If a woman suspects her husband of infidelity is it not the wife who is unfaithfull?

Melissa R

Emotionally unfaithfully, yes. She would have lost faith in the actions of the spouse.

The answers so far are addressing only the concept that being "unfaithful" is a physical act. This is inaccurate.

Tavimama

Absolutely not - and to blame her is an attempt to wheedle out of a situation of your own making. Be a man and be honest.

mandie

No, stop trying to put the blame on her.

Been There Done That

NO!!!! That is far from the truth

datzecho

Not if her suspicions are warrented. If your cheating she can feel it. Woman are good like that at times. HOWEVER, if she feels your cheating but you are NOT IN ANY WAY CHEATING, yes, in the sense of FAITH, she is UNFAITHFULL TO YOU because she has no faith in you.

Bluebell

Of course not.

preciosalabella

not really.

BabeHeart

Only in the respect that she doesn't have faith that her husband is being loyal. A more appropriate term would be mistrustful.

If she's wrong...they need to talk about the lack of trust and how to remedy that.

If she's right...they need to talk about who gets what in the divorce.

faeorain

This question is a bit confusing...but it you are asking if a woman is being unfaithful by not trusting her husband...then the answer is no...that is not what being unfaithful means. She may have trust issues....but if she's not cheating...she is not being unfaithful. If the man you speak of is really not cheating...perhaps he needs to have a long talk with his wife about the trust issues...and if that does not work, they can try marriage counseling....or maybe even counseling for her to figure out why she has a problem with trust.

nite_angelica

Nope, because usually when a woman suspects he's cheating, he is.

All people should follow their gut instincts, but hey that's a good shot at trying to turn everything around a make it the woman's fault. lol... cute.

laplandfan

No it is the cheating person that's unfaithful surely?

Mr. Ball

No
its just suspecting. Nothing wrong with wondering whats happening. So many people get cheated on now days i don't blame anybody for being a little cautious now days, man or woman.

Charles c

Not always but i understand you cause sometimes it is that way.

jenn

NO!!

MOMof2

I know what you are saying.."the guilty are always the accusers"... but that's not true. There can be many reasons why a person would suspect someone other than being guilty themselves.

Chichou

Either so, or that your behavior gives her reasons to suspect you

Mean Carleen

Duh!

D'archangel

Of course not. Suspicion does not prove one's own guilt, it merely indicates a lack of trust. But since trust is something that one earns from other people -- not that they are supposed to just give you -- a man whose wife suspects him of infidelity clearly has not earned her trust. Or perhaps he earned it, lost it (due to infidelity, perhaps?) and has yet to earn it back.

Johndude

Yes defo

Keith R

Very often that is the case.

Some of your female answerer's are not too bright.

Girly1

I suspected my bf of cheating and I was faithfull. I later got a phone call that told me everything, I kicked him to the curb and never looked back. I'm married now and have been for 10 years. We are both faithfull to each other.

gilly g