she had married an idiot, no doubt ! |
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Tom D
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Dude! your screwed, dont know how long you've been married but ya gotta know when to keep your mouth shut. All married guys look, you just dont touch OR make compliments out loud. |
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falutd
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No. You're not right . You're insensitive. |
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davey
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never in front of your wife unless you want to start something. Some women are sensitive |
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Wiz
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If you are not complaining that your wife is fat ugly and looks twice her age why are you telling us |
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vaughnc5920
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Your complimenting the other woman probably made her feel bad about her self, chances are her self esteem is not great since she let herself go so much. If you want to save your relationship start trying to show her that you do love her and help build her self esteem back up a little bit.
Just do your best... |
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Brandy
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You are a complete a.sshole. I would have left you right there on the spot. I wouldn't have taken you with me, would have left you. You sound so concieted and immature. If you don't like your wife's appearance, complimenting another woman, in front of your wife, is NOT helping. Dumba.ss. |
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wondering
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You flirted with another woman in front of your wife, you moron! If you would like her to lose weight, then tell her you are concerned about her health and start an exercise program WITH her! Ask her to take a walk. Just don't be so stinkin' insensitive! |
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bumumble beee
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your out off order |
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Free spirit
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Well, complimenting a strange woman in front of your wife must have been very very painful for her.
Apologize to her and when things cool down let her know gently that you want her to lose weight and take better care of herself. |
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Nan74
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I would divorce you in minute. How pompous and rude can a man be? Seemingly you are a gift to us all. You said you are not complaining, but you keep bringing up your wife's weight and how she let herself go. Honestly, do your wife a favor - 1. Go after the hot chick.
2. Leave the house and kids to your wife.
3. Realize that you can never crawl back. |
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karamell08
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Oh BOY! Are you really oblivious, or just trying to see what kind of answers you are going to get. Honestly, I'm not married and I'm still fit, but I think it's PATHETIC when another man hits on me, or compliments me, in front of their wife, or significant other. No class and no grace. You took a perfectly good compliment and turned it into a war. Imagine yourself fat and feeling ugly and having your women comment or compliment another man. Common sense would have told you to admire from afar. Why would you say anything. And one other thing, you got lucky with her. Cause believe, you would have been sorry had you done something to me. I don't pull ear and leave, I'll show face and cut your head off on the scene.
If she let herself go...it's probably cause she's depressed from marrying you. |
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keithleyjustin
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GET HER THE BOOK PROPER CARE AND FEEDING OF HUSBANDS BY DR LAURA. GOOD READ FOR BOTH. sORRY SHE BLEW UP BUT MAYBE YOU COULD JUST HAVE SMILED. WE ALL FLIRT ITS ACTUAL GOOD FOR RELATIONSHIPS KEEPS US THINKING ROMATICLY ECT.. AS LONG ASA WE DONT GO OVER BOARD-KINDA THINK U DID A LITTLE |
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Neka
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Dummy, if you were going to compliment another woman while on a date with your wife you could have at least waited till your wife went to the ladies room. |
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Tamm
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You can say your wife went overboard, but my goodness, what the h** was on your mind to say and act the way you did? It sounds like you are bragging on yourself. Maybe you should check yourself to see if you are not subconsciously boosting yourself up at the expense of your wife. What you did was rude and inconsiderate towards your wife. Get over yourself. You know, if your wife was at the top of her game, as you are, then maybe that compliment would not have hurt so bad, but you know she is not at her best right now. |
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Just passing the time!
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are you taking the p*ss? i think you should do your wife the favour.....lighten her load!....(meaning YOU) .....DIVORCE!!!!!!...i would kick your *** too if you'd have done that to me!
shame on you! |
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mavericksfarts
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if i was your wife i would divorce you too. no wonder she has let herself go reading the way you talk about her. she has no reason to make an effort for you when all you do is put her down and think about cheating on her, i hope she leaves you and finds someone else, you dont deserve her. |
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Alsanja
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I'm not surprised she wants a divorce. First of all you compliment a good-looking woman in front of her, then you come on this site and tell everyone how bad she looks. I am sure she will find a better man than you, who will appreciate her for what she is, not how she looks! |
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Dani
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Discretion is the better part of manners as well as valor. A gentleman's first duty is to ensure the comfort of those who depend on him I. E. your wife. You didnt do anything truly wrong, but your choice was not a wise one either. |
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Kat G
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Your poor wife. You are your own worst enemy buddy. How many compliments a day do you pay your wife? None right, if your wife let herself go there is more to the story. She is depressed and you are not winning the husband of the year award. What you did was rude and disrespect full. I would have left you at the restaurant. If I was her I would be planing on 2 things 1. seeing a lawyer
2. joining a gym.
Men like you are a dime a dozen. |
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~NIKKI~
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Well if it offends her and you continue to do it in front of her than you are wrong. However you have eyes and will always notice beautiful women until the day you die, there is nothing that anyone can do to stop that. that is normal, what is not normal is if you touch the woman or get into intimate conversations with another woman. Just try not to compliment women in front of your wife if it bothers her. I personally would rather my husband do it in front of me and it would not bother me at all but everyone is different and you must respect your wife's feelings. That is kind of crazy that she dragged you around with your ear like you are a child! strange. that would be considered a physically abusive relationship and maybe you should leave |
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Sara S
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Now do you think that your wife would ever give a guy a compliment like that? Think about how she was feeling when you gave that girl a compliment. Even though she has gained a lot of weight, you should either love her or leave her. If you think that she looks that bad and you don't feel attracted to her anymore, then you should get a divorce. |
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irene c
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Do you have anything between your ears apart from hot air.You certainly have a swinging brick for a heart.Have you ever thought she knows and feels terrible about her weight.Instead of pulling her down why don't you build her confidence up and encourage her to tidy her self up.
As far as counselling goes it's you who need it. |
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robert x
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That will teach you to keep your big mouth shut lol |
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Ellie
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Serves you right you insensitive oik- good job your weren't my hubby- i would have stapled your nuts to the floor and then kicked your head in. |
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gordon3392
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I would have ordered Spagetti and put it in your lap ,,,,you got of light now say sorry to your wife and wash up for a month,,,,, |
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