Iam so mad of my gf but she is not much interested in me, can i marry her? will she change & love me as before?

Lyn

you shouldn't make her fall in love with you, that's how she feels.
If she's not interested in you, don't take such a big risk.
It's like marrying an uninterested stranger.
Move on, fall in love again, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Or talk to her about it, she was ready to marry another guy, don't take that!
I'm sorry to say, but move on.

Vegetarian Rockstar

It's not your choice to decide if you can marry her, it's hers.

omgzlawl

no. just no.

amberly

you cant force anyone to marry you

skborne

You are in no condition to marry someone if you are confused and desperate. I suggest you take a "break" from the situation, and do a little self-examination. Find out what your real needs are. Give up being angry at her and yourself for what you see as a failed & bad situation.

Seek out a trusted adult friend and talk about your feelings. This is not about her so much as it is about you. In order to get your life together, you need to look in the mirror and begin there. Don't try to "fix" or convince people around you to change and adjust to what you need. Fear not. No matter how bad things seem now, there will be a new tomorrow with better things ahead.

Finally- never, ever seek counsel from anonymous strangers from the internet. Odds are, you'll be given foolish and unwise answers.

-With Peace & Love,
A

James K

Move on...

honeyy

Something like this shouldnt be taken to a next level. You need to understand that this girl is no longer interested in you and is about to marry some other man. If she's not interested anymore she wouldnt want you pushing yourself to her and into marriage. Marry someone who is willing to marry you! dont settle for someone who cant give back the feelings you feel for them. Be a man and move on.

Pooks

don't be ridiculous! let her be and move on...she is giving you a wake up call and you are in fantasy land.

jewel

talk 2 her....n tell her how much u love her n that after being saperated frm her u realised u cant live without her...she is scared coz u left her once for ur parents so whats d guarantee u wont do that again or after marriage will always be on their side if there is a tiff.....tell her that she means alot 2 u as ur parents and u were not fair enough to leave one for d other for no fault of theirs...

CurlyGirly

Well... you cant get someone to love you. I am sorry but if she is not interested then you might need to move on. You need someone to love you! If she is confused then she is not "the one". I think you should just move on!

Natalie

I think you should tell her how you feel. You obviously really love her. If she wants to take you back then she will, but if she doesn't you cant force her.
Good Luck

Katie P

No! If she's not in love with you and she wants to marry another guy you as a guy have ever right to go out another girl. Don't stop loving her just because she wants to marry someone more interesting than you. And if her parents don't want you to marry her don't sit there and wait go out and look for someone new.

Kimpot

Dont be rush,marriage is a serious matter.If you are confused/ doubt wait till all your hang ups are gone away, or you'll be sorry in the later part.

Vick

now she loves some1 else and was sooo close to marry him....i'm sorry to say buh she wont love u the way she use to...infact i don't think if she will marry u now...and if she does....she probably wont love u and care about u the way she use to...

Petros

2 years is a long time...good luck.....if you ask me...that word LOVE....its a hard thing to get from a woman..and people do not change...they pretend they do

raywa c

you cant force anyone to marry you or love you

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