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I would like some advice I am in love with a married man I have been seeing .both of us are unhappy at home?

He left his E-mail open and his wife read them. So he has been in trouble she contacted me. I lied for him and then he stop seeing me saying we need to take a break. So I sent all the e-mail from him to his wife told her everything . I felt like he covering himself but leaving me out to dry,after he says he loved me but where was the love when the situation got hot .So we got into a fight and he says he does not want to talk to me again.I am angry more at myself for not being more careful, but i am still in luv with him . I feel he was the one we were so perfect together.


    




Mandy
I am in a similar situation. I am also in love with a married man, but I can honestly say that if that situation happened to me I would have also covered for him, and then I would've stepped back and let him deal with his marriage himself, and if he decided to leave his wife on his own terms , then so be it. But what you did was really crossing the line and completely rude, and backstabbing, why would you do this to someone you "love". You knew when you started this affair that you were the other woman, and that he wouldn't be able to devote himself completely to you, and you accepted that. And then for you to turn around and completely change your mind about having an affair and keeping it a secret from his wife, and back stab him, I am betting he's regretting ever risking his marriage for you. Because in his time of need when he's going through the worst moment in his marriage instead of supporting him, you chose to poor gas on the fire....

I don't blame him at all for no longer wanting to talk to you.


IceQueen
Seriously....whats wrong with you? Isn't the wedding band a signal to stay away??? Home-wrecker


blueberry
there must be a reason why there re so many nice single guys out there, get the drift?


Real Talk....Ya dig
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You stupid fool......... And I say that because you fell for the OKEY DO KE!!! It wouldn't have mattered if she NEVER FOUND OUT, why the hell would she leave her man so some floosie to benefit from all the hard work she's put into getting him where she wants him. TOO FUNNY!!! You fell and now you look dumb as a box of rocks!!!!!


revenge
cheaters never prosper. i hope you get exactly what you deserve.


molly 3/17/09
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you have made your bed.


Death
IceQueen said it Best!


HOME-WRECKER!!!!!


The difference
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What a tangled web we weave and you got your leg caught up. What did you think? You would secretly meet and nobody would know? Its a sick lie. Its better that its out and in the light otherwise there's no hope for either of your marriages nor any future. He has been beat down in marriage and now in love as well. First of all I have to say, I don't believe it is love when people cheat but more of an exhaling to have someone "anyone" to speak with and share. By you outing him, he is now forced to face the trial of his marriage with indisputable evidence of his actions. He should NOT see you again. He should do you the same favor. The truth shall set you free. You practice deceit yet want truth? Nice notion but not real. he has a chance in his marriage, now you should work on rebuilding yours and hope he doesn't speak with YOUR husband. Happiness is not found but built.


claire
heres the thing you 2 stupid idiots done.messing with a married person.why even go to that route anyway.i'm sorry to be harsh but you should've thought about the mess that would soon happen.why didnt you just leave your spouse?if you're not happy then why stay?why mess with a married man period?you 2 married your spouses, why?are you sure hes not happy with his marriage?or he was just feeding you BS just to get that stuff?cause he hasnt left the wife has he?he is still with her.hmmmm!!!and you're still with yours,right?man,I hope that your mess soon get found out.cause you should do the right thing and not the wrong thing.why mess up his marriage?you lied for him and now the rendavou is over.thats what makes you furious.he didnt leave you out to dry you done it to yourself.so just leave him alone.your such a dough dough head!!!use your brain next time.....


Rotten Oranges
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I think you feel so strongly for him because he's unattainable. And with time, I bet those feelings and the pain you feel will go away. But you have to let him go. If he felt the same way you do, then he would have left his wife. He's not going to leave her, so you need to leave him - emotionally, mentally, and bodily.


pumpkin
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he doesn't care about you - probably never was, and never will....
you are his fu** buddy....
he is not worth the drama and irritation!
Try to think only about the bad times with him and about how such big as**** he is - this kind of thinking helped me to get over!
K





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