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If You found out that Your boyfriend/husband was cheating on You, how would You handle the situation?
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If You found out that Your boyfriend/husband was cheating on You, how would You handle the situation?

Also, is He worth a second chance?


    




Muffin the Mule
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I did & kicked him straight out followed by divorce


Rich
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NO second chance life is too short to look over your shoulder. Not giving the second chance is how I would handle it. Walk away and dont look back


Janet W
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Nobody is worth a second chance after they cheat. It shows a character that is unworthy of anyone's devotion. I deserve so much better becaue I am a good person who would never cheat on anyone.


what are you
Well my ex wife did cheat so i went out and got laid and she couldn't stand it and left

Second chance for what ? To do it again ?


neednomore00
I would have to leave. I wouldn't run out and get a divorce if it were my husband, but I'd definitely leave and get my own house or apartment. He would not be aloud there. If kids were involved, I'd bring them to his house. It's a must to put some time and space between people when an affair has happen. If you don't server ties he'll never realize how bad life would be without you. If a man doesn't fear losing his woman after an affair he'll do it over and over again.


sarah
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There would be lots of yelling and screaming and thrown out all his stuff on the front porch.
He's my husband, so I probably would give him one more chance, but only if he agreed to counseling (which he HATES)


Liz
I am sorry that this happened to you.I did find out & I left him. Thing is how long & how many others has this happened with & are you only finding out about it now? Once a cheater,always a cheater. For me there is no forgiving. The trust is shattered & without trust there is no relationship.


Queen of Beer
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Leave them ASAP.


CatNip
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I would give him the boot! Only a person with no respect for them self would tolerate that kind of behavior from their supposed bf/husband. Besides, any trust that you had would be completely destroyed, which means a dead relationship.


Magic 8 Ball (Call me BILF)
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My husband is worth the second chance, but I am probably too stubborn to give it to him. He wouldn't give me a second chance either. In that way, we are very well matched.


WOWZA!
it depends on how it happened. If it were a random hook up then I might be able to forgive him because I'd blame myself for not satisfying him but if it were an on going other relationship that I found out about...I probably wouldn't give him another chance.





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