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IS MY HUSBAND HIDING SOMETHING? What do you think?

Okay - I need opinions here. My husband for the last year sleeps with his cell phone in his pocket. It used to be he kept it on the charger like most normal people but now he charges it in the morning or at work. Does this seem strange to anyone to sleep with your cell phone on your body?
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P.S. He has a CRICKET so no detailed phone records are possible at all. I asked him about it and he said he always falls asleep with it in his pocket since it's on him all the time. I don't know what to do.....


    




Brent
He certainly doesn't shower with it. Find it then and check what you want to check.


cocoa
Get a hold of his cell phone! Years ago my husband was like that and really secretive about his phone. Well, one day I heard the vibration of the phone while he was in the shower and the caller was listed as "my girl". I was so upset and hurt. He denied it but I busted him by copying down the number and called and confronted the other woman. Be suspicious of everything and eventually the truth will come out.


Brutally Honest
Odd yes...and slightly paranoiac.

Have you checked the cell phone records? THAT would be the surest way to tell if he's getting a LOT of calls at odd hours from a number you don't recognize.


Debbie D
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Definitely strange. I would guess there is something on that phone he wants to make SURE you don't see.


vicki o
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Sounds strange. He may not want you to look at who has called or who he is calling. Get the phone bill and check for frequently called and answered numbers. Better yet, why not just ask him straight out if there is some need to be doing this.


ndnqt1966
Just a bit strange.....guess he is afraid of missing that important call from whomever he is cheating with...or afraid that you will answer the phone instead.

EDIT: He has an answer for everything huh? How convenient that there is no detailed call history available...How convenient that you can't see the number of who is calling. He is full of it by saying that he has to have the phone on him...because he is use to it being in his pocket all day....DO YOUR REALLY BELIEVE THIS CRAP??


Jen S
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i think hes hiding something..deffinetly a red flag!


SiCnGaged
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I would be worried. A normal guy literally forgets where his cell phone is. Maybe hes trying to hide calls or something. Get to the bottom of it and Good Luck <3


Kaboom
If that were my husband, I would tease him about it. Take it out of his pocket.....He wears pockets to bed???? I would look in it. I would want to know what was so special about his phone.....very strange, I think text messages, photos and some other things are in there.....get the phone woman, you can do it. Then let us know what you find.


Dan
Yes he is hiding something. I would call your provider, and get a detail list of all calls, and messages.


Love my babies
What do you think?? Is this normal for your hubby to sleep with his self phone like a teddy bear??? Of course not.. what you can do is find out online about the calls he make it should be to a certain numeber call that number & find out !!! FOR me to see my hubby sleeping with his celll phone will be way strange.. Good luck !!!


Mathsorcerer
He may not be hiding anything, but that behavior is really bizarre.

hrm...perhaps he likes the "vibrate" setting. I don't know.


kat
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Yup.


♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥
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Slip him a sleeping pill so he is good and asleep and then take the phone..... he is hiding something ....or should I say someone BIG TIME. Tell him to either produce the phone or find another place to sleep.


*♥Beauty is pain♥*
Um...yes it is very odd


♥♥♥
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yes very strange


growing inside
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Get him a new phone for his birthday or something, one with a screen that works..


Livin&#39; Life As Mama and Wife
Have you asked your husband why he does this? My husband uses his for an alarm clock, plus he sleeps on the couch most nights due to his shoulder surgery...I don't really question it....but I know why he keeps his cell near him at night.....so try asking your husband...if he can't give you a good answer, then it's time to start worrying.


MissLiss
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confront him saying you thing it is a little weird...and it is a little weird. If he has nothing to hide he'll laugh it off or let you look at the phone. If he's hiding stuff you'll know by how he responds. Id defiantly get ahold of that phone.


cope_acetic
Yep.
Sneak it out sometime & see WHAT he's hiding.


Gena
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Fix him. Buy him a new cricket phone!! LOL. Seriously he sounds kinda fishy to me. Anyone that wants to hide something has something to hide!!


Ruth B
yes it is odd.........that your husband sleeps in clothing that has pockets.........and definately that he would rather cuddle with his cell phone than with his wife. He is hiding something........or some-one! get to the bottom of this or it will drive you crasy. Just ask him straight up if he is seeing anyone or why he sleeps with his phone.


1GR8GRL
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Absolutely...
You can check it, but like most guys hiding something, they delete everything as they get or send it. You can hire a private investigator to find out for you, get online through your carrier for your monthly statements, ask him for complete honesty even if it hurts or wait it out. Everything, and I mean everything comes out sooner or later. He'll mess up eventually. They always do. In the meantime you should do what every woman needs to be doing... building a nest egg, working out, going out with the girls once in a while, making yourself look and feel good. When was the last time you did something for you? Go get a new wardrobe, hairdo, etc. Everytime he hides his phone, stay up later than him and email your friends. Make him be the one who's guessing... He'll start to notice you more... and so will you.


lovebug386
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Yep, totally strange. I would confront him about it...


STRAIGHTUP
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Have you talked to him? Why dont you just ask him not to do that. Tell him you dont like it and ask him to stop sleeping with the phone in his pocket (he wears pockets to bed?) It might just be a bad habbit since you've allowed it to go on for a year without mentioning to him that it "bothers" you.. Talk b4 you go accusing him. COMMUNICATION


WORKING OLDER SMARTER BLONDE
is this the only isolated case of oddity or is there more?


CuitePie
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Not only is it strange, but very suspicious. Sounds like he has something to hide. Have you asked him about it? Have you checked the cell phone records? I hate to say it, but your gut is probably right, he is hiding something....the million dollar question is, what is it??


muzicchiq
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I have known people that sleep with their phone in their pocket. But since he has never done it before, it sounds fishy. I saw ask him up front as to why he wants to keep the phone in his pocket. If he doesnt give you a straight forward awnser and you still feel a bit uncomfortable, check the phone bill, or look at his phone when he is in the shower or something. If he is hiding something from you so secretive, i think as his wife you have the right to know.


mamabear
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That is weird. Start checking his cell phone records.


sheloves_dablues
Sounds fishy to me.


Valerie X
Yes, it is very strange!


hanna
after 29 yrs of living wit a downlow man hunni hes cheating no need to ask just find out who normally someone you know or someone hes met through work or internet they say why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free .. i say why buy the entire pig for alittle sausage move on girl do it back make him wonder


Bob brown
Sounds like the trust is gone. Might as well get a divorce right away. If you dont trust him, dont waste your time or his. If you cared youd have asked him instead of us. Just get a divorce so you can find someone you trust and he can find someone he feels comfortable letting into his life.


crazylovely
My boyfriend started does that too, he is very secretive with his phone. I finally got a hold of it one night, and well there was a text from an ex-girlfriend, whom he claimed he hadn't spoken to since their break up. I confronted him on it and he claimed it was a random text and that he doesn't respond to her. But I don't believe him so today I purchased Spybubble to install on his phone, I plan to find out what is going on. I know it will only cause me great hurt but I need a slap of reality! I sugest you buy it too.





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