If a married person is going to cheat, is he/she more likely to cheat with another married person or a single?

Sue C

I feel you'd likely cheat more so with another married person. Why? They stand to loose as much as you do, & are going to keep things "under wraps" more so that someone who is single & has nothing to loose should it find a way of "leaking out" A single person doesn't have that situation to concern themselves with...:)

cass5

any port in a storm! :D

nora

why? are you trying to find someone who is cheating? they cheat on whoever they are attracted to.

thanks to our brave troops,

i like the married ones better there is no commitment in it that way ,, just wham bamm

Vek

Whichever is available?

SWEET MILDRED

Men go single
Women go married

Jackie

first come first served!

Steven K

50-50%. But two married persons can arrange the time-table of their affair more difficult then if one of them is single.

our2joy

who cares who they cheat with the point is they do

YourHotOne

Am I going to be graded on my answer? (sorry, it sounds like some kind of test question). I don't think it matters....they cheat with whosoever boosts their ego and meets their needs; marital status not important.

barbie_babii

In most cases the "cheater" goes for a single person, not another married one.

Kiely M

A man I think is more likely going to cheat with someone single. A woman, I say they are more likely to cheat with a married person.

Softtouchmale

If someone's going to philander while married, they are just as likely to play with a single person as a married person.

However, for married people, its best to go with someone who is already married too. Why? Because when the two of you are not available, it makes the relationship inconvenient and it also creates the impression in both partners that their relationship will last. Without any intent to get out of present marriages, there's a slim possibility that the relationship will last at all.

Other married people only philander with married people because of the mutual assured destruction principle. Both parties stand equal chance of losing, so its a safer relationship than say with a single person who will do some real damage.

Reasonably Speaking

A married person is likely to cheat with someone that views him or her in a positive fantastical way that their current spouse no longer does because the current spouse lives a "real" life with that married person. Remember that couples tend to share a bathroom; meaning that he may be on the toilet making worldly noises while she is in the shower or putting on her makeup.

The married couple gets to see one another in plain view on a day-to-day basis (warts and all). At the end of the day, they have more real things to manage such as cleaning the house, pooling their financial resources to pay the bills and dealing with their children if they have any.

The lover has a rose-colored-glasses view of the married person since everything about their relationship is based in fantasy. A married person chooses a lover that will look up to them the way their spouse no longer does.

It all boils down to "how does that person make you feel" when you're with him or her. That's what fuels and energizes an affair. A good dose of reality puts a real damper on that.

Jackie

That strictly depends on whether the person is married or not, that turns them on. Who ever turns them on is the one they will cheat with. More times than not, it is a single person.

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Single or married is irrelevant. It's the person who's situation makes it convenient for them to cheat that they're going to go with.

stubby

generally , the answer is no, a single attractive female in her mid twenties, will generally seek out a gentlemen target and work her wills on him, a married female , rather still steaming from her current relationship.can go either way, she will often seek out a younger male to exploit him and run the gambit to for-fill her desires until she has met the one that sparks her Fantasy and is strong enough to separate, interesting, a married woman will seek out a married man, to confide in and subconsciously, act as a surrogate wife to meet his needs and induce her own feelings of intimacy and the need of being wanted,,where as a married male, in most instances, will fall to the temptations of the ad fore mentioned,,

living star

It depends on the eyes of the beholder.If flirting comes from either single or married it doesn't matter.
A married person usually doesn't want the drama so they look for singles so all attention is focus on them.

tara

Well if the married person who is cheating is smart..they would cheat with a married person who is less likely to get attached cuz they are married too...cuz a married person who cheats with a single person is more likely to get caught cuz the single person would eventually want a commitment that they obviously cant have cuz the person is married and then start drama..and if the married person who is cheating was really smart...they wouldnt cheat at all...

Nick

Well, without getting into the moral issues of cheating ... my opinion is if a married person is going to cheat it makes more sense to cheat with someone who has just as much to lose.

Not My Real Name or Face

Anyone with a brain only would cheat with another married person. That way you both have something to lose and the single one is not putting pressure on to leave your spouse.

sunshynedayze

I think if a married person is going to cheat, first of all he/she should not be married. I also think that in most cases if they would cheat on their spouse then it really wouldnt matter if it was with another married person. I suppose if they had to pick married or single then my guess would be with another married person because it's "safe". They wouldnt have to worry about the other wanting a relationship. I dont agree with it either way. We should always put ourselves in our spouses shoes and ask ourself if we want want to be treated that way.

Sunny

Oh, please! If you follow the rule of cheating ONLY with married people, you'll never get caught. They are the last ones to want to tell!

Nehru

May be.Such persons are not trustworthy.

love

Cheating is nothing but lack of faith we have for each other nobody is cheater but he/she have lost confidence on each other your behavior will change your faith and will name as CHEAT

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